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Whoa! That is a lot of other stuff you're bringing into this. Okay, now I sorta get it. See, a certain person, a good(ahem ahem) friend of mine has this problem where he is afraid of rejection even when he was presented with the option of going out with someone(if I am wrong, I am sure he will correct me). Anyways, this guy doesnt have much experience, so in a way he fears that since he is not good enough, maybe you will end up rejecting him. Kinda sad, since without the experience, you won't get anywhere, will you? Hmm. I think now he does like you and is scared out of his little mind.

You guys definately should talk some more about this. However, only he can decide if he is ready to confront things. How old is this guy?
Wait, I think someone asked that already. Hmm. This is really annoying me! I'm sure it is annoying you a lot more, and I am glad I didnt insult you are make you feel worse or something.

Rat the incredible(hah)

Hey! I wasnt saying that moving in is a bad thing, gosh no, I was merely saying that its a bad thing when a person you have a good relationship with can't commit when it comes time to do those important steps! And who says moving in would be a misery? Isnt that a bit cold blooded? I am insulted. All I'm saying is that if thats the way he reacted to the kiss, how are they ever gonna build up to that eventually? Greyrose sounds like she really cares about that guy, and I know it hurts when it doesnt work out. It hurts like a $^%&^%&%^&%^%$#%@!#$!!

RAT

Wow, that sucks! You guys were married and stuff, ouch! I really don't know what to tell you except that I understand how you feel somewhat, I mean, you guys had this open trusting relationship and she didnt even give you a reason for ending it. And why does she still wannna be friends? I'd want to kill her, personally. How are you ever gonna trust another girl after she did that? You will, I am sure of it. I have faith in myself and I have faith that one day you will too. I mean, shit happens, and you will someday go on with your life. It may take a while, but you will.So far its been taking me three months and counting to try to get on with mine, but you have a much more devastating thing to deal with. Of course if you want to talk about it I will be sure to read and try to help, although I am turning 18 and have no experience with certain things.
And to quote Beck:
I'm full grown man, but I'm, not afraid to cry!

Hey guys, I started a new conversation, since this was getting so long and specialized. It has the same name as this one and then some.
You shouldn't have any trouble finding it.

I am female.
I was crazy about a bloke for 4 years. I couldn't say anything because I was scared of rejection. I almost lost him & was misrable for months. We eventually got together. He never called, weeks would pass between the times we talked. I kept wondering what I was doing wrong.
I started Uni and met this other guy. He had a girlfriend. The two of us became good friends. For some reason I felt like I had known him forever and opened up to him. I have never been able to display emotions in public.
I split up with the bloke I was with (I would have been content to spend the rest of my life with him) because I realised I could talk to this new person about anything.
5 weeks ago he split with his girlfriend (after 3 months of turning to me when he felt low). the next day I felt low, he tried to calm me down, walked me to the train station. We stood there hugging and then he kissed me. I had no idea he felt the same way about me as I did about him. I was so scared I would loose his friendship. We are both emotional wrecks but we are working though this. He communicates with me daily. He comforts me. He is scared because he has been hurt in the past.
I guess I'm trying to say, some guys are open. Admitedly this guy is also bisexual, not sure if that makes any diffrence.
All I know is I'm the one that has major problems with emotion.

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