h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

I wish my family were supportive like you. All they see me as is their problem.

have you no chance of getting a flat/bedsit anywhere ??

I'm really. I spoke to someone today from a different walk of life and he's made me feel that I'm extremely lucky with what I have. There are far worse things out there.

I'm glad you can see that, that's why I'm never down, there is always someone worse off than me

That's certainly one way to think about things, but don't you feel guilty, sorry even for them at the same time?

no, because anyone with a disability do not want or ask for sympathy and in most cases feel insulted if it's given

I will take that as disability not just in bodily state but background etc

no disrespect to anyone Opti, but if I went around feeling guilty or sorry etc for everyone, it would bring my life to a grounding halt,I can not change what is happening to life, but in my little way, bringing smiles etc, I'm helping those who can't/don't know how to smile -to learn

for a while I haven't known how to reply to your posting. However, I do agree that its nice to make people smile.

after the car smash I was involved in, I saw life in a totally different way, so my outlook of the world is always going to seem to others

I don't recall you ever saying anything Prof

it's just that every aspect of life, I change to humour, I don't see anything serious, not for long anyway

I wonder how you'd turn my life into humour

on here I can only try to make you smile and be happy, in real life after meeting me, you'd be smiling and happy, because if you had a frown, it would go away
nothing with negative tones stays near me for long

so me harping on about my trouble trying to get a job isn't negative then?

yes it's negative, but I try to help friends think/feel positive and there are loads of ways via the net etc of finding the right job to suit, it just takes a little time and patience

I'm not acquainted with 'time and patience'

those are 2 of my biggest assetsthrough life, they have had to be!

I think the way society is structured these days that few people have those aspects

each second will come in it's own good time, I can wait
but after it's gone, if you've missed it, it's lost forever