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Scandrea Started conversation Apr 26, 2007
I can't come back yet- I've still got a lot of work to do.
But I figured I'd let you know that I'm winning the battle.
According to the job offer that I got today, I am a productive member of society.
Of course, the job is in San Francisco- three time zones away from everything that's familiar. The metro stop is a few blocks away, so I'll be able to commute. If the map is right, I'll be able to see the Bay Bridge from the office windows. Benefits, living wage, full deal. This could be the best decision I ever made.
Of course, if this is a mistake, it's going to be the biggest mistake I ever made. Ever. Getting stuck on the cliff will have nothing on this. They will have to invent new words for the level of fail that I will achieve if this is a mistake.
But then if it's not, the inverse is true: every day that I live I will regret not making this "mistake." My parents, hopefully, will come around. I have no doubt that we'll fight about it, but they'll come around once they figure out that I'm not going to turn into my uncles or make any mistakes that I haven't made in the six years I've lived away from home.
For the first time in a long time, I think I see the light at the end of the tunnel, and I'm sure it's not a train.
See you again soon!
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websailor Posted Apr 26, 2007
Scan,
It is always said that when our time comes, we don't regret the things we did do, but the things we didn't do.
Whatever you decide will be *undoable* if it proves the wrong decision, so go for it.
Take care,
Websailor
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Apollyon - Grammar Fascist Posted Apr 26, 2007
I haven't been on this Earth as long as you, Scan, but I know from experience that websailor is right. You always regret what you don't do way more than what you do. So for Dagda's sake, go for it! We're all rooting for you.
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Jackruss a Grand Master of Tea and Toast, Keeper of the comfy chair, who is spending a year dead for tax reasons! DNA! Posted Apr 26, 2007
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Reefgirl (Brunel Baby) Posted Apr 26, 2007
Everyone's entitled to a huge honkin' mistake, I can't see this being that one. As my mum always says 'You don't know 'till you try'
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Traveller in Time Reporting Bugs -o-o- Broken the chain of Pliny -o-o- Hired Posted Apr 26, 2007
Traveller in Time counting the odds
"But ofcourse it is a mistake, if you go back to your parents's you will find another job, just enoug to make a living but with good perspective perhaps. . .
Go for it You can only live life once "
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T.B. Falsename ACE: [stercus venio] I have learned from my mistakes, and feel I could repeat them exactly. Posted Apr 26, 2007
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Scandrea Posted Apr 27, 2007
Wondered how long it was going to take someone to say that.
Ugh... now I know how my friend M felt when we were all pushing her to go to grad school in New Mexico. No offense guys- I really need the kick in the rear end here! But everyone's saying "Go! Go! Go!" (except my parents) and I feel like I need to sit down and breathe for a minute!
Not that what you're doing is wrong. Keep telling me to go. It's a great ego boost!
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websailor Posted Apr 27, 2007
Dear Scan,
As a victim AND the culprit of damaging offspring's confidence I can honestly say 'Go for it'. Nothing is permanent but regrets might be. You won't know till you try. Parents do things for the best of motives but they are often wrong!! By the time they realise it, it can be too late.
Websailor
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Jackruss a Grand Master of Tea and Toast, Keeper of the comfy chair, who is spending a year dead for tax reasons! DNA! Posted Apr 27, 2007
Go Go quick quick GO!
Remember you can allways come back! It's a big planet and only so much time in which to see it..... and its got a fault line running through it what more does a Rock Dr need...... hot springs, the smell of surphur early in the morning...................
RJR
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Jackruss a Grand Master of Tea and Toast, Keeper of the comfy chair, who is spending a year dead for tax reasons! DNA! Posted Apr 27, 2007
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T.B. Falsename ACE: [stercus venio] I have learned from my mistakes, and feel I could repeat them exactly. Posted Apr 27, 2007
Scan, just remember that you'll be moving a looooong way from your parents and that will almost certainly upset them. On the upside you can get pot really easily and you can always get a VW camper and/or sleep on the beach
Oh and I only quoted that song because very few people seem to know San Francisco Nights by The Animals
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Apollyon - Grammar Fascist Posted Apr 27, 2007
Go go Scaaaaaandreaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa,
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- 1: Scandrea (Apr 26, 2007)
- 2: websailor (Apr 26, 2007)
- 3: Apollyon - Grammar Fascist (Apr 26, 2007)
- 4: Jackruss a Grand Master of Tea and Toast, Keeper of the comfy chair, who is spending a year dead for tax reasons! DNA! (Apr 26, 2007)
- 5: Reefgirl (Brunel Baby) (Apr 26, 2007)
- 6: David B - Singing Librarian Owl (Apr 26, 2007)
- 7: Traveller in Time Reporting Bugs -o-o- Broken the chain of Pliny -o-o- Hired (Apr 26, 2007)
- 8: T.B. Falsename ACE: [stercus venio] I have learned from my mistakes, and feel I could repeat them exactly. (Apr 26, 2007)
- 9: Scandrea (Apr 27, 2007)
- 10: websailor (Apr 27, 2007)
- 11: Jackruss a Grand Master of Tea and Toast, Keeper of the comfy chair, who is spending a year dead for tax reasons! DNA! (Apr 27, 2007)
- 12: Jackruss a Grand Master of Tea and Toast, Keeper of the comfy chair, who is spending a year dead for tax reasons! DNA! (Apr 27, 2007)
- 13: Milla, h2g2 Operations (Apr 27, 2007)
- 14: T.B. Falsename ACE: [stercus venio] I have learned from my mistakes, and feel I could repeat them exactly. (Apr 27, 2007)
- 15: Apollyon - Grammar Fascist (Apr 27, 2007)
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