A Conversation for How to avoid getting the wrong partner
Dearheart
itsallhappening Posted Oct 5, 2001
Dearest Wonko,
Interesting insight. I believe we can evolve to our own standards of respecting each other. We can avoid being like our parents if we acknowledge their negative role models and find better ones to emulate. I would like to say that moral character is better kept when it is choosen by free will and not unwittingly by modeling others' behaviors. The great counselor said "Love one another". I don't wish to be judged by my parents behavior, thank you please.
I do find that your article insightful of the circle of abusive relationships in which many find themselves reliving again and again with different people.
My advice is don't jump into a relationship too quickly. It is necessary to know your beloved at least a few years before investing too heavily emotionally or financially.
Love at first sight is Lust. Enjoy it, perhaps, invest in it and you risk life and limb. We can talk of these things to anyone in the midst of such a circle of codependence. But again, He says: "He who has ears, let them hear." Many cannot hear.
Worlds of Love,
JLC
Dearheart
Wonko Posted Oct 7, 2001
My dearest!
so nice to hear from you. I'll include some of your valuable thoughts in my entry.
Well, maybe it's good not to jump too quickly. That's for sure. But many a bad behaviour only comes on surface after you jump, no matter how long you wait!
Worlds of Love to you, too. And hope for a logical world.
Wonko
Dearheart
BigMan Posted Oct 7, 2001
Dear Wonko,
you seem to be an interesting character. I would like to remind us all that, there are a lot of people that spend all their life figuring out what is wrong with their partner. How about building up on the primarily given personality and establishing an extraordinary partnership as well as a terrific, ever-lasting love. I'm sure that this can work, provided that both partners are positively thinking.
I want to express good feelings, a tremendous amount of good thoughts, and all the love that every human being in this world needs. Fly, fly, fly and keep going.
Dearheart
Wonko Posted Oct 8, 2001
Hi!
I am overwhelmed by your positive thoughts! Yes, that's exactly what I try to do. And it's a real hard work, I can say.
Please write more about yourself!
Your Wonko
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