A Conversation for Goth - a Lifestyle Choice

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Post 341

Lord Job Boron. That's Lord Job Boron To You!

I don't think goth is about individuality. Its a clique, of course it isn't.


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Post 342

morningstar_13

but there are so many subdivisions-cybergoth, fetishgoth, rivethead, blah blah blah etc


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Post 343

Lord Job Boron. That's Lord Job Boron To You!

So it's about finding yourself through finding yourself. But don't ever claim its about individuality.


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Post 344

Arisztid Lugosi

I think in some ways it is a clique... But doesnt everyone want to belong to something in some way? At any rate if it is I dont think its such a bad one..... Besides its being more individual than some other cliques.
smiley - erm I dont really know if that made any sense or if I'm just rambeling


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Post 345

morningstar_13

just remember that you are a complete individual, just like everyone else


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Post 346

Arisztid Lugosi

Even if being goth isnt about being an individual I think at least for the most part we're all different.... Like you pointed out there are different kinds of goth and then within that even smaller group I'm sure not everyone is the same....


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Post 347

morningstar_13

no two people are EXACTLY the same, but we're all too shallow to look for differences. like the pussycat dolls. they are all the same one, with wigs


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Post 348

Arisztid Lugosi

pussycat dolls?


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Post 349

morningstar_13

you dont want to know, but google them anyway. ew


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Post 350

Arisztid Lugosi

*looks scared to google them*


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Post 351

belladonna_eyes

"I don't think goth is about individuality. Its a clique, of course it isn't."

Yes, there are elements of cliquiness, but why leap to the conclusion that it must therefore exclude the possibility of being individual?
Even if goth is cliquey, does it really matter? It doesn't mean that goths are mean to non-goths, it just means they enjoy being in goth company.


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Post 352

belladonna_eyes

just noticed this conversation has been going for nearly 4 years...


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Post 353

Arisztid Lugosi

smiley - yikes Four years!! We should have a partysmiley - biggrin


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Post 354

morningstar_13

with baloons and a clown and a cake and party bags and paper cone hats and musical chairs and platform boots!


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Post 355

Arisztid Lugosi

oooh! yes!!! and pressies, and that race where you run with an egg on a spoon, and streamers, and candles and sparklers for the cake!!!


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Post 356

morningstar_13

can we bring our teddy bears?


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Post 357

Arisztid Lugosi

I think thats a great idea!!! We should definately bring our teddy bears!smiley - biggrin


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Post 358

morningstar_13

goth teddy....that would be groovy
i have lesbian barbie, too


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Post 359

Arisztid Lugosi

Lesbian barbie?

I dont have a goth teddy.... I have a few from childhood that I'm very attached to whether they're goth or notsmiley - smiley


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Post 360

PoppyADark

I've only looked at a couple of pages, so I'm not too sure if anyone's mentioned it, but... Why is everyone looking to make a mint off us?!?! Everything, and I do mean EVERYTHING, is just so ridiculously overpriced! I'm not just talking hand crafted top quality clothes/shoes/furniture/insert whatever you fancy here, but even stuff that's hardly top of the range material- or design-wise. And please don't tell me about charity shops; when you live in a small town in redneck Derbyshire the best you can find there are gum boots and sleeveless jumpers... (do they qualify as tank tops?). Except, I have trouble finding my size anywhere (shorties of the world unite and take over and force somebody to cater for our clothing needs... smiley - tongueout) so the chances of finding anything in a charity shop that I would like AND would fit me are next to none. Seeing that I'm not a footballer's wife or the Chief Executive of anything, any clothes, make-up and home decorations are completely out of my reach. Capitalistic pigs! >smiley - sadface


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