This is a Journal entry by Existential Elevator

How to make the world a better place: Step One

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Existential Elevator

Yesterday I was up in the school library with two "friends".

One of them is having a hard time. Her boyfriend hasn't long broken up with her. He gave her no apparent reason for making the move and is now behaving very strangely around her. Nobody else has attempted to listen to her at least, or help her out getting her head around it; which, coincidentally, is roughly what I've spent last week doing.

One of them generally has trouble coping with her brother, who has special needs. She's the one who stayed round my place for a few days a few months ago.

So, I'm sitting in the library with the two of them. I'd love to say we were all talking, having a chat, etc. But no, not really. They were both talking at me about their problems. Turn taking, talking over eachother, not listening to eachother. It was like being stuck in two different conversations that bore no relation to eachother.

And I thought.... Wouldn't everyone be so much happier if they could learn to listen? Learn to share things properly? Learn to care about eachother maybe one day...
I have so much compassion for other people, but they seem never to stray out of their own worlds.

If you do one thing this Christmas, do this for me: ask someone how they are and how they feel and LISTEN to them. Please.

Take Care
EE
smiley - rose


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TeaKay

smiley - cuddle

I hope I listen adequately. If I don't, make me, O.k smiley - smiley

TK[1]smiley - pirate


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Jackruss a Grand Master of Tea and Toast, Keeper of the comfy chair, who is spending a year dead for tax reasons! DNA!

so anyway what was i saying...........





smiley - cool


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Existential Elevator

Jack:smiley - laugh "You're going the right way for a smacked bottom"
TK1: smiley - cuddle You do a good job of it. I hope I do too.


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pheloxi | is it time to wear a hat? |

it the zeitgeist of some the kids and young adults...

the world was so much better when grew up smiley - sigh

http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=zeitgeist


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Existential Elevator

That's a great word.. zeitgeist... I like that.

smiley - hug The world just aint the same anymore. Shame smiley - sadface


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pheloxi | is it time to wear a hat? |

thank the Germans for that word....

smiley - mistletoe
smiley - smooch


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Existential Elevator

*goes to find a German to thank* smiley - winkeye

smiley - smooch

smiley - mistletoe? Jack and TK1 better start running smiley - winkeye


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TeaKay

You do a better job than anyone else I know smiley - smiley

Misteltoe! I forgot about that. I'll have to remember some of that if we ever meet.... I don't care if it's July smiley - tongueout

TK[1]smiley - pirate


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Existential Elevator

I'd forgotten entirely about mistletoe too...

Just ask nicely smiley - winkeyesmiley - kiss


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TeaKay

I'll hold you to that smiley - kiss

TK[1]smiley - pirate


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Existential Elevator

smiley - biggrin


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TeaKay

lol *notices a failure to comment...*

TK[1]smiley - pirate


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Existential Elevator

smiley - huh

smiley - smiley


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TeaKay

*Shuts up then*

TK[1]smiley - pirate


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pheloxi | is it time to wear a hat? |

smiley - musicalnote silent type

on the melody of silent night


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Existential Elevator

smiley - laugh

Sorry; I'd rather thought the line of conversation was resolved!


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TeaKay

Evidently! In a *EE slowly steps backwards until feeling the door handle in her hand, turns it, dives out of the room and runs away screaming* kind of way smiley - smiley

TK[1]smiley - pirate


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Existential Elevator

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Oh, I'd never do that....




...I mean, screaming would just be silly, it'd only make it easier for you to follow me smiley - winkeye

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TeaKay

smiley - wah

smiley - hug

TK[1]smiley - pirate


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