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okie

Post 41

Mal

Whoops. I went to the cinema yesterday with my best friend. We used to fancy eachother for ages (she's a girl, I quickly remind you). We ended up falling asleep on eachother. Aw.
I think going out with someone else is the only way I'll get over her. As for the comment - she and my best friend go around college all the time going "wow, he's sooo fit" and "I love him!" and "that guy is SO good looking" and stuff. Always have and will. So I guess she didn't mean it.
Who says that having a rebound girlfriend can't work out?


okie

Post 42

Patron Saint of Kittens... aka Pantherlady THE Werepanther of h2g2 and Queen of BBNs

Thants not an oops. Thats cute and lovely... awwww. You'll know each other for years and then get married in the end! smiley - loveblush

i say a rebound girl won't work... but give it a go if you want. Im just a feminist who doesnt like seeing women being used!


okie

Post 43

Mal

Maybe, we've already planned our wedding, cos we figured if we were both single at the age of thirty, we'd marry eachother.
And I'm just a masculinist who's seen men used just as much as women.


okie

Post 44

Patron Saint of Kittens... aka Pantherlady THE Werepanther of h2g2 and Queen of BBNs

If you've planned your wedding, why not get it together? Come on - then you can have a gf to get back at the other, and it wont be a rebound, coz you already like each other...?

i dint say men werent used either - but you dont need to sink that low


okie

Post 45

Mal

I'm working my way up to asking her out. I'm scared she'll say no, get freaked out, and then I'll lose my best friend.


okie

Post 46

Patron Saint of Kittens... aka Pantherlady THE Werepanther of h2g2 and Queen of BBNs

It's a risk you have to take - or blame it *tourettes* - a disease where you just say random words! Good luck sweets... im sure it'll work out. And if you're already friends, then it'll be a stronger relationship...


okie

Post 47

Mal

In tourettes, don't you swear loads?
We're going out now. Hope it goes well...


okie

Post 48

Patron Saint of Kittens... aka Pantherlady THE Werepanther of h2g2 and Queen of BBNs

im really pleased! Yes, tourettes is mostly swearing, but it could have been an adanced form of it! Ive a friend who shouts out words like vagina in english lessons... hmmm Good luck! Hope it goes really well!


okie

Post 49

Patron Saint of Kittens... aka Pantherlady THE Werepanther of h2g2 and Queen of BBNs

hows it going?


okie

Post 50

Patron Saint of Kittens... aka Pantherlady THE Werepanther of h2g2 and Queen of BBNs

are you ok?


okie

Post 51

Mal

Sorry, I must've missed your post. It's going okay, I think. I don't feel in love with her like I did with the ex, though, but I'm giving it a go anyway. How're things going for you?


okie

Post 52

Patron Saint of Kittens... aka Pantherlady THE Werepanther of h2g2 and Queen of BBNs

It's gona be a different type of love hun. Coz you started off as friends and so all the levels are in a disarray. But it'll be stronger im sure. Best of luck with it doll.

As for me - i got blown out by my best friend (we was going out tomorrow (as mates)) coz of his gf. Feeling even more rejected.


okie

Post 53

Mal

I know that feeling intimately. Has your ex been talking to you?
(You oughta find yourself a rebound boyfriend)
I hope it works like that, yeah.


okie

Post 54

Patron Saint of Kittens... aka Pantherlady THE Werepanther of h2g2 and Queen of BBNs

Well, we've sort of talked, but i havent seen him or called him Just email really. Probably for the best though he still has my CDs. I'll have to see him to get tehm back. Im incapable of finding anyone at teh moment coz no one likes me enough to ask me out and im too shy to ask anyone myself. Going out for a mates 18th tonight though so we'll see what comes of that?

smiley - cuddle


okie

Post 55

Mal

Some people say that drunken, horny affection is a bad place to start a relationship, but me, I disagree smiley - biggrin
I sympathise with both of you, been in both positions in the past. Shyness isn't a problem for me any more; just give people small and then increasingly big hints that you like 'em, usually works.


okie

Post 56

Patron Saint of Kittens... aka Pantherlady THE Werepanther of h2g2 and Queen of BBNs

*lalala* its a beautiful day. actually its not, im just trying to add some positiveness to my rather sombre posts. I dont remember the party, but i dont think i met anyone. My ex had a go at me for being with other people so soon afer him, when i havent even pulled anyone else, let alone anything he's implied. smiley - grr


okie

Post 57

Mal

Once again, I sympathise with both of you - the pregnant ex went out with my best mate a week after it was all sorted out - and I started going out with my best mate and my ex's best mate (the same person, obv) a week after *we* were sorted out smiley - biggrin
Got to run, but I'm sure you'll find someone.


okie

Post 58

Patron Saint of Kittens... aka Pantherlady THE Werepanther of h2g2 and Queen of BBNs

I saw Mike last night - and learnt the rule i should stick to - NEVER GO BACK!

Sorry. Mike is this bloke i used to have a huge thing for. I realised last night that I'd eat him alive and I could run rings around him. Funny huh. When i wanted him he paid me no attention, then when i dont want him he's running after me like a cockerspanial with his toue hanging out. Sorry...


okie

Post 59

Mal

That's the way life goes, I'm afraid. But I think going back can be a good thing, sometimes - don't you wish you were living in the past sometimes?


okie

Post 60

Patron Saint of Kittens... aka Pantherlady THE Werepanther of h2g2 and Queen of BBNs

If i lived in the past... i duno. All the weaker sex thing i couldnt hack. I think it is quite fair now. Or do you mean the past of my life? In which case no. Things are only really going better now. I cant rememebr a time i was ever actually happy. u?


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