h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

Well of course it's not going to pick up again!!!

If we the modded don't see how what we posted was offensive, d'you think we're going to risk saying any more?

If we the mature, if somewhat frank, posters on this thread believe that any old (or young) unknown and unnamed reader can impose his or her morality on us, d'you think we're going to put ourselves in the firing line again?

And if we, the slapped-on-the-wrist brave sharers of experiences and ideas feel gagged and censored, then frankly it's not very conducive to volunteering any more thoughts or information.

On the other hand, if we don't post anymore here then that other person will have 'won' their pathetic battle.

F**k em, I say.

And so, to continue with what I was saying about threesome fantasies before I was so rudely interrupted . . . they have always been MMF, due to my own insecurities (thinking I am FAT and unattractive) so that another woman would be somehow intimidating for me.

Does anyone else feel like this?


az

az.

i agree with your thinking..
if ever i was likely to be in such a positon. not that i ever will be, its only in my dreams
i would want MMF. only because im selfish and want all the attention.. im not sharing with another woman..

i did mention this earlier and i wasnt yikesed.. maybe i will now

Onwards and upwards!



Why would another woman be intimidating for you? Even if she was good-looking etc the bloke presumably would have agreed to a MFF with you and her (lucky guy) and hence would have decided quite rightly that you are neither fat nor unattractive. You should only be intimidated if she was bisexual and did not find you attractive and in that case she would simply have no taste.

I would have thought it would be worse in an MMF where you would have the chance of two blokes finding you fat and unattractive when they should find you attractive (unless they are gay). But again if an agreement has been made to go through with the threesome any doubts on fanciability between the participants would have been sorted out before hand.

I think it just because you are greedy and wouldn't want to share a bloke with someone else when you could have two to yourself.

im 'fat and unattractive' too. 5ft 9 and size 26 in english measurements.

from past experiences, once a man sees my chest.....
they dont see any other lumpy bits and if they do, they havent yet passed comment.

i have had the odd thing said about me losing weight, but that is bcause those particular men like thinner or prettier ladies and my view is... if they cant see past the shallow outer layer, they arent worth knowing.

and yes it is greed to want 2 men.. but i dont care

might i just clarify....

im a 'normal' woman. not bi sexual/lesbian.
not into women at all and have no inclination to try anything.

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Well OBVIOUSLY in case my partner seemed to fancy HER more than ME!

az

One of my ex's at uni once asked me what I would think to a threesome with one of our mutual female friends (who I found out at a later date, he'd asked me out after she'd turned him down!). I should point out at this juncture that I'm straight.

Not entirely sure if he was serious, I said I was up for it... if we could then have a threesome with his seriously fit male friend. And that was the end of all discussion on the matter . I would have been up for the 2 men concept then!

Now? No, I really wouldn't want a threesome. Not even if someone I was seriously attracted to was going to be involved. There's the potential for so much pain and hassle in there. As far as I'm concerned, I'm with my fiance and he's the only man I want to be with, and the only man I want to see me in "all my glory" so to speak. From talking to him, I know that he feels similarly about me in that respect too .

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Well OBVIOUSLY in case my partner seemed to fancy HER more than ME!

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Well I OBVIOUSLY thought you would not have your partner included in the threesome!

If you are going to go for a threesome at least go for some completely new partners and then there would not be that problem.

I had not factored in the relationship issues I took that as read that everyone in the exercise were happy with the ground rules.

The answer is of course for you to make sure the other woman is not as gorgeous as you are which should not be difficult as you are dead gorgeous.

hi Alfster,

I guess I took it as people's threesome fantasies according to their particular situation at the moment. And I think we have had both single and 'coupled' people posting about this. Anyhow, I understand your confusion.

But I reckon that even if I weren't in a relationship I still would feel very insecure in a FFM situation just because I feel really insecure about how I look and all that. Wouldn't be able to cope with any 'comparisons', which wouldn't be the case in a MMF situation (at least I hope not! )

az

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Flatterer!!!

Don't stop!

az

I'm with you there, az, I'd never want a MFF situation, but then I wouldn't want a MMF situation either, it would be too scary and embarrassing for me

i would also worry that they found the other women more attractive than me,n given i dont consider myself remotely attractive to start with to me everyone is better than me n im fairly easily threatened.from past experience i know being with someone who cares more for someone else than you is soul destroying too

Hmm, I think I'd prefer FMF, although I could live with MFF or even FFM.

I wouldn't want a threesome either, MMF or MFF. I don't have the confidence, the risk of jealousy in either situatio too high, and besides, I'm happy as a twosome.

Noggin

I think Id go into a threesome where I thought it would clearly be a positive for the relationship or if the other person wanted it so much it would make things bad not to give in.

Dont get me wrong Im not calling it bullying but if someone wanted it that much Id see it as a case of I dont mind so lets see if it works because without giving in the relationship sure wont. A sort of what have I got to lose, quite literally double or quits.

I do like az's idea, if Im ever asked again I'll ask for FFM as I feel fat and insecure, having met az I know you dont have to even be fat to claim this.

I'm happy as a twosome too. Boyf and I have talked about threesomes but we can't quite work out how we would meet someone casually or what? Definitely not a club. (He would only do FFM, I'd do either)

And we've no idea how it would change the relationship and so why rock the boat?

Alex

Well the only time I've ever done it, it was with someone my partner and I both know, like, trust and fancy. The sex was good, and the situation was novel. I am very glad I've done it, I'd would do it again but only if the time and place and people were right, and I don't feel a burning need to go out and find another opportunity.

This is only one of two relationships I've been in where I thought inviting a third was a possibility, and it contributed to the strength and growth of the relationship in which it took place.

Ben

I've been in both threesomes and foursomes. Some were good, some were very good and some just were.

Sometimes I've known the people involved well, sometimes I've not. Ones involing more than one male example of the species seem to be charged with an air of competition, which can add to the experience, but can also add tension that's distracting. In my experience, it's better if the males know each other fairly well.

Females tend to be self-concious at first, but if you can get them to relax, they seem to enjoy the experience more than the males.

*wonders whether to ask Kerr whether...*

*decides not to*

Ben