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September challenge
Beatrice Started conversation Sep 2, 2011
I'm going to try to make it through September booze-free. This'll be tough for me, so lots of support welcome!
One day at a time.
Yesterday I was quite proud of myself - had a really busy and stressful day at work, but hit the gym afterwards, including a yoga session to chill out. Drank herbal tea. What do people drink in the evenings? Fruit juice is way too high in sugars and calories, I drink loads of water during the day, though I guess I could add a slice of lemon and some ice to make it a bit more fun.
September challenge
Malabarista - now with added pony Posted Sep 2, 2011
Go all German and dilute your fruit juice 50:50 with sparkling water. Or if that's still too much, try redbush tea, I usually have a flask of it handy in the evenings.
But that's easy for me to say, I've never been that bothered without booze. It really wouldn't make a difference to me if it stopped existing tomorrow, except for the fact that I'd lose my job
September challenge
aka Bel - A87832164 Posted Sep 2, 2011
I have the occasional glass of wine in the evenings, but I think I could go without alcohol for a month if I wanted. I drink lots of during the day, so water or some sugar-free grapefruit lemonade in the evenings is refreshing.
September challenge
Icy North Posted Sep 2, 2011
Good luck
I suggest you write a short diary/journal/blog each day, documenting how you feel without alcohol and how your life is changing as a result. Just posting here daily would be good too. Prof Animal Chaos's journal about his son's recovery is a real inspiration to everyone who reads it.
September challenge
Rev Nick - dead man walking (mostly) Posted Sep 2, 2011
I am normally a coffee drinker, so those evenings when I must do without the sips of brandy I take on a cup of tea. Maybe try a switch-about? But a low caffiene one at first or you may not sleep ...
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Jackruss a Grand Master of Tea and Toast, Keeper of the comfy chair, who is spending a year dead for tax reasons! DNA! Posted Sep 2, 2011
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Jackruss a Grand Master of Tea and Toast, Keeper of the comfy chair, who is spending a year dead for tax reasons! DNA! Posted Sep 2, 2011
September challenge
Beatrice Posted Sep 2, 2011
Ta
Day 2 in the Big Booze-free House. Beatrice is in the kitchen making dinner. She has just finished a mug of herbal tea with her feet up, and has now moved on to a glass of soda water with a slice of lime.
Friday night will be tough - I associate it with a few glasses of wine to relax at the end of the week. But I'm reminding myself that this is for the good of my health, and will save me about a fiver a day.
September challenge
KB Posted Sep 2, 2011
What used to be a common drink here was buttermilk and white lemonade mixed 50/50. It makes me shudder to think of it! I never tried it. But I did substitute the white lemonade for soda water once - and it was surprisingly tasty and refreshing.
Both need to be ice-cold though.
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Rev Nick - dead man walking (mostly) Posted Sep 2, 2011
Now that sounds unusual. I was never a 'fan' of buttermilk, even fresh as we made the butter ourselves, but could drink it. A soft beverage might just make it easier. I may have to give it a try ...
September challenge
Beatrice Posted Sep 4, 2011
Day 4 update - managed to get through Friday and Saturday evenings easier than expected!
There's a window between 6 and 8pm when the desire is strongest (habit, really) and if I can get past that then it becomes easier. I also have a variety of drinks to choose from so i don't feel restricted to boring soda water - PLJ, light cranberry, good apple juice, all of the above but diluted with soda, herbal teas, spicy tomato juice....
Sleeping OK -its a little more difficult to drop off to sleep, but not impossible.
Starting taking milk thistle to help my poor liver recover.
Oh, and I have a friend on MyFitnessPal who's joining me, so we send each other daily supportive messages and howsitgoings.
Lining up various activities for the evenings this week: Monday, meditation, Tuesday gym, Wednesday running friend to airport.
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Galaxy Babe - eclectic editor Posted Sep 4, 2011
I guess giving up anything is much the same, just breaking the habit. I gave up smoking after 21 years - in the end I fell out of love with it. You are doing well B, every day without imbibing is a day won. I am not sure if it's for your health or financial purposes that you wish to go teetotal (do you? Or just cut down your alcohol intake?) you need to allow yourself a treat - for say, a week without - perhaps your favourite
Don't beat yourself up if you have a tipple, it can strengthen your resolve to give up completely. I've never had to give up booze as I am not a fan...I drink alcohol to be "sociable" and despair that my teenage son now thinks it's "cool" to get so drunk he vomits. My other son still boozes to excess and it's
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Rev Nick - dead man walking (mostly) Posted Sep 4, 2011
Each generation of kids have to learn for themselves. I was a drunkard both times that I was single. Well into the 2nd time, I found it wasn't as much fun. Now, a double measure of a Scotch whiskey with ice, and watch others be fools. That is more amusing than being part of it.
A reason that I hoped to one day make a hootoo Meet... Loads seem to glorify in being falling-over-stupid-drunk, get pics and gloat laters. That is something that would be fun to watch.
September challenge
Beatrice Posted Sep 4, 2011
Various reasons, but mainly because it's become a habit. I don't drink to excess every day - but I do drink every day. So I want to prove that I don't HAVE to.
Long term, I'll still enjoy a few glasses of wine on occasions, but just not out of routine.
Hoping that it'll help me shift a couple of lbs and save a few ££££s.
Feeling really tired today - where's all this extra energy I'm supposed to have, eh?
September challenge
Beatrice Posted Sep 5, 2011
Didn't sleep well - cold and hungry during the night, and still felt tired when the alarm went off.
But 1 lb lighter on the scales - yay!
My MFP mate who's doing this with me has given up the demon drink several times before and says that while it's a diuretic, it also can cause your body to hold on to water weight. So it takes a few days for those effects to sort themselves out.
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You can call me TC Posted Sep 5, 2011
I don't know what yours tastes like over there, but perhaps an alcohol-free beer. Has less calories, too, while being thirst-quenching. They make less sweet ones now.
September challenge
Beatrice Posted Sep 7, 2011
A report out today shows how it is beneficial for older women to have a drink daily!
Ahahahahahaha.
Hmm. 1 week down, including a celebratory birthday dinner for Dai.
Bit annoyed that I don't have more energy, am not sleeping any better, am grumpy all the time, and can't find a decent non-sparkly non-sweet beverage.
But quarter past on the countdown clock!
September challenge
Rev Nick - dead man walking (mostly) Posted Sep 7, 2011
I can do much better without the alcohol than I can the nicotine, any week. If you can keep out the heavy and hard measures, and still enjoy ONE glass with a dinner ... Special occasionss demand and I still owe you p0ersonally a flaggin of white, ... I don't consider that 'drinking'.
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- 1: Beatrice (Sep 2, 2011)
- 2: Malabarista - now with added pony (Sep 2, 2011)
- 3: Malabarista - now with added pony (Sep 2, 2011)
- 4: aka Bel - A87832164 (Sep 2, 2011)
- 5: Icy North (Sep 2, 2011)
- 6: Rev Nick - dead man walking (mostly) (Sep 2, 2011)
- 7: Jackruss a Grand Master of Tea and Toast, Keeper of the comfy chair, who is spending a year dead for tax reasons! DNA! (Sep 2, 2011)
- 8: Jackruss a Grand Master of Tea and Toast, Keeper of the comfy chair, who is spending a year dead for tax reasons! DNA! (Sep 2, 2011)
- 9: Beatrice (Sep 2, 2011)
- 10: KB (Sep 2, 2011)
- 11: Rev Nick - dead man walking (mostly) (Sep 2, 2011)
- 12: Beatrice (Sep 4, 2011)
- 13: Galaxy Babe - eclectic editor (Sep 4, 2011)
- 14: Rev Nick - dead man walking (mostly) (Sep 4, 2011)
- 15: Beatrice (Sep 4, 2011)
- 16: KB (Sep 4, 2011)
- 17: Beatrice (Sep 5, 2011)
- 18: You can call me TC (Sep 5, 2011)
- 19: Beatrice (Sep 7, 2011)
- 20: Rev Nick - dead man walking (mostly) (Sep 7, 2011)
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