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I'm sorry to hear that - I do hope you feel better soon.

Thanks

"throwing up"

Now *there's* something to put off your unwelcome admirer!

Oh so true

Hope you are feeling better soon, Luthiena, and I think it's great you are going to take your problem to 'people in charge' so that they can help you deal with it.

Good for you!

az

It has to wait until after the half-term now....

That's allright, hon, I bet you won't have to worry about his unwelcome advances until you're well. And even then, he might catch what you have and that would serve him right.

feel better!

Thanks

I feel loads better now...however, I have chickened out of going to O2 and I'm having second thoughts about visiting my tutor

No, go and see your tutor, if you give them the O2 details they can do it for you, or aka could help as offered. Ena, this does need sorting out, you just need a couple more days of bravery, I know you've got it in you

The longer I wait the more I don't want to, but I have to at least wait until after 1/2 term

Yep, but you will have to face at some point and the later you leave it the harder it'll get. I have a lot of experience with doing things I don't want to but have to for the sake of my health of sanity and you just have to reach a mindset of "Damn it, had enough, going to do something" and it's harder to get into that mindset the worse the problem is. You have everyone here supporting you mentally and emotionally and your tutor should be able to give you the physical support you need.
Iago

Right I've steeled myself to do it!

Good!

Grr

Only two more days to wait. Go get 'em tiger

You'll be fine, Luthiena. The anticipation in these sorts of situations is usually much worse than the actually *doing*. Once it is done you will be able to relax and then tell us all about it.



az

Precisely! Just take a deep breath. You'll feel much better once you do.

Also, it's probably in his own interest to get some serious feedback about his behaviour now, rather than later. Imagine if he started giving unwelcome attention to a woman with a large and jealous boyfriend - he could easily end up in hospital (or worse).