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Post 1

Serephina

smiley - tongueout


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Post 2

Serephina

Ta babe smiley - smooch


N put that tongue away before Musette comes back n bites it off! smiley - laugh


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Post 3

creachy

*gulp*


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Post 4

Serephina

Id be gulping too..shes quite scary...lol


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Post 5

miss.shy...this life??

can i post here yet?

smiley - yikes too late smiley - sorrysmiley - smiley


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Post 6

creachy

yes of course you can. what appears to be the problem? apart from the acute lurkalitissmiley - biggrin


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Post 7

miss.shy...this life??

um...err...i dont like questions smiley - laugh

how to cure the lurk bug? maybe smiley - winkeye


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Post 8

creachy

quite a simple diagnosis here. lurking is a sure sign of nosiness. on such a forum as this it shows a high level of anxiety and a definate case of severe paranoia. what you need to ask yourself is, 'what is it i want to see written? why do i want to see it?' in your case your name says it all. you are shy and find it easier to listen. so to cure you lurk bug, or in a better sense utilise it. do you want an office here?

smiley - doctor


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Post 9

Serephina

HI zoe.. smiley - tea?

First I think youd need to sort out why you feel that youre on the outside looking in a lot in life! ..cos you do.You fel you dont fit in n just sort of fade into the background..you dont!
have a litle more confidence..n then youll feel more sociable!smiley - ok


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Post 10

creachy

*cough*my office*cough*

only joking hunsmiley - winkeye we basically said the same thing theresmiley - zoom


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Post 11

Serephina

Simulpost !


'Ahem'...

I's the boss in these parts..yous just the monkey boy smiley - tongueout
And i dont feel zoes ready for anything like that are you hun?? youre welcome if you are..


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Post 12

Serephina

basically said the same thing? ..err where?

oh yeah ..i forgot how similar shite n sense can sound! smiley - tongueoutsmiley - laugh(kiding!)

Ive had training.. smiley - nahnah


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Post 13

creachy

training at what? shiting smiley - laugh


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Post 14

Serephina

oooh tht cuts ! smiley - crysmiley - laugh

no i did a course in counselling skills.. n for some reason thick as i am i do seem to make sense anyway!


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Post 15

creachy

ahhh i see. you told about that beforesmiley - ok i just forgot.

i gotta go now so bye peoplesmiley - biggrin


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Post 16

Serephina

Night smiley - smooch
hope that indian gives yu the sh*ts


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Post 17

miss.shy...this life??

um...ok Sandra ur scarin me now...just kiddin

i just tell what i want to tell ppl...and for someone to know everythin about me has to really special


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Post 18

Serephina

You have to feel safe you mean smiley - hug everyone holds back a little of themselves ..eve with the peopl heyre closest too..thats perfectly ntural and mormal..to reveal yourself totally is to be powerless and totally vulnerable.But you hold back a lot more than that...the brief glimpse i got on your cards i can understand that.. but still..have a little more faith in yourself smiley - cuddle


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Post 19

miss.shy...this life??

true i do hold back alot from ppl but thats because i do need to feel safe...maybe it is normal and natural to do it...but then ppl seem to think that im not tellin them becoz i dont like them...i havent got much confidence...i see what i see in a mirror...and expect other ppl to think the same...and i havent got much faith in myself coz i feel ive let alot of ppl down

smiley - cuddle


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Post 20

Serephina

You can still be friendly and get to know people without giving too much private information away...and im sure you haent let anyone down..tough suffering from
very low self esteem mysel i do know what you mean.Places like this are good for improving your confidence cos you can be you.and as you can be see its harder to be judged! smiley - cheerup



You found thisquick anyway ..lol was you lurking? I only had the idea this afternoon.. got my pages changed to alabaster n creachy is god written all over my space too..cheeky little fecker! smiley - laugh


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