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kisses fluffylump

thats from my brain

But if a woman thinks you DONT want to screw her she may feel unnatractive, unfeminine etc...

Look, I'm not there, I dont know what's going on pre date etc... But I certainly dont jump into bed with a guy HOWEVER, if I get on with him and WANT to have sex with him I might be open and perhaps fairly obvious (I'm not a 'making moves' kind of girl, but there's ways to let a guy know you're interested) about the fact. If I'm secure that he wants to see me again, I'll probably hold off and let it happen slower.

I still reckon that if EVERY girl you've had a date with has jumped straight to sex with you then there's an issue here that either you're giving out signals that make women act this way or you're picking out the wrong women in the first place. These cycles are rarely external or unchangeable... Perhaps you're not really ready yet?

cleo_dazzler, thanks.



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>>> But if a woman thinks you DONT want to screw her she may feel unnatractive, unfeminine etc... <<<

Those are the ones to avoid. It's the ones that can accept you'll get around to them when you're good and ready, *then* make them the only woman you've ever been with, would ever want, they're the ones worth the bother.



>>> EVERY girl <<<

Nah, there was one, once. She sent a strange no sense e-mail a couple of days later. She knew the 'kids' situation yet still went out with me? Why she just could not say she didn't fancy me, I don't know, would have been simpler for both of us.



>>> then there's an issue here that either you're giving out signals that make women act this way or you're picking out the wrong women in the first place <<<

Can't I just be fit?!






You can't have it both ways!


>>> But if a woman thinks you DONT want to screw her she may feel unnatractive, unfeminine etc... <<<

And...

>>> an issue here that either you're giving out signals that make women act this way <<<


Yoi can't get a women intersed if she don't see you as a sexual being that will leap into bed. I've tried!

Say you are looking for long term, and you'll not get a reply. Even the prospect of a long term 'friends with benefits' don't work. Women just want a quick fix, yes you are pretty, yes somebody would want you, yes you are overweight for your height but somebody would *do* you anyway; but he's a nice chap so he may acctuall mean it if she says you're nice; not just about "getting his rocks off."




>>> Perhaps you're not really ready yet? <<<



Sounds like the words of some I've come accross when not getting my attention. Not that I just don't want to be with *them*.

As for >>> picking out the wrong women <<< Women pick men, leave it to a bloke to pick a woman, he'd get lost in the rock garden.

*coughs*

This is the willy thread, and as such there is no room for this fanning around, back to the penis please!

Mine is out and about this evening and is being really slutty


RJR

Anyone been listneing to the BBC Radio four programs this week about sex? didn't agree with a lot of what was being said on the last bit of it I listened to... very prudish did they seem, I'm definately going to try abstain from any sexual activity for a while, after last night well... maybe...

I'm a libra - I knew that she would break my heart, I just didnt expect it to be so bluddy soon! Damn redheaded girls leading you on...but Scorpios can be so attractive, what with being passionate and exciting and enthusiastic.

And speaking of willies, I haven't got laid since August 1st. Woe.

You think you've got problems BEG?

I reckon I've healed up!

>> kisses fluffylump

thats from my brain <<

Is that your left brain or your right brain?

RF

You left your brain where?









Well, I had to *do* something to be all hairy and man like, *grunt*, *grunt*

Somehow I think she'd have a far better put down anyway. Women are always right... Pssst, they are all mad, they'd have to be.

Spot the bloke that ain't done nuffin since, well let's put it this way Tony Blair Prime Minister.

I'm so tempted to post a link to the profile for the woman I was out with last Saturday... Let the world see who I managed to not for what? Lack of trust in what she was saying.

I have a penis, it's for using. But it's this want for 'relationship sex' that is to say avoid dipping in every pot of honey ones spoon.

darlin, you cant have it both ways either, either wait for the women who talk like they want more, or make do with the ones it's easy to get out on a date!

As for my penis, it's fine but a little under-used... But we had fun with it last night.. That's what house-sitting is for! New rooms! New furniture!

http://www.kontraband.com/show/show.asp?sf=y&id=6042

Just copy and paste the link into your address bar. Enjoy, you'll know what God knows about our male obsessions. For the rest of the guys on here, God knows! So stop it!

i think this was on tv a while ago, very interesting and i was surprise, given his obvious difficulty with the size of his penis, that he wanted to go on tv and talk about it! personally i feel that penis size may be a preoccupation of most men (although i haven't researched this!!!). think it may be a 21st century phenomenon due to men's diminished role in society. they don't know who they are supposed to be anymore - hence the preoccupation with the focus of their masculinity - their penis. perhaps if they were allowed to explore themselves a bit more their penis size may become less important?

So, close down the abbatoirs and get hunting groups together again, get the men building houses for us and then they can stop worrying about the size of their bits and perhaps they'll even stop leering at women, driving oversized, overpowered cars and so on... ?

to the contrary - men need to develop a new notion of what it is to be male - not the machismo permeated by our history - but a new, improved maleness which encompasses all those things that men weren't supposed to do or feel. it's the stereotypical rubbish and the inability to express the inner man that's the problem - i love men and want them to be as able to explore themselves as women are able to.

HAHAHA!

Good answer! I agree!


Although I would question just HOW much women as a whole are really able to express themselves, a lot of women are still very much hooked into something they feel they should be, even if it's being 'young' 'exciting' and 'a bit bad'... Or 'mum' or 'career woman' or 'crazy out there chick'..

Oh, we have choices, but so do men...

Men, the new women.

What, exploited, underpaid, undervalued and discriminated against?

Cool, why not?

Tee hee, I just can't resist this - Know your place second class citizen! (Pulls the pin and )

I just assume you're talking to that person in the mirror again Norti... You usually are when bad things fall from your mouth

Although if anything having an 'above average' member can be more of a disadvantage...'Someone I Know' has had women go "No" after seeing the size of his member, and we're not talking John Holmes (the dead porn star , *not* the comedian ) proportions here...