h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

I would, but I'm not entirely sure I understand the question.

Mayby but it doesnt help when women prefer the men who open up page 3 to view the luvly ladies. I admit it I find the female form attractive. Its part of my sexuality.Ther difference between a nice guy and a jerk lies in the fact that that a jerk will use any kind of sexual ruse to create chemistry while a nice guy either can't which is sad, or sometimes wont.In the case of those that will not but many men since the 1940's have been led to believe that if we treat women as equals and not subservient we will be would be looked on as a better prospect. I think considering how much has been written on the internet over this subject (there are entire webpages devoted to it) men are beggining to realise that it has been a lie and that being nice far from getting you your life partner will get you lots of friends.

I am amongst one of these men. But like many men who prefer to respect women but it seems that to form a sexual relationship with a woman I have to use confidence,charm, turning on the sexual chemistry (sexual force) or emotional mindgames (sexual fraud.) I ve done it sometimes in the past same as many other men, just the way jerks manipulate women day in and day out. If I didnt I would never be able to form a relationship.And I regret it.

I dont understand why women will willingly accept traetment from men who value them less. I know its not a clear cut debate, but it seems as if the tendancy is that women choose men according to initial sexula chemistry and then complain when they find out those men dont respect them.

I am not sure that all women are like that. As we grow older we tend to look for different things.

To be honest, I don't think I can provide you with the definitive answer.

Thanks anyway. You are a lot more truthfull than most women out there and I suspect that your boyfriend is very lucky. So do you think I should become a player until I hit thirty, by which time I can revert to being a niceguy since women around that age group prefer men who are loyal? Seems a bitter pill to take!

No you should always be true to yourself. There is a woman out there for you, but she will probably be in the last place you will expect to find her.

Don't look. It's a cliche but if you are looking you will never find her.

?????? please explain.

...and even if I did find her whats to stop her rejecting me @because there is 'no chemistry'/

I spent my twenties looking for love. But people always seem to judge me on my size and didn't realise that I was deeply unhappy. It was only when I had given up completely and decided I wanted to be alone for the rest of my laugh, that I turned up at a friend's wedding and fell in love with Ian. A bloke who I knew liked me, but I had always dismissed before for being a long haired techie. Now I realise that I should have given the long haired techie a chance.

I think the point I am trying to make is that it was only when I stopped looking for Mr Right, I found that the tall dark millionaire I was looking for wasn't Mr Right. Mr Right was the bloke who had been asking me out for a drink and who I had been turning down.

PS It is very nice of you to say Ian is lucky. I am not sure I would agree!

thanks.

*grins at Abi and refrains from muttering about how he now has short hair*
How is he anyway? he's completely vanished from here, I feel hurt and shunned, just when he could have swung into full scale gloating about Schumis demise as well! Actually I haven't been on here for ages myself so I can't really complain...actually I can OOh and guess what, I'm going to Eurodisney for my 21st in a few weeks, I get to meet the REAL Tinkerbell!!!

Which kinda goes on to answer Fords question, not to let the female side down but we have intense double standards when it comes to selecting guys. I reckon anyone who says they don't initially base judgements on looks and attractiveness is kidding themselves, that's how it works but the thing to remember is that different people find different things attractive. Some people are attracted to nice guys others are attracted to the bad boy image but the thing to decide is which sort of person you want to be attractive to. My boyfriend is the nicest guy in the world, I still find rockstar/bad guy images attractive(only in Bono and Irv obviously) but it's him that I want to spend the rest of my life with and that's what counts. The same thing works the other way round, to go with the Page 3 thing, someone like Jordan may be attractive to guys but I reckon most of the people who lust after her wouldn't want to have long term relationship with a page 3 model. Which is my opinion even though you didn't ask for it

Abi, your laugh isn't that bad is it?

LOL

Well Sam says I have two different laughs, I either sound like Lesley Garrett or Sid James!

Nyah hah hah hah hah hah hah!

YOU WANT TO TAKE ME ON,???

I'LL FIGHT YOU! I'LL FIGHT YOU GOOD!!!

YOU'VE MADE A POWERFULLY ENEMY!


JUST YOU WAIT!

BLArT

Hiya

Long time no see. So how's tricks with you then?

Blart,

Sit down, chill out and have a

Have you ever tried having a tsp. of coffee, a tsp. of cocoa, and then sugar with hot water, and plenty of milk?

It's fantastic!