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Gay teachers

Post 21

kea ~ Far out in the uncharted backwaters of the unfashionable end of the western spiral arm of the Galaxy lies a small, unregarded but very well read blue and white website

I think you need to consider where you want to end up teaching. If you want to teach in small rural areas you might want to be more careful about how you come out. Not that rural schools are *necessarily more homophobic but you will have less choice in transfer if there are problems than if you are in a big city.

Can you talk to the teacher's union where-ever you are and ask them what kind of problems there's been at the employment level?


Gay teachers

Post 22

Primeval Mudd (formerly Roymondo)

I reckon that's the best bit of advice so far! Talk to the union - they'll probably have a dedicated LGBT group who can advise you.


Gay teachers

Post 23

Vicki Virago - Proud Mother

I think my comments might have been taken out of context...

...ok, so I might only *know* about 3 gay men and I may have got that wrong. I hold my hands up to that.

What I was trying to say is be yourself at interviews, if you find you're not getting the job, try a different approach and see if that works.

At the end of the day, you're wanting to become a teacher and it shouldn't matter about your personal circumstances.


Gay teachers

Post 24

novosibirsk - as normal as I can be........

Morning all,

About 50 years ago I was taught by a wonderful old chap, who I now realise was homosexually inclined . I use that phrasde because back then 'gay' meant 'happy'!

He was a brilliant teacher,and his sexuality was NEVER a problem.His only failing, in a 600 boys Royal Grammar School was being prone to cry gently when we sung "Jerusalem" at morning assembly.

I would have no problem with my grandchildren being taught by anyone at all - the only requirement is the ability to light the fire of curiosity and interest in the kids within the sublects they are taught.

As to colleagues , Kea and Raymondo have probably ofered the best practical advice. For my own part , In you shoes I would walk softly , don't broadcast ,and don't lie . See how the land lies i your first staffroom.

GO AND TEACH - THE BEST WAY YOU CAN

Novo smiley - blackcat


Gay teachers

Post 25

Ferrettbadger. The Renegade Master

As Raymondo said almost all Unions have LGBT sections and usually have "equality" or "diversity" officers at local or branch level so decide who you are oging to join (presumably the NUT or the Nasties) and speak the the constituency/branch secretary of that union in your area and they shuold be able to give you some good and practical advise.


Gay teachers

Post 26

HonestIago

Cheers guys, you've all made me feel a bit better. The kids aren't an issue, all tthe time I've been working with kids I've had a 'no personal information' rule - I don't talk about sex in any way, don't talk about drinking, smoking or drug-taking, it's just unprofessional in my eyes and I don't have a problem with that continuing. It wasn't that long ago since I was a kid myself and we thought almost all the male staff were gay at one time or another.

It was more colleagues, at the moment I don't broadcast my sexuality, but I will talk about it if the situation arises, it's really no big deal, though people always act surprised. I like having that freedom, and I'd be loath to lose it. It shouldn't be the case that I'm thinking about this in this day and age, but kids are always a special case where people lose their ability to be rational, and I don't think I'd be so concerned in any other environment.

I think the thing that counts is that right now, just as I'm preparing to teach a class as part of a placement I'm on, I know I'm gonna be a kick-ass teacher, little unimportant things like sexuality aren't really going to stop me


Gay teachers

Post 27

kelli - ran 2 miles a day for 2012, aiming for the same for 2013

smiley - applause - although you should probably know that ass-kicking is somewhat frowned upon these days smiley - winkeye


Gay teachers

Post 28

WanderingAlbatross - Wing-tipping down the rollers of life's ocean.

Unless it's the kids kicking the teacher then that's ok because kids have rights and teachers aren't allowed to touch the little darlings. Don't get me going.

Good luck with your career, you'll deserve a medal.


Gay teachers

Post 29

Not him

Darlings? I'm "a joy to teach" and I wouldn't describe myself as a little darling. I'm definitely little, but darling? smiley - laugh


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Post 30

WanderingAlbatross - Wing-tipping down the rollers of life's ocean.

Thank you just leave the apple on the table.


Gay teachers

Post 31

Sho - employed again!

thanks roymondo but it didn't actually tell me what PSHE stands for.....


Gay teachers

Post 32

Primeval Mudd (formerly Roymondo)

You'd think they'd explain the acronym in their own bleedin' website!

But a little further Googling reveals:

http://www.qca.org.uk/7835.html

Personal, Social & Health Education.

smiley - biggrin


Gay teachers

Post 33

Sho - employed again!

thanks - I don't have a lot of time at the mo, hence I didn't google for myself.

Strange lesson... I wish we'd had them smiley - laugh


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Post 34

Not him

They're not much fun, really. Teachers talking about embarrasing subjects (which they're often not informed about in detail), students not seeing them as a "real" lesson: it adds up to fraught teachers and poor lessons. (They especially tend to be noisy.)


Gay teachers

Post 35

HonestIago

PSHE is being phased out and being replaced by Citizenship. While citizenship could potentially have many of the same flaws as PSHE (it's compulsory but non-assessed and the kids know it) but it has the scope to be amazing, if done well as some of the subjects involved are really interesting and teachers have the freedom to actually teach


Gay teachers

Post 36

pffffft

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I remember back in my school days there was a particularly unapproachable, unpopular, uncharismatic, overweight and tight shirted porcine middle aged sweaty male teacher who had the unbelievable task of talking through the concept of 'condoms' one lesson in social studies. After several minutes of pained discourse it culminated in him extracting one from its packaging and then showing the class how to 'wear one' with the use of two fingers. I don't know who was the more embarrassed or distressed by the experience, him, or us.


Gay teachers

Post 37

smurfles

I would have no problems at all with someone "gay" teaching my children.Irrespective of your your sexuality,just be yourself,smiley - goodluck,and enjoy your job!


Gay teachers

Post 38

Not him

I'd absolutely love it if I was taught by a gay teacher. I probably was, a few times. If so, I didn't notice.


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Post 39

Xanatic

Seems to me that everyone is talking about wether it should be a problem, not wether it would be a problem. I also donĀ“t see that the children should know enough about your personal life to know if you are gay. But it might be different when it comes to other teachers and the parents. Some parents may well dislike their kid be taught bz a gay teacher, wether they are entitled to or not. And even if you can get the law on your side, it might be a lot of hassle. Again, depends on what kind of area you are teaching.


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Post 40

Hati

I wouldn't mind my kids to be taught by a gay teacher. However, my daughter (15) would mind and as far as I know kids can be really cruel. If any of your colleauges will have a problem with thatthey'd probably send out the rumours asap to make your life as miserable as possible. Adults can be really mean.


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