h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

passion and lust in the kissing department are like a prelude to sex. i just sometimes wish i could go back to the innocence of just kissing...

yes i know - how very girly

Do firemen kiss with red braces?

It's just that with kisisng you can't ignore the person. Past kissing, that's not necessarily true.

its not like you're emulating his favourite porno mag when you kiss is it...he is kissing YOU...

With kissing, the PERSON matters.

There are two rather worrying implications in this discussion -
1) when intercourse begins, kissing stops.
2) People frequently have sex with an object, not a 'person'.
I am prepared to believe that both of these things can happen, but not to me thankyou very much, and not to anybody with an ounce of human decency.

True. It's just that it's a possibility, a worst case scenario. I'm a little pessimistic about relationships right now. I guess what I'm saying is that having sex isn't necessarily romantic, but, to me at least, kissing is.

that is not true

i am merely pointing out that

a - men can be more detached from anything emotional during sex (yes i do talk to men)

and b - kissing is the most under rated sexual act ever. unless its two women no one see's it as being a turn on.

the point being made is that if i dont get kissed i feel unloved and i feel less attractive.

luckily i do get kissed so...

I don't see how passion in a kiss is a prelude to sex, when I kiss someone, it's because I'm wildly attracted to them, that alone demands passion, exept in situations where a kiss is used as a reassurance.And as for sex with objects, I hate sex.Making love is the greatest feeling in the world (apart from deep philosophical insights-often only achived while under the influence of cannabis)
Sex has become so cheap and casual, it doesn't mean much to alot of people anymore-that's why kissing is resurfacing from it's undeserved neglect.

And I am A man myself so I definately can't be accused of not talking to them.

And as for imagining your favorite porn mag, -I've only ever had one in my entire life, and that was bought as part of a dare whilst on a rugby tour in jersey...and no I didn't keep it!

yes well

my experiences would be a little different

You mean you've never been on a rugby tour in Jersey? Or just that you've never been on a rugby tour? Well there's a surprise. For what it's worth, rugby tours (by men anyway) are a very good means of observing the warping effects of single sex institutions - and as for what goes on in the scrum, it may not be kissing but it is extremely intimate.

Do you mean "cunnilingus", dear Cat? As in "sexual activity involving oral contact with the female genitals"?
If you do, and I suspect you do, then this practise is essential as part of the foreplay {the arousal of the people about to engage in the sexual act}. Correctly performed by the male upon the female, she can attain heights of ecstacy, indeed achieve total satisfaction, before the sexual act itself takes place, thus relieving the male of the burden of "holding back" his own climax. The reason for this being, the male invariably loses interest once his seed is released, whereas the female can, and indeed would, go on for hours & hours, having orgasm after orgasm. Believe me, if men perfected this art of pleasing their female partner first, there would be a lot more satisfied females on this planet, thereby ensuring repeat performances, and their males' bedroom performances become legendary!

If you think that was painful......Try getting a BJ from a pair of braces. That's pain (but nice!)

If you think that was painful........Try getting a BJ from a pair of braces That's PAIN! (but nice!)

Who is this Lingus fellow ?


Sounds rather cunning to me.....


Any tips?

Tips for oral sex? I thought this was for tips on kissing? Which is more intimate than sex, but does seem to get lost a bit when the shagging starts.
And just for info, if a woman holds your head while you're giving her oral sex, she likes what you're doing. If she's a bit quiet but moves around a lot she likes it but she's a bit shy, if she makes loads of noise she likes it. If she just lays there still and quiet she's probably asleep. Try harder. HTH.

but it can get so boring no matter how good it is. i think that he enjoys it more than i do!!!

Boring? He's doing it wrong. If he does it right you should get what I call the Total Body Orgasm. Not boring.

You seem to share many of my opinions.I persue the path of karraza,
a practice begun in india thousands of years ago whose goal is to avoid ejaculation altogether, allowing both partners to carry on almost indefinately.
cunnilingus happens to be one of my favorite passtimes...