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"Della Wars" Are they an issue for the community.

Post 521

kea ~ Far out in the uncharted backwaters of the unfashionable end of the western spiral arm of the Galaxy lies a small, unregarded but very well read blue and white website

Sorry, I couldn't resist.

~~~


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Suggested alteration to usage, then:

Instead of simply posting "Dumb Bomb - Axxxxxxx", I suggest the following wording.

"Posting xxx was a Dumb Bomb. See Axxxxxxx".

And *nothing* further. No explanations why - it should be obvious. Explanations somewhat defeat the point. Just observe that a Dumb Bomb has been dropped, and move on.
>>> Hoo.


This is good : >"Posting xxx was a Dumb Bomb. See Axxxxxxx".<

I suspect that it will inevitably get shortened to just Dumb bomb, but maybe it'd be useful to use the fuller phrase initially so people can get used to the idea. I'm particularly thinking of people who haven't been reading this thread and how they are going to understand the whole thing.


I'm not sure myself about the additinal explanations after the BD term. I can see in some cases it is useful eg with Whisky where there is no history. I'm not so sure about in the D wars though. I'll be interested to see if an explanation just perpetuates things.

I agree there needs to be some flexibility in use. Not too much though.


"Della Wars" Are they an issue for the community.

Post 522

DA ; Simply Vicky: Don't get pithy with me!

Alfster, I am sending you a message about that, on yr space, if that's okay...


"Della Wars" Are they an issue for the community.

Post 523

Alfster

Apple,

Yes, no problem. Will read it in the morning.

Thank you.

A


"Della Wars" Are they an issue for the community.

Post 524

Number Six

Just to come on all sensible for a little bit... actually, no I won't.

I was going to suggest that the name of the Dumb Bomb could be changed to something a little less insulting and confrontational - if someone told me I'd used one, the use of the word 'Dumb' would get my back up straight away and inflame the situation rather than defuse it because I'd want to get right back in their face for daring to suggest that I was talking nonsense (even if I was) - maybe the (original?) suggestion of 'Conversation Bomb' would be better?

Because if I've understood it correctly, the purpose of the thing is to state resistance to a point of view posted while wishing to avoid a full-on argument with the proponent of same?

Anyway, I'm not suggesting anything. There's no reason why anyone should listen to me, and I don't have the time to get involved with this whole business and don't want to make an emotional investment in the process. But at least I've said it now.

smiley - mod


"Della Wars" Are they an issue for the community.

Post 525

The Snockerty Friddle


"There is ONE person who really doesn't care what other people think, and that is blah blah " Hoo - 509

Dare I say Dumb Bomb?
Nah, maybe not, but in my best Tim Brooke Taylor voice - "Challenge! Repetition."

and

"Well that has massivly furthered the convo...smiley - yawn" Ferrettbadger - 516
which was in response to
"Post 508 Whisky smiley - applause" - Nogbad - 515

When so much has been said, so many times, a simple nod of agreement to an alternative view is as valid as most and furthers the conversation a little more than post no. 516

smiley - 2cents


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Post 526

azahar

Part of the confusing thing about seeing 'Dumb Bomb' posted is that it looks like the person posting it is dropping a D-bomb, not that they are alerting others that one has been dropped elsewhere.

I also agree with others that the name could be taken as insulting.

So why not simply call it a Thread Bomb and when posting one in response to someone say 'Thread Bomb Alert (post xxx)'?

I think Thread Bomb is a bit snappier than Conversation Bomb or Thread Derailment Bomb. And it has no negative connotations.


az





"Della Wars" Are they an issue for the community.

Post 527

Number Six

Thread Bomb Alert sounds great to me smiley - ok

More succint and less confrontational.

smiley - mod


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Post 528

Edward the Bonobo - Gone.

To give credit where it's due...I've been witnessing some perfectly acceptable behaviour recently on other threads.

Time to give peace a chance?


"Della Wars" Are they an issue for the community.

Post 529

badger party tony party green party

Whisky wrote:

"What they do is up to them, but do me a favour and don't start conversations asking the opinion of 'the community' if you don't give a flying f**k what other people think."smiley - book

You Whisky are not *the* community you may not agree with anything here but your lack of agreement does not invalidate this as a community discussion.

I and others amongst the dirty s do not see letting anyone get away repeatedly with certain things as an option we wil follow here. Others here think we should find another way of dealing with things that in their eyes create unwanted tension on threads across the site.

So how is that not us being community mindedsmiley - huh

We are here with others trying to work out a way of dealing with things that can accomodate different sensibilities of different users.

Im explaining all this here as I think its a thread where its suitable to do so given the nature of the thread and because you yourself are against the idea of a "thread bomb alert". Which is not only something applicable to your post but a jolly good name for the D-Bomb.

Well done azsmiley - ok

one love smiley - rainbow


"Della Wars" Are they an issue for the community.

Post 530

azahar

<> (blicky)

I think Whisky's disagreements have been duly noted. Yes, he perhaps posted either angrily or emotionally, but I actually agree with some of what he said.

It wasn't my take that he thought his opinions invalidated what was going on here, just as my postings saying this thread is maybe a waste of time did. My 'waste of time' comment was about Della not accepting any personal responsibility for her postings, or indeed, why this thread was started in the first place.

It has been clearly shown on this thread that many reseachers - not just the 'dirty smiley - angel s' - find Della's posting style offensive.

Yet she chooses to only focus on the replies from the 'dirty smiley - angel s' and ignores what other people have said here.

She wants to blame Hoo, blicky and others she calls 'their followers' for all her difficulties here.

According to Della, I am also one of Hoo's 'followers' (a concept I find more than somewhat insulting). According to Hoo, he has no followers. And no doubt he also feels insulted that someone should make him out to be some sort of 'hootoo gang leader'. He simply posts his opinions. If others agree with him - how does this make them *his followers*?

I'm pleased you like my 'Thread Bomb Alert' option, blicky.

I like it too (even though I am probably not ever going to use any sort of 'bombs' here).

Perhaps we can take a vote on my new 'bomb' name option?


az


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Post 531

Mother of God, Empress of the Universe

Your is much more neutral than Dumb Bomb,az, and I think it describes the purpose better. However, I still *like* dumb bomb because of the connotation of being struck dumb by something that doesn't make sense to argue. Unless Blatherskite decides to re-name his article I'll probably use D-Bomb and a link.


"Della Wars" Are they an issue for the community.

Post 532

icecoldalex

I like the Thread Bomb alert thing too Az. Much less insulting.
Good one smiley - ok


"Della Wars" Are they an issue for the community.

Post 533

azahar

How about this?

smiley - disco Thread Bomb Alert! smiley - disco


az

ps
this was actually Noggin's suggestion . . . I think it's great!




"Della Wars" Are they an issue for the community.

Post 534

azahar

ps
I mean the Thread Bomb Alert name was my idea - the disco lights were Noggin's . . .


az


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Post 535

Ferrettbadger. The Renegade Master

So you need to take E with thread bombs? smiley - winkeye


"Della Wars" Are they an issue for the community.

Post 536

Alfster

Thread Bomb Alert works for me as do the disco lights - nice one Nogginsmiley - magic.

Just 'THread bomb' would do me as well.


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Post 537

Blatherskite the Mugwump - Bandwidth Bandit

I like "dumb bomb" because, as I stated before, this should be used to indicate strong disapproval coupled with remarkable restraint. In other words, it *should* be pejorative.

However, those who find the concept useful but do not like the pejorative connotation should feel free to use their own interpretation. You have your tool, and I have mine. There's no reason why the community couldn't use a pejorative term AND a neutral one.

I would recommend, for the same reasons I made one for d-bombs, that one among you who prefers the "Thread bomb" terminology make a page explaining it in greater detail.


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Post 538

BouncyBitInTheMiddle

Whichever case, smiley - disco smileys please.


"Della Wars" Are they an issue for the community.

Post 539

kea ~ Far out in the uncharted backwaters of the unfashionable end of the western spiral arm of the Galaxy lies a small, unregarded but very well read blue and white website

Not the smiley smiley - headhurts arrrrgh, punishment enough!


Blatherskite, if someone else writes it can the alternative, non-pejorative explanation go on the same page as the Dumb bomb? It would make sense to have them in the same link, where people can see and understand the difference.


In terms of the 'neutral' bomb name, can we have a list to consider, as I think there have been a few suggestions? Although I can only remember Conversation bomb - which I really like, but maybe it is more a background term that one can use when referring to a post rather than responding to it.


"Della Wars" Are they an issue for the community.

Post 540

Teasswill

I agree that there is a case for a choice. Dumb bomb as Blatherskite says & Thread bomb (or perhaps Yawn Bomb) for 'we've been here before, let's not get sidetracked' kind of response.

Having both described on the same link makes sense too.


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