h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

Well sure, just about anything about a person is more important than how much money they have, and I for one wouldn't be so stupid as to pick a guy simply for his wallet. But what I'm saying is, if you already like a person for who they are, who says a few millions hurt? If I'm going to adore them anyway, I certainly won't be refusing that oh-so-lovely birthday gift.
-Rivaine

honestly, i think your post has to be the funniest and the most truthful, that i have read.
a guy looking at a girls lips could mean they are enjoying the person, wishing for something more. or the girl, if she is talking, could take it as the guy not paying attention and looking for something to be distracted by.
"Personally I think humour is the key. Within reason, of course, something subtle and clever. I don't suggest *whoopee* cushions and a big red clown nose, for instance."
i couldnt agree with you more. good humor is always a big attraction for me. guys who are over the age of 18 and use a whoopie cushion to use as a joke, would only tell me, that id clearly dating someone who hasnt fully gotten passed his middle school years of life.

"That and being a good listener. And being devestatingly handsome. And rich."
i agree with the first sentece. the second would be a nice bonus. but as for the third. being financially stable would always be nice, but its not something i would go out and look for. im nto sure if you added that comment or what...im just stating my thoughts.

I suspect that the purpose of staring at a girls lips would be to make her feel uncomfortable and thereby enhance a particularly aggressive guys confidance.

Some males are frightened of interacting with other human beings, and so avoiding looking at a girls eyes helps dehumanize their target, so they can speak more confidently and sound braver. I suspect it only works with a particular variety of girl.

outer real! no they arent that calculating surely. If they are - run a mile!

people are just people after all, everyone was once a child and everyone has feelings, even if they are staring at ones lips, its could be nervousness, or English might not be their first language......? ok joke!

in truth, flirting is nothing. It is hollow, what is real is the connection, and then we only have to act naturally after that. I dont consider flirting an honest profession, myself. Even if people do it in jest. But maybe I m victorian. Leave all the top hats and tails to me, then girls.
(feigns a swoon)