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I'm requesting you don't post on my ps again Peanut

It's clear to me that you will post to me on a general thread..I will confront you with argument..and she will now come in to support you...and use certain tactics which I consider unfair in debate..taking things out of context between posts referring to different things.,.

I can't be doing with that type of discussion and debate.

You're good friends..that's fine..but I'm not interested in that stuff

It's getting clearer to me that she has really changed for some reason.

kea has started this thing of requesting no ps posting.

You don't even need to reply. And she's bound to read this. I don't want her there either.

I'll take no reply as an acceptance.

I honestly have to do this to try to cope with the reality of the situation. I had hoped a jokiness could return between all of us. But clearly it can't.

I prefer to face reality.

Thanks for that Effers

Since the hello threaded some months back I have only come round to your space on occasion to offer support, to open lines of communication in a positive way and I think that I have actually been very respectful and have make it very clear every time that I have no intention of posting there on any sort of regular basis and will only do so with your consent

I certainly have never had any intention of coming over to yours off the back of an aguement.

Last night I misunderstood some thing that you said and I apologised for that and tried to work it out with you. You have refused to accept that apology,you have put me down, dismissed me, accused me of twisting your words etc, totally blown everything out of proportion and now you come to my PS and dump this on me like I'm so horrible

Well, as you wish, I will no longer under any circumstances post on your PS

Peanut

Thank you.

It's to do with the way kea came busting in when I was discussing with you. I can no longer tolerate the way she behaves to me in every way..she's said the same to me as a reason for no more contact. She posts to me in a bizarre language I hardly understand..a million miles away from how she used to post to me for 5 years.

You are very close and I can't cope with that if that means she will jump in between us.

And also others are forever getting involved with the whole sorry situation..which drives me insane.

I've made it 100% clear I want something jokey and friendly..but she doesn't want that and we can never discuss properly it without others having opinions and making judgements..who don't begin to understand..

I have decided the only possible thing I can now cope with is as much avoidance as possible..and that includes you..because she might get involved again..

It's extremely painful. But hey that's life.

Its just to make the break as clean as possible. I simply can't cope otherwise with the emotional conflict caused. I can't hate her like I want..I just can't..so the only thing is this.

Sorry for taking it out on you as well.

It's so difficult for me..but it maybe getting easier as more of my mates are turning up.

I do have annoyingly powerful emotions I can't control.

Lets you and I though, just carry on as normal yeah? If you're up for it?

I'm so happy Taff is now back. Sanity is returning to this place

Sanity, normality, here, where



'course we can just carry on as we do

My problem is that I'm always excessively sane...but naturally like anything real and alive it will go up and down..and all over the place...Others just can't keep up though

Solidarity with you Peanut I can't take part in the fray..which really is the best idea I think...but still, I'm here for you and with you and

Love Effers

not occupied but looking out for your mates.

(Don't try to *understand* me too much at present..just enjoy the food and drink..and ).

aww thanks Effers,

I am touched, the is going down particulary well

Sorry Effers this is an honest one, I fully expect that it won't go down well

You have spoken about how you could set up another account, I think you would be kinda obvious and you are failing to recognise some crucial aspects of your behaviour towards Kea. This is my personal opinion I do not speak on behalf of kea, I may well get a rollicking from her as well

Despite her requests for you to leave things alone you do not do this. You are still posting to try and get to her to engage with you and when she doesn't respond at all or doesn't engage in the way that you want you eventually give her shedloads. This is not good for her, it is not good for you and when it is on public forums it is not good for any of us. You have been doing this for a long time now, in other words your behaviour is persistant and I wouldn't use the word hound but it is overwhelming and detrimentally so.

It's nothing to do with you. I only met you about 6 months ago.

I've known kea for years.

You know nothing about our relationship.

I'll let her speak to me or not about things.

Plus my health has been badly affected by the way this thing has gone..and the way you've got involved.

Keep out of it please.

I am waiting for these to come through Effers if I don't reply it is because my internet connection is well dodgey and

I also think that it is says that I am online on h2g2 when I am not

Peanut

Unsub. And I now make an absolute request that you keep off my ps.

Stirring up a hornets nest is not a good idea.

On the whole I always intend on keeping out of it and mostly I do.

Of course I know about your relationship, it's here on display to all see even without ing on PS's it frequently spills out in to public forums

And of course I am involved, you drag me in sometimes, Kea is my friend and it is difficult to see her try to set boundaries for her own well being and for them to be consistantly overstepped no matter how hard or what she tries. And while you might not like it or wish it I hate seeing you so screwed up about this.

I have said what I wanted to, I shall now withdraw so you don't have to worry about furthur uninvited posts

Sorry I was writing my other post, when you posted

Just to put an end to this with you.

I *never* want to discuss anything with kea with you, ever.

I only knew you for a short time..and I understand you as little as you do me..but I'm not bothered in the slightest about that. We're not friends or ever going to be close.

I've known kea for years. And it's only since it went wrong that I realised how very important and significant that relationship was. In fact it's hit me like a freight train...or whatever metaphor.

I haven't the first clue why really it is that overwhelming.

I do everything I can to minimise upset to her..despite what you may think.

You don't have a clue what I wrestle with.

So keep out of that please, entirely.

You don't know what you're messing with.

You have your friendship with her. That's something between you and her. Just that.

I have yikesed your last two comments on the occupy thread, for derailing, off topic (in a bad way)

Stop bringing your relationship with Kea, or lack of relationship with her in to threads in public forums

Cheers for letting me know...so kind.

I'll contact people I need to about this situation.

I'm not prepared to have you coming to me and talking to me about anything to do with kea. I've already said how damaging it was the last time you did it. And now you do it again. Even I will not ever contact kea on her space again, ever unless she said it was okay. But you come here without care for my feelings.

You seriously don't, or maybe you do, know what you are messing with to do with emotions.

I said on that thread I *can't* be rational..it goes that deep..and now you just pop up here, trampling all over that hurt.

It POISONS EVERYTHING for me here. It poisons everything full stop.

So yeah thanks for letting me know.

You know I CANNOT believe you have done this again..knowing how much damage you did last time.

You know my relationship with kea is of long standing and NOTHING to do with YOU.

NOTHING.

But I'm proud of myself that I wouldn't bother kea on her ps.

You know how sensitive it is for me.

I don't understand that degree of sadism.

When you start to think how detrimental your behaviour is to everyone elses wellbeing,I'll back off

I have said it before, I'll say it again, I do not engage in anything confrontational with you unles I feel very pushed

in case you are having a difficultly with what that means, it means that I walk away or ignore alot

in case of the other things you are are unaware of , for all the sh*t that comes with this relationship I am incredibly supportive in terms of wanting to see you included here, on every level

I did let you know of out courtesy, if the yikeses do get upheld, you will want to know who yikesed, you will want to know on what grounds. I have said that I have yikesed and those are my grounds

I do not know it your posts will be hidden or not. As much as I want to see you supported here, I want to see Kea protected from the worst excesses of you and I don't see why everyone has to read about your relationship with Kea, repetitvely, over months, in public forums or in other spaces where such requests have been made


if you don't get why your attitude or approach to her is so wrong,even after it has expalined by many different people, in all sorts of ways, then it needs modding

I know that your behaviour at the moment is poor, and going down poorly

You do need to reassess

I am sorry that you find this particulary distressing coming from me, but that is not my issue, its yours