This is a Journal entry by fundamentallyflawed

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Post 1

fundamentallyflawed

My grandmother died this morning.smiley - cry


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aka Bel - A87832164

I'm so smiley - sorry ff smiley - sadface
smiley - cuddlesmiley - hug
May she rest in peace smiley - rosesmiley - peacedove


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Post 3

fundamentallyflawed

As far as I knew she was doing fine lately. I was going to call her on Friday but I forgot. I thought, no biggie, I'm sure we'll be going down to see her soon. We were going to visit today I think... but not now.


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aka Bel - A87832164

That's horrible, but please, don't reproach yourself for not having called her, promise ? smiley - hug


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Post 5

fundamentallyflawed

No, I won't. But she really would have appreciated the call. She was always really happy whenever I called her. It's just a shame that I didn't.


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Post 6

jaz'd(ace & yada yada *sigh* chocolate yada)

My deepest sympathies hun!smiley - rose


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Post 7

fundamentallyflawed

smiley - ta

smiley - hugs for you two.


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Post 8

aka Bel - A87832164

smiley - hugs right back to you smiley - smooch


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Post 9

cynthesis

Oh ff! I'm so very sorry!smiley - cry

smiley - hugsmiley - cuddlesmiley - lovesmiley - cuddlesmiley - hug

I'm sure you loved her very much and would have liked to see her one more time. Please feel some comfort in knowing that she would have understood... this was so unexpected!

smiley - peacedoveMy heartfelt thoughts and sympathy are with you and your family now. May you all find peace and consolation from the love and care of eachother and supportive friends during this sad time.

smiley - peacedovesmiley - roseFor your grandmothersmiley - rosesmiley - peacedove





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Post 10

fundamentallyflawed

smiley - ta ladies. My dad has to go to their house today and he says it's not a good idea for me to go with him. I hope he'll be alright as well though. And I'm worried about how my grandfather is going to cope. He is pretty dependant on her. She was a very tough lady.


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aka Bel - A87832164

I guess your dad is right. Hope he'll cope ok smiley - smiley


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Post 12

fundamentallyflawed

He's doing well so far, but it just happened this morning.

Anyways, I have to head out now. I'll be back later today.


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Post 13

zendevil


Oh, poor FF!smiley - cuddle

It seems to have happened very suddenly; grandad will be in a hell of a state; poor guy, & your dad too.

As people say, don't reproach yourself for not contacting her or being there, you weren't to know. You could be constantly at someones bedside but pop out to the loo & then they go, life is like that.

smiley - rose RIP grandma.

zdt


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Post 14

Ivan the Terribly Average

smiley - rose


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Ducky - Chief CPU CEO: The Right Hon. Ms Ducky, QC, PDQ, PMT, ADHD et al.

Awww FF! smiley - hug

My deepest sympathies go to you and your family. smiley - rose


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Skankyrich [?]

smiley - rosesmiley - peacedovesmiley - cuddle


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fiery opaleye - the happiest little Vegemite as bright, as bright can be

Sorry to hear about your grandmother FF. smiley - rose
My heart goes out to you and your family. smiley - hug


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psychocandy-moderation team leader

Oh, FF. I am so sorry to hear about your grandma. May she rest in peace. And I hope your dad, your grandpa, and you might know a little peace in the midst of the sadness.

You have my deepest condolences. A smiley - hug smiley can barely convey the thoughts I'm sending your way. Hang in there, love.


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Post 19

fundamentallyflawed

Thanks everybody. I feel very crowded lately. I was at a memorial a few months ago, a funeral yesterday and now this.smiley - cry I think her funeral is on Thursday. This will be a rough week.

(Special hello to fiery, haven't "seen" you in ages!)

smiley - cuddle for everyone.


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Post 20

Ellen

Hello ff. smiley - cuddle I'm so sorry. My condolences.


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