h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

Thanks you guys!

I don't have a lot of time now, so I'll get back to you after the fact.

Iodine- You can call me whatever's comfortable for you, Grey, Rose, GR, as long as it's not rude. I hope that this is helping you. I wish someone was helping The Boy.

Wish me luck, I've got two more hours left.

Of course.

-jb

Well, I'm sorry to say that the events that occured earlier this evening turned out NOT in our favor. -mine, but especially GreyRose's.
Boy was spending quite a bit of time talking to the ugly girl behind the snackbar, and GreyRose decided she wanted to leave -& it was still sooo early, she went there hoping for some kind of answers, and so I went and talked to Boy. I don't really know him so well & it seems that he wouldn't talk to people he doesn't know about personal things, but something had to be said, or asked, or whatever.
So, I went over & asked if I could talk to him about GR and he didn't mind.
So, to make a long story short (this is where you say 'Too late')
he told me he didn't want to be her boyfriend, right now, & that he didn't have the balls (or heart as he put it) to tell her.
I insisted that he tell her but i told her anyways, after giving him a bit to
go & say something.
He didn't so GR went to see what he had to say.
That is when the words about her were finally directed to her & in her
range of hearing. -He told her that he didn't like her 'like that' anymore.
FINALLY. -At least finally we knew something. So she's really sad (to be expected) but at least she knows.
I think he should feel bad, though because he led her on when he knew that she didn't know how he felt. He even made out with her- even if he changed his mind after they made out, he shouldn't have done it if he didn't know his own feelings.
Anyways, I thought I'd share the news & GR wanted me to tell you so she wouldn't have to type it out (& she says 'hi')
and that's all...

P'hul*

The above is all true. I'm very sad, and angry at him for not saying something sooner.

I am sort-of-considering-the-circumstances happy about one thing, I didn't cry until I got home and I didn't flip out on him (even though I badly wanted to punch him and cut off his hair), which was good, since it saved me more embarrasment.

He told P'hul* that he wanted to be friends (I should have punched him just for that), but he also told her that he didn't want to be my boyfriend 'right now'. But we all know that really means, 'I don't want to be your boyfriend 'ever'".

Oh well, at least I know where I stand.

I'm really sorry, GreyRose. I know how frustrating this has all been.

A similar thing happened to me recently. I'd gotten into a friendship with this guy who I thought was one of the coolest people I'd met in a very long time. We had so many things in common, and I thought he was really sexy, to boot. Oddly enough, most of our "dates" were out to a dance club, also. (Maybe tbere's just something about guys who dress in black and like to go to clubs. You think?) Anyway, after a few months of alternately blowing me off, and then suddenly calling again, he just stopped talking to me. It was so odd. He's since moved, to a galaxy far, far away, and I haven't heard a word from him, nor do I ever expect to. I get the impression that he liked me, but was put off by certain aspects of personality (my bluntness being high on that list, I reckon!) and just didn't know how to deal with it all, so he bailed. It sucks because I would have been quite happy to just be friends. It made me very sad. I imagine it's a similar feeling to what you're going through now.

But now's the time when all your friends give you the lecture about there being plenty of fish in the sea! I'm sure you'll find someone else as captivating as this boy. And maybe he'll even have balls. Heh. (Sorry, feelings of boy resentment kinda popped out there. It won't happen again!) Anyway, now you can get on with the more important things in life. Like moving up the corporate ladder.

The only way I'll move up the corporate ladder is if there's a really cool corporate slide at the top. (pretend it's smiling)

Thanks turtle. I'm really really mad at him. But, if we can be friends someday that's cool. But, I don't think he really wants to be friends, and is just saying that because it's eaiser.

Pussy.

I should be ok in a few days, maybe less.

-jb

To tell the truth, I was kinda sad when my ex said he didnt want to go out.
I am so sorry, Greyrose.
Really, the pain goes away, you know that. Told you he's a cretan! I am so sure you can find someone better. I know it. You learned something right? I dont know what to tell you-I can't even help myself to be honest with you.
Just know if you need to rant and rave like a lunatic I am free.
Cheer up.

Cheers!(says aloud with bad english accent)
rat

You know, while P'hul* was typing her post, I thougt, 'Rat was right!'

I'm feeling a lot better actually. Because I can stop liking him now. I really liked him a lot and when I could feel that he was starting to act weird, I tried to stop. But, when there was still a chance that he liked me I just couldn't. Now, I know that he doesn't like me so I can stop liking him. It is great to not worry about it. I thought that I would be feeling a lot worse today.

But, I am very angry at him for not saying something about it earlier. He would have saved us both a lot of hassle.

Everyone, if you ever like someone, but one day you find that you don't anymore, TELL THEM. If you can't, then your a wuss, because it doesn't make it easier on the other person, just easier on you.

Someone start another thread please, I'm sick of having to see my first one up there.

No problem. I will now start a new one, called:
why guys are guys III: giving up
cause I give up. Guys suck. Greyrose, you are so right! Thats all I wanted from my ex, closure, to know for sure there was no chance so I can take that last step and get over him.
However, since "one day" he may change his mind, wheres the closure?
Well, anyway, glad you are feeling better.
He sucks. Beginning to think all guys do. Then I take a look at girls and they do too, so its like, damn, what do I do now? Everyone sucks and everything sucks and even I suck...
Ok I am done.

Please go the other forum for a continuation of this as well as the first one. Thank you.

rat
cheers!