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Here you go, Serephina! Hope this breaks the drought

Awwww

Ta

> 'best kisser I've kissed' may be a better turn of phrase We've never hopped on the good foot and done the bad thing

plan not to get too drunk tonight so I can stick to my New Year Resolution and keep my hands off him. However, if he can't keep his hands off me, that's another matter entirely.......

unlikely though

I appreciate you Serephina

Im just having one of those weeks .. is good!


I'm sure you can keep your hands off if you really want to!

I don't want to though, that's the problem . Anyhoo, we went out and boogied and he went to bed as soon as we got in, so no naughtiness occurred. Just as well, cuz had second date with Date Guy on Friday.... things went well, he said at the end that perhaps we should take things a step further (he's quite direct), so I gave him a kiss goodbye and told him to call me

Good on you! ..make him wait

I need some advice on how to make a move on a girl. Let us say that you for some reason are spending some time with a nice, friendly girl. You would like get a bit friendlier with the person, but at the same time not to scare them away. Any good idea on what to do here? Would be great to get to some kissing or something like that. Or at least something a bit more intimate than shaking hands. But what to do?

Well, I'd take it easy is the first thingy. Maybe invite her round to do the washing up first off. Then you can move on as the relationship progresses and get her to tidy the front room up in the flat. Cleaning the bathroom and your bedroom should be left until you feel totally sure she likes you.

ictoan, still single for some reason

Okay, maybe I should rephrase that. I didn't mean with as in a relationsship. I meant as in physically in the same location. For example travelling together.

Xanatic, buy her a few maybe a or two, have a few yourself, and let it all come naturally!

That stuff doesn't come naturally to me, that`s why I need a manual.

Practice with your friends:

1. Go to pub.
2. Consume about

You'll find yourself spontaneously saying "I love you!, you're my besht friend. I(n the world, ever!" hic!

Once you've perfected your technique, try it on your intended. Who could fail to be charmed by such a sentiment?

Xan you’re a gorgeous chap, interesting to talk to and as a huge bonus you listen to what is being said.

I’ve no idea how these things work, but I do believe that if your always yourself and you continue to hold true to that, that at some point something will ‘click’ and you’ll just comfortably slide into something other than friendship.

So you think I might one day find a uni-cycling, fire juggling, stiltwalking girl of my own?

The problem is even if I found some girl who was actually interested in me, she might want me to make the first move. And I wouldn't know how.

you know we have christianity to blame for mongamous relationships ...

however i get the feeling if that weren't the case we would all be still here with the exact same issues ...

Xan, dont worry you can do it you dont even need my guranteed nicker loosening advice but its here if you want it.

Dont get drunk on a date early on. You might get away with that if the girls got the big style hots for you but having a few and keeping a level head is better than getting plastered.

Do complement her on her clothes, perfume, accessories, hair, makeup, skin and shoes. Do it descretly like: Lots of girls get really dry skin in winter but yours looks so soft. OR Wow how does your hair look so good on a windy day like to day.

Listen and talk to her just like you would anyone else, dont lay it on thick if you pretend to be something you're not you will pay for it later.

Be confident there will probably be something about you that she likes that you are'nt even aware of when you lok at or think about yourself, just relax and share a good time.

Talk about work does it strees her make her back/feet or wherever ache? Offer a massage, when she says yes do it for her enjoyment not yours. She'll be putyy in you hands.

Take condoms.

Well, go and read the Kama Sutra.

Ok, so I don't know how helpful that would be, but anyway, from what I remember, it says be somewhere darkish, sit down beside the object of your affections, then embrace her sideways like.

Oh and check the body language stuff to see if they're open to you first.

Something like that. Can you tell I don't really have any better idea than you?

Xan, you forgot to add bell ringing and occasional sword swinging. Ok, looking at all that perhaps I should try to find a new hobby or two……

“she might want me to make the first move. And I wouldn't know how.”

Perhaps she would, but then perhaps when you find her something sort of ‘clicks’ inside you, and you’ll find that in that situation you actually know what to do.

I don’t think anyone can give you a full and definite answer – every situation is different, and every individual sees things in their own unique way.

It just seems to happen I've been giving it some thought and i can't remember in any situations i've been in who kissed who first or whatever..it just 'happened'

Stop worrying about it n relax!

What Serephina says

It just happens and looking back you wont be able to tell what happened, it's all a blur