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id involve another woman,but mywould only get to watch

probably for the best.

i doubt hed agree

I just couldn't do it. If a woman tried to get down & dirty with my fella, i'd seriously rip her face off. I'm not possessive, seriously, honestly I'm not, but his body is just for me.
I couldn't (with the acception of a few Super League players ) get intimate with another man. I'm not prudish.....c'mon i've got my dirty catalogue out only yesterday!! And i'm not against other people doing it, if they can handle the possible issues that may come along with it. Its just not for me.

<<Whats everyones opinion on inviting a third party into the bedroom??

I personally couldn't handle seeing my bloke with another woman & i certainly wouldn't & couldn't imagine myself with another bloke whilst my fella watched on.>>

I wouldn't mind doing either. My boyf said that he wouldn't mind another girl but definitely not another guy (funny that )

This all theoretically mind you. There would have to be the right time, right person etc etc. I doubt if it will happen and enjoying everything else anyway.

Available for weddings, parties, confessional boxes....

Yeah, I bet.

What ?

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As with all sexual games people play it is obviously a personal thing. Same as asking - 'what does everyone think about anal sex?' - you already know there will be a whole variety of answers. But I guess that was what you were expecting. Lots of different answers.

Mine is simply that I enjoy having sex with my partner - it's a personal and private matter that we share together. I'm not interested in having an audience nor other participants. But I can understand others who might enjoy this. Whatever consenting adults enjoy together is nothing I would ever judge.

I only get upset about sexual practices that involve either animals or small children.

az

Or non-consenting adults . . .

az

I think we are all agreed the afore mentioned paractises are not something we want to discuss. Children, animals, Hard Drugs, have no place here.

Apart from rampant rabbits I hope!

Was that a joke, Alfster?


az

Rampant Rabbits are rubbish.

They're too quick.

D'you I was just telling bf that the other day? There I was uploading photos on my 'puter, and each one was taking soooo long*, that at one stage I nipped off to the bedroom....and when I came back the darn pic STILL hadn't uploaded!



* about 3 minutes

Sigh...

Harrison Ford told me there would be days like this...

Sure, Alex, you can borrow it.

Male impotence - yes I've been there, or there when it has happened anyway. It is incredibly difficult to remind yourself that it isn't personal: it hasn't run at the sight of your cellulite. It can be tricky to handle it gracefully though - especially if you are yourself feeling rejected and inadequate.

Threes - hmmm. Actually, yes. But it depends on the three, doesn't it? I had an brief affair once and another girl came out for a meal with us. I thought "...?" but didn't get the chance to say to my lover "I fancy her, do you fancy her?" so nothing came of it that time. Another time I was invited by one member of an established couple, but turned them down for a whole bunch of reasons, one of which was the cellulite-factor again - I didn't fancy being discussed afterwards. I suspect that threesomes work best for me when the sexual space is not entirely inwardly focussed on the experiences of the two of you. Threesomes are also a great opportunity to see what sex looks like, other than on film, oddly they can take the pressure off a bit. I'd definitely agree with Aplha-Male that threesomes need to be thought about.

Regarding animals - I don't want to go there myself, but what if the dog comes too? I mean, that is hardly non-consensual, is it?

Ben

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Please don't be stupid, Ben.


az

It's a genuine question, Az. I have problems with non-consensual sex, and there are various consensual practices I have no desire to participate in. However, sex with animals strikes me as being a difficult and grey area, which does no clearly fall into the category of non-consensual.

The terrier who humps your leg (or the furniture) is a cliche, and we all know that larger dogs will investigate your crotch because it just smells so-o-o-o-o interesting.

While taking either of those further is not - as I said - something I want to do or see other people doing - I cannot doing so to be animal-rape.

Ben

For "have problems with" please read "oppose". Sorry. I am being very diplomatic in some stuff I am writing at work, and it's spilled over here.

Ben