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Post 61

swl

I sort of see where you're coming from. So far we've given instances that show there are many reasons we end up with single-parent families. By no means all include affixing blame to one partner or the other, but in most cases the family unit at least starts out with two parents. This move by the government allows an easier "default" position of single parenthood.

In an ideal world, how many single parents would admit that they would "rather" have a willing partner around to help? In which case, is it advisable to be encouraging people to start a family from a disadvantaged position?


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Post 62

Effers;England.

smiley - yawn


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Post 63

prof gawid

yawn ur naughtysmiley - winkeye


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Post 64

prof gawid

smiley - winkeye


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Post 65

kea ~ Far out in the uncharted backwaters of the unfashionable end of the western spiral arm of the Galaxy lies a small, unregarded but very well read blue and white website

I don't see any evidence that single parenting causes society's ills or makes kids go bad. I see plenty of evidence that poverty causes both of those things. Most single parents live on an inadequate income. The sick irony is that those people who condemn single parents are often those who think they shouldn't have benefit entitlements but it is exactly that lack of financial security that places children at risk.

Someone said earlier that it takes two people to raise a child. It doesn't. It takes a community. A solo mum with adequate income living, well supported in a caring community is just as likely to raise her kids well as anyone else.


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Post 66

prof gawid

rubbish and you know it .


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Post 67

Cal - interim high priest of the Church of the Holy Tail

do you have hard evidence to back up that statement?


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Post 68

Ferrettbadger. The Renegade Master

Generally the accepted wisdom on here is if you think what someone has is "rubbish" one tends to qualify the statement with the reasons why 'gawid.


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Post 69

Effers;England.

That's always assuming they're capable of it, FB.


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Post 70

prof gawid

they should be put in rehab till they learn to keep a man .


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