h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

My wife had the same theory till she met me. All of her pervios partners had been selfish or useless.

I was one of those poor females too, feeling like I was missing out, and wondering how to get my hands on some Viagra. Until last month. I had the good fortune to stop taking the medication I'd been taking for the last 12 years (since I was 15), medication that can make men impotent, and was probably, even at v. low dose, doing something to me. Anyway, whether this was significant or not, I'll never know, but it may have had a psycological effect. What I think is far more significant is that I started using a really good vibrator. And in the space of a couple of weeks went from being able to achieve absolutely nothing alone, and very little with anyone else, to orgasms within minutes. And just to blow the male conspiracy theory apart - it now means I don't want to sleep with men at the moment.

My tips would be:

Get a really good vibrator.

Don't try too hard, just enjoy each experience.

Take it slow - but don't take a break until you're ready to stop.

Experiment with thoughts - it won't happen without them. The vibrator is just a facilitator. I am constantly surprising myself at what thoughts gets me going just that little bit more. Each good one can make the feelings intensify, and the orgasm still always surprises me.

It's not the feeling of an orgasm that is really nice, it is release from the frustration of the build up.

I didn't really mean to share all that. But I hope it helps.
Good luck in your quest. I'm living proof that things can change.

Blue

Read what the others have said Gwennie and find somewhere more interesting to put your finger, rather than in your mouth.

*Gwennie studies her finger for a full minute...sighs......and picks her nose...*

i do it alot with a vibrator who i call vernon well i thinks it is funny anyway the whole point is the excitiment you receive i9s mind blowing.

If an orgasm was a myth created by men to encourage women to sleep with them, then why would it be easier to have an orgasm through masturbation than during intercourse?

Try 23! I consider myself lucky really, I can get on with all the things that everyone else is too busy shagging to get round to