h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

Approximately 12 hours ago my husband told me that he no longer wants to be with me.

What will happen now? I have no idea. I am in Devon, at my sister in laws (who is lovely by the way) and I'm on my own away from my family.

I will be moving in with my sister on Tuesday so what will happen after that, I have no idea.

Happy Easter every one.

Oh bloody hell.

I wish there was something I could do.

Get over here and give me a bloody big hug

I don't know what to do. I don't know what I can do. All I know is my life has been turned upside down. I have been with G for over 14 years.

What do I do now?

don't make any huge decisions at the moment.

sorry, nothing constructive to add

I think Lil has my number, if that helps. I'll certainly be sitting around doing nothing for the next day or so... It's just that you won't get through while I'm online.

Mum is away at the moment to a wedding. Typical eh!

Sho. Don't worry. I know people find this kind of thing difficult to handle, especially if they haven't been through it themselves.

All I know is that VC is great in letting me move in with her and her husband.

My sister in law has been great in letting me stay until I go home.

My parents in law are in shock, but I know they won't turn their back on me. I'm one of the family.

It's difficult to comprehend. Over 14 years is a long time to be with someone.

14 yeasr is indeed a long time.

Look, do you have email access at the moment?

I have been through it. I was married 11 years and had three children under 7 when my marriage splintered. This will take some getting over, but I survived it and so will you

I never had this kind of friends network in 1985. Take all the strength you need from us, vent anything you want, by email if necessary. Your sister is doing what sisters do. You don't have to feel grateful or undeserving, you would have done the same if the situation had been reversed.

Try not to think of the future as one mass of aloneness. One day at a time, small steps.

You're gorgeous. He's insane. Oh, God. I'll pray for you tonight, my darling girl

I don't know what to say...I'll just offer one of these and hope the best for you!!!

Vicki, I was thinking of you today...

You're not on your own - it just feels that way.

You'll come to see that it's his loss but it'll take you a while to get there - in the meantime just let the grief flow over you, and remember who you are.

I'm speechless. Can't imagine what happened and why. Maybe you don't know yourself, which will probably make things very difficult to understand.
Galaxy babe is right: you will survive. You have a loving family and a lot of friends.

Oh dear

GB just told me to keep an eye on this journal - so please don't do anything drastic until she returns or I'll never forgive myself.

You belong to a huge enormous gigantically big family here who all care about you, even when they may not all know you personally.

This is a situation that calls for tears. Lots of tears. We will help you. I'm already having difficulty seeing my screen and I'm sure I'm not the only one.

crivvens mate, a really big hug is on its way , just don't make any decisions yet, take your time and also your not on your own, you have a heap of people,

and oh yeah before i forget the word "pig" springs to mind

I've just come in and this is the first thing I read. I'm absolutely stunned. Had to read it a few times before it sank in.
I've sent you an e-mail, goes without saying my thoughts are with you.
Take care and please stay in touch.

Oops, the e-mail address I have for you doesn't seem to work anymore.
I'll pass details via Lil. Take care.

I think there'll be rather a lot of us passing details via Lil...