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Nasty Transition Periods
Mu Beta Started conversation Aug 27, 2002
OK, I'm only posting this because I'm a bottle and a half of 
down, and my relationships are one of the few things I don't like to talk about publicly.
It's a nasty time passing graduation. I've just split up with a girl because I've told her (not directly) my intentions are to settle down long-term, and that freaked her out. Now I'm finding it very hard to form relationships because I cannot see myself going through any more one-night stands (of which I have had far too many), and am petrified of being dumped for the same reasons as the above girlfriend. There are many more issues regarding trust and intimacy that I am finding it hard to bring into the relationships, because of any future partners' reactions.
On the the plus side, I can see the advantages of remaining an eliglble(-ish) bachelor for the rest of my life.
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Haylle (Nyssabird) ? mg to recovery Posted Aug 31, 2002
relationships are a b*tch, and that's just the sad reality. personally, i wish people would rely more on themselves, be a little more polyamorous in nature, and not need to tie themselves to a particular human. the ties that bind should be mutual enjoyment of each others love and company, not papers signed in blood or fear or propriety...feh. rantrantrant...personally i'm just completely confused by love.
more ?
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Mu Beta Posted Aug 31, 2002
The key word there is 'polyamorous', isn't it.
That, in itself, just leads to bitterness, arguments, and lots of drinking by one's self.
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Haylle (Nyssabird) ? mg to recovery Posted Aug 31, 2002
I'm not so sure. I mean our current system is obviously bunk. I'm quite willing to participate in some sociological experimenting..
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Mu Beta Posted Sep 1, 2002
Me too, invariably. It's just that my partners tend to think otherwise.
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Haylle (Nyssabird) ? mg to recovery Posted Sep 1, 2002
Heh..the relationship revolutionaries need a rallying location.
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Mu Beta Posted Sep 1, 2002
I'm worried just the two of us might turn up, though
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Haylle (Nyssabird) ? mg to recovery Posted Sep 1, 2002
Hey that's all right. Besides..when they see how much fun we're having, they'll pop by.
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Mu Beta Posted Sep 1, 2002
*excited about the possibility of fun*
Go on then, start it up. I've got far too many extra-curricular entries already
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Haylle (Nyssabird) ? mg to recovery Posted Sep 1, 2002
Hmm..what should be call it..I already have a 'Tree Top Bed-in' entry that sees no traffic. I could altar that!
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Mu Beta Posted Sep 1, 2002
It only sees no traffic because you never told me where it was 
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Haylle (Nyssabird) ? mg to recovery Posted Sep 2, 2002
A798870 ..Well, there ye are. Drop by. We'll plan our debauchery!
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Nasty Transition Periods
- 1: Mu Beta (Aug 27, 2002)
- 2: Haylle (Nyssabird) ? mg to recovery (Aug 31, 2002)
- 3: Mu Beta (Aug 31, 2002)
- 4: Haylle (Nyssabird) ? mg to recovery (Aug 31, 2002)
- 5: Mu Beta (Sep 1, 2002)
- 6: Haylle (Nyssabird) ? mg to recovery (Sep 1, 2002)
- 7: Mu Beta (Sep 1, 2002)
- 8: Haylle (Nyssabird) ? mg to recovery (Sep 1, 2002)
- 9: Mu Beta (Sep 1, 2002)
- 10: Haylle (Nyssabird) ? mg to recovery (Sep 1, 2002)
- 11: Mu Beta (Sep 1, 2002)
- 12: Haylle (Nyssabird) ? mg to recovery (Sep 2, 2002)
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