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Pyrex Muse of Unbreakable Space-age Wonder Glass, Student of Life, Keeper of the Seven Keys of Ventuslor Posted Jul 17, 2002
I am sorry but that goes against all codes of behavior, you should never use alcohol to get a girl. There was this one girl who I liked, we talked alot and whatnot but she made it clear she didnt want a relationship with me. Later that night (it was the last day of school my Jounior year) we went to a party, I stayed sober but all my freinds got really trashed, especially her, she was the drunkest person there, she kept making advances on me, but she was impared, I would have been an ass if I took advantage of her. I helped her through the whole night. Of corse there was a guy who had been banned from the party who was caulsing trouble. She just wanted to get laid so she started hanging off him. I told him to leave her alone and he left, but as soon as I turned my back she snuck off to go have sex with him, the next time I saw her was two hours later, I was worried the whole time, we were all worried he would have sex she would pass out and he would leave her, or hurt her... well when she came back (and she was really drunk before) she was sober, the condom had broke and she was kicking herself, I cant help blaming myself, if I had either kept a better eye on her or at least taken her to a private place to talk or whatever she whouldnt have had the problem of getting pregnet...
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Uncle Heavy [sic] Posted Jul 17, 2002
i *was* joking, you know
i wouldnt take advantage of drunken girls...my tacitc is to get them and me drunk at the same time...
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Pyrex Muse of Unbreakable Space-age Wonder Glass, Student of Life, Keeper of the Seven Keys of Ventuslor Posted Jul 18, 2002
You are a bad person! Even if you are drunk you can still take advantage of someone...
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Pyrex Muse of Unbreakable Space-age Wonder Glass, Student of Life, Keeper of the Seven Keys of Ventuslor Posted Jul 18, 2002
Sorry that is reserved for EXTREAMLY sad times for me... More like a
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Nbcdnzr, the dragon was slain, and there was much rejoicing Posted Jul 18, 2002
But what about the guy that started this whole thread in the first place. Have we given good advice, what's the score?
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Uncle Heavy [sic] Posted Jul 18, 2002
nah, if you knew me, youd know that taking advantage is something i have great difficulty with 
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E G Mel Posted Jul 18, 2002
I'm sorry but a guy being an Ass is a *big* turn-off, maybe I'm just not your average girl 
Mel
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Uncle Heavy [sic] Posted Jul 18, 2002
nope - that is such a male way of thinking. all men are pigs 
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E G Mel Posted Jul 18, 2002
Though saying that, my current bf doesn't seem to understand 'I'm goiong out to the cinema tomorrow so don't phone till thurs' What happens, I'm in the cinema thinking do I turn my phone off or onto silent, usually I just put it on silent, but I think no he's going to try and phone so I switch it off. Sure thing as I switch it back on after the film at about 9, answer message 'love, I've tried a few times but I can't seem to get through, can you phone before 8:45 as I'm going out later' 
I told him *four* times the night before.
I have to admit to sending a slightly pissed off text to the tune of
'Sorry love I thought I told you I was going to the cinema tonight, we're off out to the meal now so I wont be able to phone until tomorrow'
Men
Mel
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E G Mel Posted Jul 18, 2002
Yes but there's forgetful then there's 'mindnumbingly can't remeber why she might have turned her phone of fo the first time in months' annoying
Mel
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The Butcher Posted Jul 18, 2002
This story has been told way too many times. You were trying to be a nice guy, you liked her, cared about her, and gave up a chance to be intimate with her because you respected her basic human dignity...and in return, she slept with someone else.
That girl deserves neither your respect nor your concern. She *wanted* sex, but couldn't bring herself to do it sober. And she especially couldn't have a relationship with a nice guy like you, because then she'd have to take the relationship seriously, instead of dealing only with cheap drunken sex.
I hope you don't get sucked into that kind of mindset (and emotional abuse), you are not the older brother to every girl in the world. You deserve better.
Post #20 definitely applies here. Many (not all) women go for jerks...I wouldn't say that you should be a jerk, but don't put women on such a pedestal. They are people, too, and they want to be loved and made love to. Maybe not in the same way a guy does, but they want something exciting (and often a little dirty). Being "too nice" will turn you into a teddy bear in their head...can you blame them for going with guys who show interest, when the nice guys all stand back and act like eunuchs?
I would suggest instead pf a teddy bear that you be a grizzly. Strong, confident, immune to head games.
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