h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

Xan, I think a smile, a kind one, and a positive remark of some kind is more effective than a blinking eye. ( I mean a remark of something she is, has, or have just said.)
Maybe going to a movie and then walk the streets in a warm summersnight...will be a good next step... Bytheway...I think too many guys drink too much nowadays, and that is very unattractive...-Or What do you think Ben? -Agree?

Hmm, being out on a warm summer night just walking along the beach, or laying looking up at the sky with a nice girl. I'd love to do that.

Sounds nice!....beaches is the best......for romance!

Drinking too much is definitely unattractive.

To me even the prettiest girl starts to loose her attractiveness when she is drinking

Sadly the monsoon decided to hit this weekend. So no sidewalk cafes. Maybe another time.

Hmm, that happy girl is around again. Hard to do your work

... with the emphasis on "hard" - huh?


And as Ben says - you have to give the impression you are ready to make fun of yourself.

There's a new Swedish girl here. I *really* need to go to Sweden.

Ah, swedish girls... That reminds me of a story...

Uh, welcome back Corinth

Yay -hay!!!

Corinth is back.

Been off looking for RL girls have you? Any luck?

Well, it's supposed to be really good weather this weekend and I have the next 4 days off. So this time I will find some girls and attempt some flirting.

You can do it Xanatic. Just forget all the good advice which will only make you nervous. Be yourself and be nice.

No, I think I better go with the advice. Some of it made a lot of sense.

What I meant is, don't concentrate on keeping to what we've told you - it will mean you are not acting yourself.

In other words, the less hang-ups you appear to have, the more a girl will like you. Haven't you noticed that some guys get all the girls even though they have no looks, possibly even no money. All they have is personality and self-confidence.

I would also like to have more self confidence, but not being able to get girls doesn't really help there.

*barges in with an *

Nice to see this thread is still going strong. You mean after 850 posts, we haven't helped Xan pull?

I think you might be a terminal case, mate.

B

I'm also starting to realize that.

Of course, it could have something to do with spending all your time online

My first lesson in pulling, having been brought up in a *very* rough part of the country, was to buy a car and then cruise round the city centre trying to pick up women who had been chucked out the clubs, whilst simultaneously avoiding the police.

*shudders with embarrassment at the the memory of trying to pick girls up in a Rover Metro*

...worked, though...

B

in addition to having smoking sections, restaurants, bars, etc. should have 'no self-esteem' sections...those sitting therein can be assumed to feel as badly and nervous as those that may hit on them. I know _I_ could benefit from such a thing.

Sounds like a good idea to me. And the ones that think they are so beautiful they don't have to talk to you, could get a special place as well. Somewhere dark so they can't be seen anyway.