A Conversation for H2G2 London Spring meet 2007! Saturday 28th April.

Post-Meet depression

Post 1

MMF - Keeper of Mustelids, with added P.M.A., is now in a relationship.

smiley - blue

It came, was enjoyed and went. smiley - sadface

Just 43 hours of being in HooTooers' company, and now back to reality.

'Depressing, Isn't it?'

I am about to take this sorry, sad carcase around Kew again, to cheer myself up, as I feel really flat, despondent and low.

I had such a great time, and just wish I hadn't been so tired, especially after the long slog to the Pub. Almost fully recovered now though! smiley - ok

I also want to take this moment to apologise for upsetting anybody, as I know at least one person's feelings were hurt, and that is something I would never do intentionally.

Anyway, I am off now, to rationalise my two remaining brain cells, and see if I can get them to communicate again, and explain it will be another six months before they get a chance of enjoying themselves again.

smiley - cheers everyone for making a miserable smiley - bleep happy for a short period. It was, and is appreciated, and the Meet will be remembered for a very long time.

smiley - cheers

MMF

smiley - musicalnote


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Post 2

JulesK

Aw, smiley - hug MMF.

From what I read around these parts, you were, as usual, an absolute smiley - star with all the arranging of activities and being helpful to visitorssmiley - ok


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Post 3

aka Bel - A87832164

He was indeed, Jules.smiley - ok

MMF, I can't imagine you upset somebody, wouldn't know how you think you did, either. smiley - hug
Anyway, everybody who knows you will know you'd never intentionally do it, so you shouldn't worry too much about it. smiley - smiley


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Post 4

Hati

smiley - hug It was excellent. smiley - ok


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Post 5

lil ~ Auntie Giggles with added login ~ returned


I thoroughly enjoyed your company, MMF smiley - smoochsmiley - hug


lil xx
smiley - magic


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Post 6

MMF - Keeper of Mustelids, with added P.M.A., is now in a relationship.

Thanks folks, I really enjoyed it as well, in my own way. Guess I am just shattered. I don't know.

Now I just feel completely deflated and kinda lost!

Does anyone else feel this way?

I daren't even smiley - thepost to my Journal in case I write something untoward. smiley - wah

The walk around Kew helped, and now I am off to do some ironing. That normally works.

I hate feeling like this!

And I can easily upset people, B'Elana, it's one of the few things I am good at!

What an end to a good weekend! smiley - sadface

Oh well, I'll be back when I am in a better frame of mind!

smiley - cheers

MMF

smiley - musicalnote


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Post 7

Wilma Neanderthal

smiley - hug Just remember we all like you very much so you'll have to succumb and like yourself too, eventually... when you've finished the ironing smiley - tongueout or we'll all descend upon you and make you, errr smiley - erm what do you absolutely loathe? ... err, eat bushel-loads of celery or something smiley - silly


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Post 8

coelacanth

I'll add my thanks too, for my totally unexpected badge prize! smiley - redwine
I didn't go to Kew (went to see G&G at the Tate instead) but by all accounts you organised a brilliant afternoon for everyone.
smiley - bluefish


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Post 9

Galaxy Babe - eclectic editor

And so he didsmiley - ok

I thoroughly enjoyed your company too, MMF, and it certainly wasn't me whose feelings were hurt!smiley - huh

<> I feel like this everyime I go to a meet and then come home. It's because there's no-one in my life who even remotely understands me, and then suddenly I'm with a roomfull of people who are on the same wavelength and it's smiley - magic

The meets are a kind of drug I don't want to be cured of. I'm still on a high from the lovely memories, all the smiley - hugsmiley - smoochand smiley - cuddle and smiley - laugh but I am coming down slowly, as you say reality sets in and smiley - blue but I'm enjoying the feeling while it lasts.

I miss you allsmiley - wahalready.

Reading journals helps, so go write yours then I can read itsmiley - roflI might have missed some gossipsmiley - biggrin

smiley - hugsmiley - smoochI just love that Harold & Hilda pic of ussmiley - ok


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Post 10

aka Bel - A87832164

>>And I can easily upset people, B'Elana, it's one of the few things I am good at!<<
I haven't yet noticed this special skill. Did somebody complain to you about something? I'm sorry to hear, but I'm sure you'll get it sorted eventually. smiley - hug


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Post 11

Primeval Mudd (formerly Roymondo)

I'm still doing the meet thing. Just got back from The Constitution in Camden with 2legs.

MMF, if RL is getting too much you've got my number, and you know that mini-meets are always in the offing.smiley - biggrin


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Post 12

~:*-Venus-*:~

I really enjoyed it aswell Maz smiley - biggrin
I can't believe you upset anyone, you're always the perfect host smiley - hug


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Post 13

Galaxy Babe - eclectic editor

smiley - cuddleMMF hooray it's May! Not a depressing month, free smiley - cuddlefrom GB anytime you want, all monthsmiley - biggrin

smiley - cuddle


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Post 14

Ellen

Can I have a hug too? I'm rather depressed.


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Post 15

Galaxy Babe - eclectic editor

Oh yea smiley - hugsmiley - smooch

smiley - cuddle

Better?

How about some smiley - chocsmiley - cake? *hopeful, if worried, glance*


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Post 16

Ellen

Hmmm, I'm on a diet, but a may have a nibble of cake. thanks.


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Post 17

Titania (gone for lunch)

Thanks for doing a splendid job guiding and helping out, MMF!smiley - hug The tour around Kew Gardens was a great experience and a very pleasant way to spend the day.

Oh, and you certaily didn't upset me!


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Post 18

lil ~ Auntie Giggles with added login ~ returned


I had a wonderful weekend, so you couldn't have upset me either!! smiley - hug


lil xx
smiley - magic


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Post 19

azahar

Gosh, MMF, now you've got everyone wondering (myself included) about who it was you may have upset! smiley - hug

From what I've read on various threads about London h2g2 meets, you seem to always put in a whole lot of energy and caring into making it as pleasant an experience as possible for everybody. Honestly, you cannot help it if one or two people become disgruntled and the truth is that some people will always choose to find fault no matter how much you try to make things pleasant for them.

Don't let 'one bad apple' spoil the memory of the lovely time you arranged for everyone. And frankly, anyone who let you know they were somehow displeased or upset with you was simply showing bad manners in the extreme, all things considered. I mean, it's not your job to organise and arrange things for visiting researchers - clearly it's something you do out of the goodness of your heart. And by all accounts here and elsewhere, it's something you do very well.

But I do know that 'deflated' feeling after it's all over. When I had a mini-meet here in Sevilla last year I felt a bit lost after everyone had gone home again.

I'm quite looking forward to enjoying your famous Kew Garden tour one day... smiley - smiley

az


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Post 20

Wilma Neanderthal

Not sure if MMF is going to appreciate this, but just so you all know, he has decided not to post for a couple of days. He's back to work today (and I think, to be honest, that he might be rather exhausted).

I have spoken to him and he does seem rather down but I have faith in his decision of retreating into his 'cave' for a teensy while to recoup.

This thread is certainly going to be like an IV of love and encouragement for him when he reads it smiley - wow Hope you're smiley - ghostsmiley - lurk and reading this, MMF smiley - ok


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