h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

no no no you are absolutely right not to jump into too heavy a relationship at first....i mean keep him exclusive thats the least you can do.. but tell him you want to just date for a while.. need to build up trust... but if you don't see yourself seriously being with this guy then be truthful and tell him...

on the other hand a good relationship builds up slowely, and its nice that hes so keen and open [always a bonus] but some fellas leap into relationships full of promises then get cold feet......... he might be 100% genuine and want a loving commited relationship with you...

hopefully he'll understand you need more time...infact i did the same thing with my hubby.. because i'd had such bad luck with men.. so when he came along i was very distrustful.. so i had the same talk with him.. and for a while he was devastated thought i was giving him the brush off... but he hung in there and we've been together 10 yrs now

thanks! yeh, I was a bit concerned at just how quickly he seems to ahve decided.... I'd prefer to date on for a while and see how things go and yes, he'l be exclusive even I'm not that much of a tart.... most of the time honest

well thats all you can do...try and reassure that its not a brush off.. true love will last the test of time.. i think you are being very sensible , he has decided very quickly but so did my husband...hopefully you will see 'something' different from the usual no hopers.. if you have a good 'feel' about it.. like with clive, after all the arseholes, he was just different and i knew it early on, but still wanted to give myself time...

we have to look after ourselves, we are vunerable, as we all are in love..

oooOOooo well when me and my missus first got togather, she came over to the flat where i was living @the time and never went home and now its 11 or 12 years

she only came over to see if i had a picture on my tv as she thought her mates was busted sorry about the extra post, but i'm a little bit flustered atm

Yeh; But did she really* agreed to be chained up and shackled like that? I'd be more likely to jump in to somethim more perminant I guess if I did live alone here, but I've the lodger who's a friend I dunno

regardless of wether you have a lodger you should still take the time.... someone once said to me that 6 months is a good ammount of time dating to see if it is serious....

try the 6 month challenge and take it from there..

Yeh, 6 months seems like a good decent length of time to get a real idea of things still not got a reply to my Email

Afternoon

Anyone else cut out the fags n noticed more sensitive err nerve endings?

yes i have, its what i'm on about

i did skip some backlog today but im sure youve not mentioned feeeling hornier after quittig smoking Rev

well i had to quit smoking after the skin cancer i had and i had the op because of it and it's become alot more sensitive after both those things, thats all, and also it changes shape too.... its not what the doctor tells you about at all

Ahh,... I was merely asking if anyone else had noticed that particular good thing about quitting..

oops sorry! but yeah its a nice thing

*throws his cigarette packet in the bin

Hmm, reminds me, still not got a reply to my Email

hmm, i must mentian that too several of my friends...

2legs: go you! I expect he is fashioning some wonderfully beautiful reply, telling you how gorgeous you are. or some such thing

hang in there peeps, im still here and reading

I'm still reading, and so is my penis!

RF

I'm still here, I just haven't been online for 2weeks. My gf and I are approaching having gone out for a year...my parents still don't know about her...this is rather frightening.