h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

This is going to sound an odd question but it's relevant.

Are you taking any medication at the moment?

Reason I ask is that, I was on Prozac about a year ago as I was going through a bad spell in my life. One of the side effects of it was the inability to get a erection! Which as you can imagine, made my depression just a tad worse!

So, if you are taking anything, check the leaflet that comes with the medicine and see if 'erectile dysfuntion' is a side-effect

There's always dirty movies.
I mean the proper German/Swedish/Dutch types, not the "Electric Blue" top shelf British codswallop.

But don't you find the womens' finger nails seriously scary?

I mean.....!

B

So is this the same girl as in your other thread or another?
Time and place are important. Don't rush. Explore your partner and find out what turns her on. Gentle stroking, remember women are much more sensitive to touch than men. Play with eachother.

Alji

Ben, do you mean those stuck-on shocking pink plastic things?



I've just heard about them, they certainly sound scary.

Definitely scary... I mean the dratted things are over half an inch long, some of them. Am I being dumb, or is the idea of having 10 of those near your most sensitive parts rather scary?

Hey guys - does anyone find them a turn-on?

*thinks about posting a thread in Ask H2*
*is drunk enough to do just that*

B

Wow thanks for all your advice... I'll try and reply to the points in turn...

We've talked about it and agreed to take things more slowly. I never have a problem with mututal masturbation it's only when we try and actually have intercourse. (And besides, without wanting to brag (well ok so I do...), I'm somewhat of an expert with my fingers ).

I always tell her that its not her fault, and how much I want to make love with her. As for improving my linguistics, that's something I haven't really tried yet... so plenty of pratice required!!!

I don't really think it's worth going to see a doctor yet. I know it's only a psycological problem, I don't have trouble when I'm... ahem... on my own.

I think our sex drives are about the same... we're both always horny!!!

Nope, not on any medication.

No, this isn't the same girl as in my other thread. I eventually cut my losses with her and moved on (we're still friends though). This is actually my second account on H2G2, I use it when I wish to remain anonymous. Only Galaxy Babe knows who I really am and I know she won't tell anyone

I don't like long fingernails sexy either. I don't really find them scary, I just find women who go "arrghh I've broken a nail" really annoying!!! I like them just long enough to drag along my back (without drawing blood! )

I'll let you know in a few days how we get on.....

Have you tried it with your girlfriend on top? Keep it hard manually and get her to lower herself onto it. Then she can take control of the action. Get her to use her pubococcygeus muscles (if you don't know where they are look it up on the net).

Alji

Just tell her to clench.

oh, and stop the DIY!
Save it all for her....

But it's what you clench, she could clench her teeth.

Alji

> oh, and stop the DIY!
> Save it all for her....

Agreed. I've been doing it myself for long enough.....

Right then, I think I know what the problem is...... just need to find a solution. As long as I'm being stimulated it stays hard, but as soon as the stimulation stops it begins to go down.

Now this obviously causes problems with putting on a condom for a start.... if its not done quickly my erection goes down. We managed to get it done, and quickly replaced her hand for intercourse. All was going well until she came, and of course was really sensitive for a few minutes so I had to slow right down..... with the less stimulation I lost the erection. She finished me off with her hand no trouble at all.....

So, any suggestions on how to sort this out?? If it was a medical problem, or anxiety I could do something about it, but I really can't think of anything I could do to require less stimulation....... other than not having sex for about a month and there's no way that's happening.....

Thanks for all your advice.

ps. I practiced my linguistics for the first time last night, and she came three times

Hmmmmmm

I think for the sake of my continued good health, I will unsubscribe.

I've been celibate too long to read stuff like this, if I was your g/f I'd be more than happy.


*goes off for cold shower*

A636932 ?

have you tried smoking blow?

smoking maraijana really makes you horny - you can go for hours and in the end it never matters if the sex's penetrative or not.

i've been in that situation before, he couldn't get it up. but instead of it being a disappointment, i told him, he should have a j.arthur rank after i go, but just to remember what we'd already done, in his fantasties, so even if i wasn't there, i'd still involved - worked a treat

Sorry Galaxy Babe.... My g/f is happy (or at least she tells me she is), one of the major problems is just if it won't stay up then I can't orgasm, and eventually end up in.... ahem.... quite considerable pain.

On a side note, do you still use Yahoo messenger?? I used to enjoy talking to you, helped liven up those boring afternoons at work!!!

Used to smoke last year quite a bit (it was the only way I could relieve the stress of my final exams at uni!!). Didn't really make me horny, just hungry and sleepy!!!

I'm really impressed that you gave your g/f an orgasm during sex.
Not many men can achieve this.
You said you slowed down while she orgasmed, was that instinct on your part, or did she request this?
Because that's the time when you should have speeded up, and maybe had a mutual-orgasmic experience.

Yes, I do still have Yahoo messenger, but it's not turned on when my son is around because it's impossible to chat to anyone. It's half-term here.

> I'm really impressed that you gave your
> g/f an orgasm during sex.
> Not many men can achieve this.



> You said you slowed down while she orgasmed,
> was that instinct on your part, or did she
> request this?

She didnt directly request it, but I did it because I knew from pleasuring her in other ways that she gets very sensitive afterwards. If it hadn't have gone down we could have just carried on a couple of minutes later.

> Because that's the time when you should have
> speeded up, and maybe had a mutual-orgasmic
> experience

I have managed to keep it up long enough to makelove with her once..... (it was my first time, but not hers).... and we did actually come together!!! I had a couple of miss-fires where it went down but then we managed to do it, I thought from that that it was just anxiety but I know it's not caused by that now.