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Mina, what do you mean by "always count it as"? How many Virginities have you had?
Born again, and again, and again.....

Well if it hurt Mina when she sneezed I was wondering if she'd got the right place

I think that in some respects sex is like anything else you do - it gets better the more you do it. If you think about it, most people are crap at anything the first time they do it.

Not sure what to say to that DD.

Now I'm embarrassed.

I have the amusing situation of being in an all girls' school, positioned within 15 yards of an all boys' school. Now that's funny.

Well it had to be said you were a little vague. Had to be clarified.

Clarify what, exactly?
I'll be clearer if you like.

Well I'me presuming you mean like with like and now at a totally different part of teh body.

I'm confused now, if I wasn't before.
I've lost the plot I think.

Eh?

Will DD be clearer if he waits for 45 seconds and retries?

I'm caught between wanting it to happen at the right time, with the right person and as soon as possible.

Don't rush it! Making love with the right person is the greatest feeling in the world - it'll stay with you a hell of a lot longer than a quick fumble.

And even if it is a fumble if you wait for the right moment it'll still be memorable.

Why is it just me that enjoys sex more now that I'm not in love?
I do like the bloke I sleep with, in fact I was obsessed with him for a while, but it's not love. And I only want to see him for that reason, unless we happen to meet in a group.

I agree Mina. At least in theory, having been married so long I really ought to shut up in this forum. I just love the song by Hart "All I wanna do is make love to you". It expresses very well what it's all really about. If I had to give any advice to a young girl it would be, have a child or two very early and then jettison the bloke. You'll manage somehow and you'll come out of it a better person. Failing that, wait until near 40 before thinking about babies.

Right, that should have thrown a match among the fireworks

Make sure the bloke hangs around enough to have the kids while you go out though.
Although my ex gets on my nerves, it is nice to know my kid is well looked after while I am out out on the piss.

Dear Courtney!

A couple of your earlier postings make absolutely no sense to me whatsoever:

"He was mad about his friend being the one I was having it with".
Why would he be mad about that?

And this madness led to beating the "friend" up???
He was lucky to be a "friend" of your brother then, wasn't he?

Did you consider stopping your brother?

I have three sisters myself (and a brother BTW). I would never ever interfere in their love-lifes. Their "first times" might be crappy - but who would I be to judge who they had them with?

Obviously not all siblings are as understanding as you Pierce.