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To be friends or not ... ?
My side. Posted Aug 18, 2003
Just spent a while reading through the backlog and,although i dont usually butt in on the conversations,i thought i would ask something.
I was gonna comment on alot in the thread but what Seraphina said in the last post really caught my attention and i was wondering how many people had opinions on that.
"It is possible to be interested in more than one person"
But i smore than one person.I aint talking about the love for family and stuff lik that.I talking love.Surely that should be for one person only.
Or is it?
Chris.
To be friends or not ... ?
My side. Posted Aug 18, 2003
Just spent a while reading through the backlog and,although i dont usually butt in on the conversations,i thought i would ask something.
I was gonna comment on alot in the thread but what Seraphina said in the last post really caught my attention and i was wondering how many people had opinions on that.
"It is possible to be interested in more than one person"
But is it possible to love more than one person.I aint talking about the love for family and stuff lik that.I talking love.Surely that should be for one person only.
Or is it?
Chris.
To be friends or not ... ?
My side. Posted Aug 18, 2003
Just spent a while reading through the backlog and,although i dont usually butt in on the conversations,i thought i would ask something.
I was gonna comment on alot in the thread but what Seraphina said in the last post really caught my attention and i was wondering how many people had opinions on that.
"It is possible to be interested in more than one person"
But i smore than one person.I aint talking about the love for family and stuff lik that.I talking love.Surely that should be for one person only.
Or is it?
Chris.
To be friends or not ... ?
My side. Posted Aug 18, 2003
Just spent a while reading through the backlog and,although i dont usually butt in on the conversations,i thought i would ask something.
I was gonna comment on alot in the thread but what Seraphina said in the last post really caught my attention and i was wondering how many people had opinions on that.
"It is possible to be interested in more than one person"
But is it possible to love more than one person.I aint talking about the love for family and stuff lik that.I talking love.Surely that should be for one person only.
Or is it?
Chris.
To be friends or not ... ?
Serephina Posted Aug 18, 2003
True Love is for one person yes..but you can be interested in seeing if thats there with more than one person.Love develops after being with someone a while..its different to 'fancying' someone or having a 'crush'.
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Wiro Posted Aug 18, 2003
wouldn't have the fainest idea not being old enough to of had enough experiance of love/"love"/crush/whatever
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My side. Posted Aug 18, 2003
Yes i agree Seraphina,very rare.
Which is why you should try and keep hold of it when you find it. Because it may never come again,and once the chance goes you will always be wondering.
But i spent my whole life wondering so its nothing new to me. Right i unsubscribe again now,just wanted peoples views on it.
I didnt get them...but you dont get everything you want out of life do ya?
Chris.
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creachy Posted Aug 19, 2003
love is just an instinct humans have turned into an emotion.
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Garentee - Ruler of Uterly Hopeless Romantics Posted Aug 19, 2003
That's a bit cynical isn't it? Surely there is something special about love?
BTW, we've kinda decreased our communication to ... well, alot less than before. It was a mutual decision, just for a while. Maybe in a while we can go back to like it was before. She said she still really wants to be friends, but doesn't want more than that.
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Orcus Posted Aug 19, 2003
Well in my experience (and yes I've also been there) you've absolutely done the right thing. The abslolute *worst* thing to do is to *not* go for it - clumsily or not - and to let things fester. At least it's out in the open and now things will eventually fade. Not doing anything about it is probaly more likely to end the friendship than what you've done.
In the end if you want someone, at some point you have to make a move. Simple as that really, they can only say yes or no but only once that's happened can you deal with the answer.
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Orcus Posted Aug 19, 2003
Well in my experience (and yes I've also been there) you've absolutely done the right thing. The abslolute *worst* thing to do is to *not* go for it - clumsily or not - and to let things fester. At least it's out in the open and now things will eventually fade. Not doing anything about it is probaly more likely to end the friendship than what you've done.
In the end if you want someone, at some point you have to make a move. Simple as that really, they can only say yes or no but only once that's happened can you deal with the answer.
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Wulfric Posted Aug 19, 2003
True love does exist. Not everybody finds it but it can happen. Even scientists admit that love is more than chemical and electical impulses, there are still things that a greater and more mysterious than current science can explain. It's not something that you can explain or prove, but you do know when you have found it.
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Serephina Posted Aug 19, 2003
Its said that 'soulmates' almost recognise each other.
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Ruby-Love Posted Aug 19, 2003
Erm....now lets see.....i also believe in True Love, and this does not happen alot, if your lucky maybe once in your lifetime.There are many types of 'Love' that you can experience.But also we get 'attatched' to people after a certain length of time this i feel is also 'Love' as in a great fondness for them???
am i making any sense???lol
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