h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

I think you must chill a bit... we all make mistakes...most of us all the time. If the guy is still talking to you then be cool and go with it.

Like we said earlier though...build a relationship through talking for a while...i hate to say this but knowing guys..there is a possibility that he is still around cos he wants more of what you may have let him think you are easy for....just be cool and suss things out...one step at a time.

but we tried that when we were going out and it didn't happen

what didn't happen

well I am still a virgin

Good for you...what is wrong with that

nothing is wrong with it...just why does my ex want to be friends still or do you think we are destined for each other please look into your crystal ball and tell me what the future holds for me please

Nothing wrong with wanting to be friends...i am like that with most of my ex's...just bear in mind what i said earlier.

As for the crystal ball...wouldn't we like to know what is in store for us at times...maybe more so in matters of the heart...but you know it doesn't work like that. You just got to live it and love it for what it is...have faith and everything does fall into place in this wonderfully colourful tapestry of life that we lead.

I think I lost faith ages ago .... I think I will become a nun and devote my love to god that way I can not be hurt

An honourable cause.....watch out for those monks though...

why would I have anything to do with monks?

lol...i'm sure you would'nt

ok so I have found out that all males are after one thing from women and that is all so in affect we women are put on earth to be used

No that is not true at all...sometimes i wonder if it is not even the other way round at times.

however boys of your age in most cases have got one thing on their minds when it comes to women...just part of growing up...unfortunately it can stay like that for a long time with some guys...and in most guys it is not something that goes away either...i can assure you of that!!...but other things do come into play...slowly but surely.

deep down i reckon that the vast majority of guys have the greatest of respect for women as a whole...a respect that will emanate itself in your own personal relationship as the guy develops his feelings for you.

Love at first sight can happen but in most cases it needs developing over time.

what are these other things that come into play?

I also think that you are right you can't stereotype males or females...but both genders are as bad as each other or can be

I am not sure I believe in love at first sight but do believe in lust at first sight

Real love..endearment...dependancy...tlc...

Sure they can...as i say ..on the whole it is a good bet that females may even be worse

Lust at first sight is very prevalent in our society...no doubt about it...personally i see nothing wrong with it either

I don't like lust

I don't think females are worse

They can be when they get older i assure you

define lust for me

sorry I would like to change the subject

No worries optical...feel free...these things can get a bit intense sometimes..especially if real life is a bit bumpy at the time.

what would you like to discuss

I will happily discuss anything even if i know nothing on the matter i am willing to look things up to help me