A Conversation for Bisexuality
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Dragonfly. "A poet can survive everything but a misprint"-- Oscar Wilde Started conversation Jun 30, 2003
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Dragonfly. "A poet can survive everything but a misprint"-- Oscar Wilde Posted Jul 2, 2003
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Dragonfly. "A poet can survive everything but a misprint"-- Oscar Wilde Posted Jul 3, 2003
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WebWitch Posted Jul 3, 2003
It really is a lovely, lovely piece
I had one question:
Should
"forming a sort of Catch 22 where everyone believes they are the only prejudiced party."
read
"forming a sort of Catch 22 where everyone believes they are the only persecuted party."?
It's just that most people don't assume that they're prejudiced, but many assume that they're persecuted.
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Fragilis - h2g2 Cured My Tabular Obsession Posted Jul 3, 2003
Hmm. I see your point, WebWitch. But I'm not sure straight people who discriminate against bisexual people feel persecuted as such.
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WebWitch Posted Jul 4, 2003
So they feel that they're prejudiced? Something about that sentence just ain't right.
And it really stands out because everything else about this article is so damn good and clear. Which is A Good Thing.
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Fragilis - h2g2 Cured My Tabular Obsession Posted Jul 4, 2003
Perhaps a better word than prejudices would be judgmental? Hmm...
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Dragonfly. "A poet can survive everything but a misprint"-- Oscar Wilde Posted Jul 7, 2003
::thinks::
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WebWitch Posted Jul 7, 2003
Inserting the word "prejudiced" instead, we end up asserting that there's a situation in which each group considers themselves to be the only prejudiced group.
What exactly is the sentence meant to convey? That each group considers themselves to be the only bigots, or that each group considers themselves to be the only group being persecuted? I've never run into an entire community that considers itself to be the prejudiced ones - most groups tend to see themselves as put-upon rather than as the put-uponers
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Fragilis - h2g2 Cured My Tabular Obsession Posted Jul 8, 2003
WebWitch, you can disagree with what I said. Feel free. But please stop asking what the sentence "was meant to convey." I'm pretty sure I know what was meant. I wrote it.
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WebWitch Posted Jul 8, 2003
OK, not trying to be snippy or anything - I've read it over and over, and it just doesn't seem to make sense in context. Not wanting to offend, honestly, because it really is a lovely article. It's that when you ask anyone about whether they're prejudiced, they always deny it (often followed immediately by "but..."). I've never met a group of people who are convinced that they're prejudiced, but maybe I have a limited social life
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Fragilis - h2g2 Cured My Tabular Obsession Posted Jul 8, 2003
I've met several people who agreed they were prejudiced, especially when asked specifically if they were. Then they will go on to say that 'people make judgments all the time and it's not necessarily wrong' or 'prejudice can be justified if it's based on behaviour rather than a trait like skin color that you're born with' yadda yadda.
Anyway, that was the intent. As I said, feel free to disagree.
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WebWitch Posted Jul 8, 2003
Wow - you've met people who are not defensive! An interesting thing
I do disagree that entire groups - i.e. all straight people, all gay people, all bi people, all trans people - believe themselves to be the only group that is prejudiced; most believe that they're the group being got at, though some individuals see things differently. But hey
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darkness_visible Posted May 11, 2005
Webwitch writes: "I do disagree that entire groups - i.e. all straight people, all gay people, all bi people, all trans people - believe themselves to be the only group that is prejudiced"
You mean, that is prejudiced AGAINST, surely?
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TRiG (Ireland) A dog, so bade in office Posted Mar 16, 2007
As reported at F66440?thread=3978694.
TRiG.
Well, I've changed it now.
Gnomon - time to move on Posted Mar 20, 2007
Fragilis, are you still around to discuss this further?
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Fragilis - h2g2 Cured My Tabular Obsession Posted Mar 21, 2007
Yes, certainly. The sentence as it now reads isn't as intended. I might instead have said that each party fails to consider whether or how others might pass judgment.
But frankly, after the silliness of this thread, I might simply remove the sentence to be done with it. It's not a vital point anyway.
Well, I've changed it now.
Gnomon - time to move on Posted Mar 21, 2007
Nevermind the silliness, just let us know the exact wording you'd like and a curator will put it in.
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- 3: Dragonfly. "A poet can survive everything but a misprint"-- Oscar Wilde (Jul 2, 2003)
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