A Conversation for How to avoid getting the wrong partner

Dearheart

Post 1

Dragonfly. "A poet can survive everything but a misprint"-- Oscar Wilde

.... Beeings has only one e... beings... smiley - winkeye

I like this entry so far... but... still... I bet soon you'll find people who have a different idea of how to avoid finding the wrong partner. I think your entry would be more complete if you were to mention another option: Don't settle down with anyone. smiley - tongueout


Dearheart

Post 2

gulls

considering the amount of heartache in the world around me, i would rather not settle at all...

ok, i admit, not being able to find a soulmate also makes me think i probably won't ever!


Dearheart

Post 3

Dragonfly. "A poet can survive everything but a misprint"-- Oscar Wilde

smiley - hug There there, love!!!

if you REALLY think about it, it's mathematically impossible to find ONE person to be your soulmate. smiley - hug


Dearheart

Post 4

Wonko

Thanks, I know about "being" and sometimes I get it wrong though. Sigh. So much to learn and to remember.

Partnership needs work. Work work work. It certainly is mathematically impossible to find a soulmate without this game playing tendency. But with the knowledge of the schema you can work on how to aviod playing it. Why don't you try me?

I am still at work, but have nearly succeeded in generating a good environment for my big family of eight people.


Dearheart

Post 5

Dragonfly. "A poet can survive everything but a misprint"-- Oscar Wilde

YAY!!! Good!!! smiley - hug

I think it has a lot to do with finding YOURSELF first before you can find-- and give yourself happily, faithfully, for better or worse, et al-- to ANYONE else!!! You have to have your heartbroken before you can truly value it, and develop standards which lovers will have to live up to, otherwise they have to go bye bye. smiley - winkeye

smiley - tongueout


Dearheart

Post 6

gulls

dear oh dear, the probability might be zero, but the event is not impossible!

i was talking about "atleast one" to begin with. and yes, i agree, unless you are heartbroken, you won't value it. you have to set standards for yourself!


Dearheart

Post 7

Wonko

>YAY!!! Good!!!<

Very good indeed!!! Giving you a sensible hug.

Knowing ones self is very important, but also terribly difficult. We tend to always make others responsible for everything.

How are you, by the way ? smiley - smiley


Dearheart

Post 8

Dragonfly. "A poet can survive everything but a misprint"-- Oscar Wilde

:;looks around:: I don't think you mean me, but... I am fine, thanks... you!?? smiley - winkeye

Too many people, I guess... focusing on finding someone, and they overlook themselves... it's pretty sad... smiley - sadface And think how easy it could be to become close to yourself!!! You are always around... you have a LOT in common... smiley - tongueout


Dearheart

Post 9

Wonko

Yes I mean you!!! smiley - smiley Good you are fine, so am I. Nice to meet you, indeed.

The best basis for a good relationship is to be in sync with yourself. Have you had a look at my entry about flying? http://www.bbc.co.uk/h2g2/guide/A533152 That's one way to be free of all gravity and other pull downs.


Dearheart

Post 10

Dragonfly. "A poet can survive everything but a misprint"-- Oscar Wilde

True true...

::sings:: Learning to fly...
But I ain't got wings!!!


Dearheart

Post 11

Wonko

Surely you got wings, Dragonfly! Happy landing too.

Did you read the part about flying in the Hitchhikers Guide? Very romantic!!!


Dearheart

Post 12

Dragonfly. "A poet can survive everything but a misprint"-- Oscar Wilde

YAY!!! NO... I did not read it-- I can not read... smiley - tongueout


Dearheart

Post 13

Wonko

You should read it, my dear. smiley - smiley


Dearheart

Post 14

Dragonfly. "A poet can survive everything but a misprint"-- Oscar Wilde

RIGHTO!!! I can't remember who wrote it, though... I thought my Marc wrote something about sky diving or flying... ::sniffles::

Maybe if I visit Wonko's userpage, I'll find it... or... I'll find out I have a new friend!!! smiley - biggrin Can't lose either way!!! YAY!!!

smiley - runsmiley - magicsmiley - musicalnote

::sings::
You've got a friend...


Dearheart

Post 15

Wonko

You cheer me up, and I do hope to be a good friend! smiley - smiley YAY!!!


Dearheart

Post 16

Dragonfly. "A poet can survive everything but a misprint"-- Oscar Wilde

OH GOOD!!! I cheer you up!??.... you mean I come to you bringing a blue daisy and a smile!?? smiley - cheerup

Hee hee hee... smiley - tongueout

::sings::
Just close your eyes and think on me...
And soon I will be there...
To brighten up even your darkest night...

OR!!! For the Flight Meditation Entry I just read...

::sings::
Just close your eyes and think of flying...
And soon you'll be flying...
And flying high even -- oh never mind!!!!


Dearheart

Post 17

Wonko

I just closed my eyes, and imagined you were here, with a blue daisy and you were singing, and I was happy.

My life is like flying, high and fast, and I wonder whether you have what it takes to live that way too.

You're a fine Woman. smiley - smiley


Dearheart

Post 18

Dragonfly. "A poet can survive everything but a misprint"-- Oscar Wilde

smiley - tongueout

I'm a fine woman!?? So you've seen the pictures... smiley - laugh hahahahaa... smiley - tongueout

That last post of mine took three attempts-- I was kicked offline TWICE when nearly done writing it!!! smiley - wah


Dearheart

Post 19

Wonko

So sorry, but I didn't see any pictures. smiley - sadface

Where are they ????? smiley - smiley


Dearheart

Post 20

Dragonfly. "A poet can survive everything but a misprint"-- Oscar Wilde

Pictures!??? Were such images mentioned!?? smiley - erm


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