h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

*G*... sorry..but don't have any universal suggestions...find that just as people vary..what I might suggest to one person is entirely different from what I might suggest to another

oops...was wrong... be yourself... do what comes naturally... communicate..whether verbally or physically.. let your partner know what pleases you.. and pay attention to their reactions..if you can't tell what pleases them...ask..

I'm Canadian.. but don't think that has anything to do with it... Think it's more a mind set.. how open you are.. how willing you are to accept each person for who and what they are... not criticize ( or even worse laugh at ) their fantasies. We can't really control.. what turns us on..what we fantacize about.. when someone shares such an intensly personal feeling with another... it doesn't mean that the other person has to participate in it.. but at least have the sensitivity to understand... and if you truly care about your partner..then you will find ways..knowing their thoughts.. to increase their pleasure..

Don't know about the rest of people.. but it's such a big turn on to me personally to be able to arouse my partner to new heights.. to discover things that perhaps they weren't even aware of themselves.... it very satisfying to "feel" their response... and as it is not a one-way activity.. one person doing all the giving.. the rest just takes care of itself... should you happen to find yourself with a selfish person.. one who s only concerned with their own pleasure.. the joy of sharing.. soon palls... loses it's appeal ...

"Pay attention to their reactions"

I have a better idea.

Pay attention to their erections

*G* You wouldn't think so... but there are actually guys out there who have a hard time paying attention to HER erection

This sounds uncannily like a practical joke I heard where the same scenario occurs. The lights are turned off and all the participants make the appropriate noises. After a few minutes the lights are suddenly turned on leaving the victim masturbating in front of an audience of hoaxers.

Suddenly it's gone quiet! I just wanted to say that, as a bloke, I get more thrills out of paying attention to her than anything else. You can keep it going for hours and really build something intense. I've really blown my mind before doing this. Easily as good as any drug!

Hi again.

I have changed, recently, for the better. My present girlfriend and I have recently decided to take the plunge and start nocturnal activities. To be absolutely blunt, I find it much more satisfying to give than to recieve, and that is absolutely no slight against her abilities. I think that it is a mark of true respect and real feelings and concern for a sexual partener if you are more concerned for their pleasure than your own.

All that was a rather long-winded way of saying 'yes I do pay attention to her erection'.

BTW, I was only joking around with the thing about laughing and criticising.

Necr

Not necessarily nocturnal my little thread monger. Like for instance
- park toilets in the middle of the afternoon.
- the bathroom at home when nobody is in
- in the spare room when you think no one is home
or failing all of them on a rock on the beach in the sun!!!!!!!!

Hello, Hayley. Who's that writing with you? Emma? Sarah? Steve? Whoever it is, if it isn't you, then it is someone who knows far too much about my sex life.

Oh, and you forgot both changing fooms at a swimming pool and a room five yards away from: mother, father, sister, 2 cousins (and friend), grandmother and aunty. Or were you just omitting those to see if I would remember?

Necr

What are you talking about? those were all just some really interesting suggestions. is there something we should all know and who the hell is hayley?
i'm sylvesta my girlfriends tweets so what the hell are you talking about. my girlfriends getting suspicious and thinks i've done those things with someone else.

Then it is either really strange coincidence, or you know far too much about my sex life for my comfort.

I've only ever managed to have sex at night twice... my parents would get suspicious... so it's usually the spare room in the middle of the afternoon for me, I'm afraid... or perhaps , depending on whether I've got any or not...

haha, that's actually the best masterbation advice I have ever read. I will gladly try that piece of advice out for myself. I will also get back to you on how it went.

Actually even the thought of that advice rubs me up the wrong way. LOL

I dont think it would work as well for a guy....