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So you're feeling like shit, and this guy decides to make you feel worse...Nice, I'm sure thats really helping!! I'll bet you're bloody stunning too, braces or no. Talk to Sidney, he'll tell you, you're worth more than that. Boyfriends are supposed to be good positive peoples that make you happy. Tell yours that!

Thank you, Helena.
I think this was the reason why I joined this club here...(He doesn't know about this).

Well if you can't even tell him you're adicted to h2g2 what can you! my boyf doesn't have access, so its nice to know hes not checking up. Not that he'd mind, I think he quite enjoys the fact that I am a terrible flirt, because he's got me! If you need to talk, I'm alway about here, just drop by.
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I'm for a few hours and the subject's taken off again! I'm sure your boyfriend must have some redeeming qualities. Somewhere. Though where I'll never be able to guess! I had a girlfriend who's mother made her peroxide her hair because premature grey runs in their family (they're very light blondes) and it was begining to show on her 20 year old head. This woman (my girlf, I don't know about her mom) has had some past experiences that have lead numerous people to suggest she needs therapy, and I was (and still am) one of them. But that was because she'd been through multiple traumas. Not because a totally grey head by 22 runs in her family! She said "I'm going to be grey by 22" I said "Why" she said "Because my mom was totally grey by 22" I said, "Oh, I'm so sorry!" and didn't give it another thought. This guy, while I'm sure there must have been something attractive in him when you met him, certainly isn't showing it now! There's no mystery here, get him to shape up or get him away from you!

My, hasn't this been a busy little forum since I last dropped in! Hi Irving and everyone else...

I'm 42 and have been going grey just at the hair line at the front of my hair for about four years now (I have long dark hair) and I've put a rinse on that covers they grey but leaves my hair more or less the same colour. Recently, I've opted to leave it alone (coz I'm lazy and been spending too much time here) and I'm started to resemble "Mortisha" from the "Adams Family" but not quite as voluptuous of course!

As for men who always seem to want their girlfriend to feel inadequate only indicates how insecure they are underneath all their bullishness. I had one like that once, but managed to turn the tables on him eventually and then dumped him! If a relationship isn't working, get out. Life's too short to waste time with people who don't appreciate you. Ooh, now I'm sounding callous..

And if you're not callous, you end up wasting years on someone who isn't worth it. Get out while she still can is what I say!
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You're the perfect age for this site! And I agree, don't spend time with someone who would rather belittle you than make you feel good about yourself. I think that this gets back to Cybernard's original comment about the guy on the bus (In the Original Forum). You're right that he was probably insecure, but to a dangerous point (for her). I'd say get out of any relationship like that!

As for me, I've been set up by my room mate (I think this is a very bad idea, but he seems insistent). She seem's nice and everything... well at least she likes the Beatles. I'm going to have lunch with her this afternoon. Nervous? Me? Never!

I'm calm again now.

Irving, take it as it comes.....If nothing comes of it, just put it down to getting to know someone new....

Thats what I would do !

Good to see you calm, Sid.

Well, she seems nice, but I'm not entirely sure that much is going to come from it. My roomie is talking to her on the phone right now, but I'm trying not to eavesdrop. Anyway, she seems... well has anyone here ever seen "Into the Woods"? I was going to use a quote from there, but I didn't want to seem obscure...

Sondheim?? OK, my topic of the day is, If you are not number one on your boyfs list of priorities, and I don't mind even being joint first, but I'm nowhere near tops, and he says he won't even pay for a phonecall to Norway when you've been especially miserable, when he earns pots of money, and it puts a big hole in your pocket to phone him, which you do, being an idiot, do you dump him?? I'm not sure, and would like some advice. Him 19, relationship, 7 months or so....
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Ok!
I just wonder, what to do with my hair next just to forget about this topic.

Long distance relationship..that's what I do. There is no proper prognosis, wether it could work or not...some work, some not. I've got a friend, and she moved four time from Germany to Madrid, then to Nicaragua, then to Holland...she lost all his boyfriends (4) while that time.

I'm only here 3 months, I'm going home soon, so why won't he just phone?? And as for your hair, go to a doctor, he'll probably only say you're being silly, so then you cantell boyf that. Right after you tell nhim to get lost!

Hmmmm... tell him what the doctor said first, then tell him to get lost. You want him to actually *hear* that he was wrong, first! As for the long distance boyf, if you aren't his #1 priority, what is? I hate to just say dump someone simply because he's a cheapskate, but if he's putting, say, flossing his teeth higher on the list than you are, then it's definately time to find a new guy who will put you at #1.

I could stand being at joint number one with the rest of his friends, but I know I come behind them, way down on the list!

Hmmm... my posting from this morning (GMT) seems to have vanished in the mists... so much for 'Auntie Sus'! I won't repeat it now, as everyone else seems to be saying the same anyway.

D'you know, it's only 3 days since we moved to this new forum, and it's already frighteningly long! Not that any of us are addicts, or anything.....

'sus

I left the addicts forum because it got too long...

By now you must know what I think !!

H, dump him! Why let him make you more miserable when you're perfectly capable of being miserable on your own?

I love you EV!! (In a very miserable way of course!!)