h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

Just assume that thats a deductive statement and that I'm right.

I'm just assuming it's an opinion not fact. I think the same of myself. Sure everyone whose in love thinks that. Say hi to Jade for me. xxx

It could be fact if my capacity for love really is more than any mortal can bare AND if I can't bear it either. Which, considering I plaguerised the line from a gothic website, is most likely.

Jade rejected me last night. *swoon* So I can either be apathetic and give up or try harder and risk further failure. Suggestions anyone?

Rejected you? I kind of assumed she was your Girlfriend. Awww i'm sorry hun. Well it's her loss not yours. That's what always say. We'll if she keeps rejecting you maybe you should back off a bit. Make her do the rest of the work!

Take care xxx

Yeah but how do I go from being blown out of the water once to asking her again. And then again. And again. Why, isn't love hard. *swoon*

Ah i'm one to fall in love easily. Just a click of a finger and i'm under.

But i've had a habit for picking horrible sick minded people who like to slither there why into your life just so they can push you, abuse you, tak advantage, etc. Thing is i'm too nice too. I just think "oh well" and go back just to get my heartbroken again and again.

xxx

I too have tended to choose people unsuited to me. And when I find someone I get on with I normally panic quite a bit and they finish with me. Woe alas.

Same same. I have a tendency to go for men alot older than me. That's probably not too good a thing! lol. But i can't really get on with boys my own age in that way. lol. xxx

Thats a part of psychology thats always interested, though often confused me a little. Why younger girls are interested in older men. Moreso than men I think, at least you see more older men with younger girls, though maybe younger guys cant pull older guys... I dont know.

well girls are meant to grow up quicker and mature more than boys or something aren't they? xxx

Yes but maybe if they stopped going off with older men (who would actually be more mature because men reach their peak sooner, between the ages of 18 and 21, whearas women go on til mid 20s), the boys would mature faster. And maybe they'd get some good fun out of it, especially since the girls I've spoken to who go out with people stupidly older seem to be convinced theyre in love and going to get married etc. Now I'm not saying theyre not but I am fairly cynical on the completeness of their emotions.

mmmm don't think you should judge too hard as you cannot know what are truly feeling. They only person who can know about it is them. You'll probably think i'm pretty pathetic but i do love my boyfriend and i don't care if you or anyone else says i don't or says it's a crush because only i can know how i feel. I've had crushed before but this is different. If you hurt when they're not there and hurt when they're gone, if you only feel complete when they are there. Your not completely dependant on them but you need to know they're just there in your heart if not in person to be able to survive. When you can only think of them and you can't imagine being without them. If that's not love then i don't know what it is. I don't care how old i am because everyones different. I've been known as having the maturity of a 25 year old. How can you really say one things love and another thing isn't for certain? There's no tick list. It's an opinion of how you feel towards each other.

My boyfriend loads older than me but it's like there's no age gap there. Like were exactally the same age. xxx

Awww that's sweet. And also the reason why I say generally (or if not I mean to) when discussing the subject. I don't want to say that people don't feel love for people older than themselves, just the majority of people I've met appear not to. But if you truly have found love with someone older then I'm glad for you. It proves I can be wrong when I don't leave room for exceptions.

mmm I know girls at my school who go out with older men because they like the way they spoil them with expensive clothes and jewellery and because of they're cars and things. Just because they are into this they assume i'm with my lovely Graham because of that. But i find much more to him then cars and money! xxx

Though cars and money is always a nice bonus...

mmmmm but would rather have the love myself! xxx

Love is the first option. And I wouldnt fall in love with someone because they had a car. But if I fell in love with them then they got a car it would be quite nice.

mmm yeah. My boyfriend is getting a car actually! lol. xxx

What make? I'd like a hearse... think of all the boot space and the people who'd get out of the way for you.

I wonder if I could car pool with one.

my first goth boyfriend had a hearse! lol. Trouble is we got a bit trapped up in the funeral traffic when off to the beach! lol. He used to keep one of those skeletons in the back like the ones you get in the school science labs! lol. xxx