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If you disagree....then disagree, but walk away from an arguement

Post 1

Vicki Virago - Proud Mother

Friendships are one of the most important things in our lives. Sometimes we agre on everything, othertimes we can become a little cross with our friends because of what has been said by the other person.

At the end of the day, if it isn't about those you love, does it really matter?

I am now so tired and so drained after trying to be a "go-between" between two people who are close and very dear to me. Just trying to get them to talk was difficult in itself and I'm drained, tired and very down now.

Finger pointing isn't the way to go in these situations. Remove yourself from it, calm down and approach it from another direction.





Here endeth the lesson





a very tired and emotionally charged VV


If you disagree....then disagree, but walk away from an arguement

Post 2

Scandrea

smiley - cuddle


If you disagree....then disagree, but walk away from an arguement

Post 3

Cal - interim high priest of the Church of the Holy Tail

smiley - cuddle I'm sorry VV


If you disagree....then disagree, but walk away from an arguement

Post 4

Vicki Virago - Proud Mother

*sits and cries*


If you disagree....then disagree, but walk away from an arguement

Post 5

Cal - interim high priest of the Church of the Holy Tail

*rocks you gently*


If you disagree....then disagree, but walk away from an arguement

Post 6

Vicki Virago - Proud Mother

*rocks gently*


If you disagree....then disagree, but walk away from an arguement

Post 7

Cal - interim high priest of the Church of the Holy Tail

*kiss* it's all sorted now sweetheart


If you disagree....then disagree, but walk away from an arguement

Post 8

lil ~ Auntie Giggles with added login ~ returned

*kiss* go to sleep now baby smiley - cuddle


If you disagree....then disagree, but walk away from an arguement

Post 9

Cat-Eyes: No..... why.... ?

*slightly late* smiley - cuddle


If you disagree....then disagree, but walk away from an arguement

Post 10

Spacecadet Jack (Supreme Commander in Cheif) [Major]

.......... smiley - cuddle

smiley - erm


If you disagree....then disagree, but walk away from an arguement

Post 11

pheloxi | is it time to wear a hat? |

Vicki take time for yourself. say to them not agrue in front of you.

big smiley - hug

smiley - santa on a smiley - reindeer brings you smiley - hollysmiley - gift of smiley - sheep for knitting sweater.....


If you disagree....then disagree, but walk away from an arguement

Post 12

Kat - From H2G2

Santa on a small reindeer with a Red Nose Day nose brings you a spiky present of a sheep? smiley - ermsmiley - laugh

I know it can be hard to be the go-between, however remember that it's not really your problem. It's theirs to sort out. Unfortunately it's often a problem if arguments are walked away from. If I walk away from my mam when she's angry then it gets worse because she just NEEDS someone to yell at smiley - ermsmiley - steam

Hopefully you've been able to take some time to sit and smiley - tea or smiley - cake.
Cake or death? smiley - magic

Wow too many smileys. Sorry.

Kath


If you disagree....then disagree, but walk away from an arguement

Post 13

Skankyrich [?]

Far too late to be helpful but... smiley - hug

>Santa on a small reindeer with a Red Nose Day nose brings you a spiky present of a sheep? smiley - rofl

Never too many smiley - smiley's....

smiley - cheers


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