h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

I love musicals too, I saw the Wizard Of Oz at the Lowery in Manchester at Xmas, good stuff, this thrash metal though, like some of it, I also have a son who is 15 and he is into all that, Linkin Park, A million Dead, Slipnot etc.

I love all music, a bit of classical, 60 soul, punk of course, I hate boy bands and all this modern R and B.

David x

hey you are we speaking over 2threads now

wellive been watching The Rocky Horror Show a few times in theatre,they were superb,tho you do tend to see alot of blokes dressed up with stocking/sussys on etc...which is a laugh..
been to see phantom of the opera too,that was amazing,but ive not watched a musical in ages,oh yeah i went to watch lord of the dance aswell once..

well my music taste varies,,i can go from listening to a marilyn manson cd,straight onto good ole kenny rogers,god you've gotta love that bloke..and ive been to many concerts over the years,,hey i even watched sweet/mud& the rubbets over sherdly when i was 14,how class is that ....i cant really stand boybands,jazz & r n b...tho will listen to owt else...i tend to have music channels on tv all the time specially karrang or vh2,...i'm listenin to The Killers,Embrace,Stereophonics n the that type of music alot lately,so if you see a blonde drivin down town with music blaring thats prob me aswell

I'm getting the hang of this now!

Yeah I like the Killers, and I've just come across a band called Mercury Rev, not bad.

My concert days have seemed to come to an end, though in my day I have seen The Clash, The Jam, Stiff Little Fingers, The Specials, The Selecter, The Beat, Madness and I saw Bad Manners at The Shaggy Rock last year!.

David X

bed now.

well goodnite n chat soon eh?
its been a pleasure talking to you tonight.
chin up,stay strong..

time for my bed too
goodnite ,sweetdreams.

Em..xxx

What do you dream of ?, On thoes nights when you are alone in bed, what gives you comfort ?, Do you see a different future for yourself ?, Are you awaiting your knight, or are you happy as you are, bringing up your son the way you think best, without some step dad interferring.

Sorry I got all serious and profound then, but having a youngn daughter the thought that she may have a step dad in the next year or two fills me with dread, you know what I am talking about.

David XXX

what do i dream of....lotsa things really,rude thing aswell..but we wont go there ,but mainly dull n boring stuff or nightmares.there's nothing in my life that makes me sparkle just now,(except my child).

what gives me comfort....don't know how to answer this one,coz the last 4yrs for me have been hell,i have felt lower than i ever could have imagined,and at times just wanted to end it all,but only for the sake of my son i didn't do anything stupid.and this year was like a turning point for me,i'd had enough of being the shite on peoples shoe,i got meself together and i'm now getting back to being that stong person i was and back on track..

do i see a different future for myself...i hope so,i still wanna live my dreams of going to canada,or even emigrating,i think ive said that since i was 10yr,maybe one day may come true.

am i awating my knight..truthfully,this is how i'm thinkin... am i ever gonna find anyone i'm really happy with,,,scarred of excepting dates in case i don't really like the person,or not what i'm looking for,and i end up hurting their feelings,,,scarred i will feck it up again,,,just generally un sure of everthing..
tho i like to think that mr perfect will come along one day,and i get back to feeling that butterflies in me stomach,being in love/wanted,happyness,going on holidays,holding hands,cuddling up in bed,all the lovey dovey type of relationship stuff really....
but then i also think have i already met mr perfect and scarred him off coz i'm unsure of my feelings....god its complicated innit..i certainly don't want to end up a lonely old maid,,i need to stop being too bloody choosey,but then i think why settle for second best....

stepdad/mum-grrrr....well if n when i find someone theyv'e obviously gotta be suitable with kids..i come with a package afterall!!!,but saying that,i want to get to know that person myself first berfore i introduce him to my son,coz the way i see it,its okay for them too be walking in n out of my life but i wouldn't want my son getting attached to someone for them to walk out a few weeks/months..etc down the line..i don't want my son seeing every tom,dick or harry that i may think oh this could be the one,i wanna know ive got it right with a bloke first,ya can't mess about with kids heads like that..if ya understand me meaning..

gobshites partner..well he has been with this bint for just over a year now,they have bought a house together now....she has caused nothing but trouble,so much stuff has gone on.n yep police were involved on one occasion,,she's come accross as an absolute phycotic,jealouse arsed little shit,causing trouble between me n her..me n ex..ex n son..even my ex's dad was on my side,thinking she was abit of a loon n stuff,it makes my blood boil at the min,but ive asked my ex to keep her away for now until she can prove to me she can be suitable around my child,coz shes only coming accross as a freak of nature at the min..tho its inevitable that my son is gonna see more of her,but until i see some improvment from her,then i shouldn't have to allow my son near her..

whoa and after all that your probably thinking...yep loony toon ere
i bet you wished you hadn't asked now

anyway i'll let you draw your own conclusions after all that..

think its time i tryed to get some sleep ,if i can..
chat soon.xxx

Very interesting post, and no I don't think you are mad, for a women you seem quite sane!.

I am intrigued though about your 'Mr Perfect' who you let go, bad move that, so many people look for the worse in their partners when the good is more important, if you can make things up with this bloke then you should.

I understand what you are saying about baggage and partners, our kids are the most important thing, and if some prospective partner does not get on with them, then they are history. In my job I come across so many people for whom their kids are of secondary importance, their happiness is all that counts and if that means that their boyfriend abuses their kids, then that is ok.

I really hate these people, and it is so common, and if its not their kids that are being abused, then its themselves, being beaten up by the boyfriend. And then they make excuses for them, 'I must have wound him up' etc. aahhhhhhh!!.

You know when you speak of love and all that I agree with you, it is so long since I have even held a girl in my arms, and felt that good feeling deep inside, I need to feel that way again, its feeling alive!, without some kind of love and effection in your life you may as well be dead.

This bit about the police being involved in your life is very interesting too, it may well have been me, what you describe is what I deal with every day of the week!. Jealous women and ignorant men, its my lifes work.

BTW I was down your neck of the woods today, someone has put the window through in 'The Vulcan' some blonde 30 year old from Junction Lane, called Maria by all accounts.

Speak soon

David xxx

"for am woman you seem quite sane "...not sexist are ya......moi.? sane.?,suppose thats a matter of opinion for some people,or weather ive had a drink or not or what time of the month it is..

my perfect man....i don't mean he's already in my life,,he could have been anyone who has been in my life..what i mean by that is ..a friend or someone i already talk too or someone who may have asked me out but ive refuse ,or just some complete stranger who may smile at me everytime i'm out,,,,yunno anyone of these may have/not been my perfect man..but i wouldn't know coz i keep rejecting people's offers of dates n such...and yunno most men are only out for one thing anyway...

as for the police stuff,,,no its okay i'm not in trouble,or ever have been..i'm a good girl me...and its too much of a story to go into,and i aint doing it on here....and no it defo wasn't you that come to visit me..unless of course youv'e changed your name..

i had noticed the window,but i don't know myself who done it,and i dont know a marie,i sorta keep myself to myself round here,but then i say hiya in passing if i know anyone.but i remember faces rather than names...,aswell thats a pub ive never been in for years,if i do venture out round here it maybe the prince for 1-before town,not often tho...

as for the love part,i do miss it at times,and like i said i'm sure my knight will arrive soon enough..just think i need to open my eyes more,and maybe let my barriers down abit..

Sweet Cheeks, why do you keep rejecting men and saying no to dates?, are you too fussy or has your confidence been battered by your experiences?. It appears to me from what little I know of you that you are an extrovert and have an outgoing personality, but perhaps deep down you are insecure?. I am probably way off mark and you are a very confident young(ish) women. But there again you may be just scared of getting hurt again. Like you say let the barriers down and take a chance.

BTW I was not fishing for info regarding that smashed window, I really don't care who did it and I would not use you to try and get info. I hope you don't think I was, you are a mate as far as you can be over the internet and I would never do that.

David XxXxX

see now youve hit the nail on the head.... to everybody i'm the loud bubbly one,i talk n hug everyone n anyone,you can hear my laugh from the other side of a football pitch,(i'm that loud at times),i know alot of people n have a laugh with anybody,young or old...but i lack self confidence,...i'm one of those people who thinks evrything i do etc....is a load of shite,n everones much better at things than myself..
examples.....now even tho i know i have lost weight recently,i still look at myself as being huge..im a size 14 btw,lots people pass coment,but i sorta shrug it off and tell myself that ive not...
or like people tell me i'm a great singer,and i have come first in a few comps,i still think i'm just sorta okay-ish...so yeah too see me you would see the loud bubbly one ,always laughing n smiling..but deep down very insecure about myself..ah well lifes a bitch..

no i did't even think you was fishin for info,that never even crossed my mind..i was only saying that i don't know a marie..etc.ect..

Em..xxx

The problem with lack of confidence and low self esteme is that no one can really help you with except yourself. Your mates might say you are great at stuff and mean it, but if you are not happy in yourself you will never believe what people say. And its no good someone like me saying 'don't be silly you are a good person with a lot to offer, etc', if you don't believe it yourself you will never believe anyone else. There are no answers, just keep on going and as you say life can be a bitch, but it can also be great, don't forget that!.

BTW, I am a bloke and size 14 means nothing to me, I take it by what you say that you are a lady of a fuller figure, voluptuious no doubt, I'm sure you look great, I prefare a real women myself not one of these thin types, half of them look like young boys!.

Anyway up early again tomorrow, so goodnight

David X

i think the last 4yrs has drained any confinence i had away,,,,but its coming back,

doyou know anything about bra sizes then... if you dont know dress sizes....(14 aint really huge,average size of women these days.)

quite funny really,i had a gang of lads trying to guess my bra size ,none were right..but think of jordon size boobs..

<boing.

ps..volumptuous is just a nicer name for fat..

goodnight,sweetdreams

EM..xx

Again I must plead ignorance, bra sizes are not my area of expertise. Though I have an 'A'level in undoing bras from the front while under the influence, its all in the wrist action!.

OK, Jordan size boobs !! 38 DD, just a guess, I don't really know what it means, is the rest of you in the same proportion as Jordans ?.

I have to say that Jordan does nothing for me and I am sure you are not as shallow and as vain as her, the only thing you have in common is, I hope, is a great set of norks!!(cringe)

You have more class and intelligence than Jordan, you spelled volumptuous right which is more than I did, I am impressed. What is being large anyway?, I am 6'1" tall and I suppose of a slim build, but unfortunately over the last few years have developed a bit of a pounch/ale gut/tummy. I don't care, this is me!, to coin a phrase which I am sure you must have sung at one time 'I am what I am' but just in case that confused you I am not gay!.

nah infact my are bigger than jordan's and i didn't have to pay £0000? to get them done,all real these babies..no i'm not the same frame size as her,flippin eck she's a skinny minny,i'm not,,but they are in proportion with the rest of me....and yep you know jack sh!t about bra sizes
yunno i say sorta the same thing to people...
"you take me as i am or not at all",i certainly wouldn't change for anyone,,

and no i haven't sang that song..I am what i am.

anyway sorry i didn't reply lastnight,i was workin till 10pm,came home got washed/changed ,then went to chic-rock for karaoke,the comp started lastnight,and my mate was in it,tho he didn't get thru to the final bless him.,,i just hope my sore throat clears up soon for when i enter,otherwise i'll not be able to enter..

anyway chat later..

......>>>>>>>>>>>

I will have to pay a visit to the Chic Rock next time they have a Karaoke and see if I can spot you!!. But perhaps not, I don't want you thinking I am some kind of stalker.

Hope the voice returns and I am sure you will knock 'em dead, you want to try going on 'Stars in their Eyes' who would you be though?, "Tonight Cat I am going to be........Dolly Parton?.

David xx

karaoke is on a tues-night..for the last few times ive been in its been quite busy,especially for a tuesday.....
if you do come in come over and make yourself known,like i said i talk to anybody me,but don't be offended if i greet you with a hug,coz thats what i'm like and i do it with everyone(hug that is)....

awwww i'd love to be able to sing jolene,i love that song

Your beauty is beyond compare with flaming locks of auburn hair
Ivory skin and eyes of em'rald green
Your smile is like a breath of spring your voice is soft like summer rain
I cannot compete with you Jolene

He talks about you in his sleep and there's nothing I can do to keep
From crying when he calls your name Jolene
But I can easily understand how you could easily take my man
But you don't know what he means to me Jolene.

I bet you could sing this perfectly well, and if I do ever meet you I don't mind a big hug

David xxx

well i was singing along with that then..i'm supprised you know all the words tho..

dolly parton fan are ya..


right i'm in a dilema here,what should i do tomorrow night.......
..should i go to manchester to watch me neice's/boyfriends band..or
..go to town for a staff nite out to the palace.(although i wont be eating anything,i dont do spicey stuff..) then round town...hmmmmmmmmm decisions,decisions..

Well I'm working nights tomorrow, so if I see a drunken blonde walking down Westfield Street, singing Jolene, I will know its you. You never know you may get a lift home.

There again Manchester sounds like a better night out.

Bed time again!!, well I need my beauty sleep even if you don't.

Night, David

i need my beauty sleep too,i'm up for work when the sparrows fart in the morning..


goodnight sweetdreams..