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Get the tonsils taken out later- then you'll never have the problem again.

Always good to get them out

Wattaray

yea

This conversation has been running for > 2 years......wow.

It is our job to see it run + run......Is sex good for exam revision??

Troubled student

Wattaray

Depends what you're revising!

Ultimately, sex is good. It's fun.

I like sex.

It can be a good reward - sort of like we'll do half an hours revision and then hump like bunnies for a while and then back to revision.

sex is always good and yea it helps relax you
cuz revision is boring and can really stress you out!!

I don't know what 'revisions' are, being a USian, but sex is good for what ails 'ya! Or rather, it is a good cure for what ails 'ya, which actually means it's bad for what ails you... ermmm.... where was I? Oh yes, writing my thesis....

lets face it sex is just awesome full stop
LOL

too true, dead man, too true ^_^

"Revision" is getting ready for an exam or test - where you go over or "revise" what you've learned.

Hmmm...sex exams....

the revision would b good for sex exams!!!!!

Trying to keep it going so here's the question,

Which do you prefer
Getting a bit offered late at night
or
being on a promise for later tonight from early morning ?

Definitely getting the bit offered late at night, since the promise in the morning can fall through before evening if other events intervene...

Hmm, in my experience a promise from the morning never usually gets to the evening - for many different reasons!

Mind you, we're pretty spontaneous and tend not to do the whole plan/promise thing.

i can go all nite so it all the same LOL

Bit in the night is better definately. Like someone up there said, morning promises can (and usually do) fall through...but even if you get a bit less sleep at night it's well worth it lol

It's been some time since I was with anybody, getting on for four and a half years.

As for the last relationship, there was sex, morning, noon, and night! Usually at night, and to give you a clue, if it had not happened in the mornig aswell, and I'd be sat having a coffee in the garden, 'she' would come and have a play with the old boy, to get me back to the bedroom.



Last week I finally got around to doing the 'test thing' only to prove what I already knew, that I've never had anyththing, ever to worry about, sexual health ways.

I think people should 'test' between partners, then I'm not casual about matters of the penis.

There is a somebody I fancy on this planet, just the one, (from an on-line dating site) and I'd make her bandy given half a chance, but it's not worked out that way.

Well that's what I was saying before the test. When we met, I failed to show her any sort of passion...

She looked nothing like her photos, she looked way better, and I managed to say things all wrong for it.

We never really got to chat much, I'd not advise anybody to do a first date at a Cinema!

Still, I find I can't look at another woman, and can't stop thinking about the woman I met; but now find I want her as my friend, I want her as a mate, yes if she started something in 'that way', I'd love it, I love her anyway.



Now here is a questions...

1. Why can't I just go off with anthoer woman, ones that are offering sex, telling me "not to live like a monk?"

2. Why don't I want just sex?

3. Why when I think I should try and talk to other women, with a view to getting a friendship going, involving 'dates' like going to the cinema, a meal now and again, all the good stuff without the hassel of a relationship where 'romance' comes into things. I'm am stuck, are they going to put up with me not wanting sex?



The main thing I'd like to know...

Would a woman really be able to be with a man that can show affection, be my gentelman self, attentive, even hugs and maybe a cuddle, but not want to leap into bed for sex?

What is worng with me?

duuno mate im sure its not just u!!!

Personally, i think the problem is this:

*If* you are really into someone; ie "love" stuff, it's highly likely that the "love" feeling gets all mixed up with the sex feeling; you want to express the love stuff physically & inevitably get turned on if the other person is around. Which is all jolly convenient unless the other person, for whatever reason,is "off" sex. Then it all gets very yukky & confused, because even if there's an agreement "OK, put sex on hold, but keep the cuddle/affection stuff...." there is going to be frustration & probably insecurity & resentment.

Can't win, 'cos if they do kisses & cuddles, you naturally expect it to lead to more. If they cut down on the cuddly stuff because of this, you start seriously wondering why you are bothering to continue...

zdt

T&Y: The cuddle question did come up once. I took it that she was mocking the women that said (on the dating site) they want to stay in and watch a DVD have a cuddle. The real question I think was could I do it with a stranger.

No would be the answer, cuddles are for those that had shared something was my first thougt. Well I was brutal in saying "it'd be easier once you'd knobbed somebody."

Much later I changed my thoughts on this, and that people should "go easy" on those not just after sex, but still to cuddle a stranger, far too odd.



I do agree that to cuddle somebody and for it to not lead to more can cause issues. In this case, the bother to coninue, I'd be getting a good mate, even if she went on to find somebody, then I'd be glad my mate was happy.


Why I'm saying what's wrong with me is I have a mate and he does not "bother" full stop. Don't know if he ever has, don't care it's non of my bussiness. I also have a cousin that has shut down that way too.

And when approached on the dating site, I just want the one I want to talk to me, to make it OK, how mad is that?

I also have tested myself time and time again, by looking at a range of 'adult dating' sites, and to find a person on there that has approached me on the regular site. So called 'nice' woman wanting to just hang out... And no way can I do that. With one exeption, if the woman I wanted was just about that I'd want to please her in that way.

Why do I want to please this woman so much, when anybody else I could not care less? And is it possible to find a mate, or would a woman always want sex?