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Why would you think I could care less what you hope. And you're idea of working out..what might that be.

You keep coming here and pick pick picking...knowing full well the effect on me.

It's to do with kea. You are nothing. I honestly don't know what you are doing here.

The mods didn't uphold my yikes

i have mailed them to say that Kea has established boundaries, and while you have kept out her PS, you demand her attention in public threads

I pointed out the respond to you demands and questions on Pastey, and the responce to that, and said think of how that is for Kea

Kea said I think in her post to you about where she was at, about the fact the fact she had spoken to CEs and hoped that they would be able to support to support you both

I said in my email that I think you should both be supported.

That I should make myself clear doesn't mean mediation, I mean Kea shouldn't have to be responsible for maintaining those boundaries, managing your behaviour on threads, that is the CEs/mods responsibilty but I want them to support you to

I said that your behaviour has been called across threads, by different people. That I think that responses to you behaviour might get less patient. The situation is likely to spiral

Again that is there concern not mine

I said that the Occupy thread was persistantly being derailed and monopolised by you, if you carry on I am going to have to challange or give up my occupaction. It is unfair on a thread like Occupy which has so much milage in it for a number of researchers for it to tarnished by the disruptive behaviour of one researcher

I said that there may be processess going on with you behind the scenes, that I get these are slow burn but I am concerned if those processes aren't happening at all

By processes, I mean setting boundaries, talking things through with you, so that you have a clear idea of expectations

I also called your comment on Mr 603 thread, since when did someone having a rant on the PS become equated somehow with rape culture and the abuse of women. Were there any discussions, questions raised by that at all?

I don't want to see you on a constant cycle of suspensions and getting nowhere

Thats a fail

I said things aren't working as it stands



Not word for word, you get the gist

I've now got my cricket bat.

I have read this through in the cold light of day

I pick up on final but crucial point. You keep coming back to that this can not be resolved unless it happens between you and Kea

there is no longer a 'between you and Kea' thing going on

The issues when it comes to the fact that your relationship with Kea is not going to be one that you want, are for you to deal with

I think she has made her position perfectly clear in this respect.

You relationship with her is over, finished. Yes we all now that is incredibly painful for you, but you have no monopoly on those experiences and you have no right to bring threads down, people down, make Ask a pissy place to be because you can't cope with the break up a relationship

If you behaved like that in real life towards me because I had chosen to end an relationshhip with you you wouldn't be modded, I would be looking to get an injuction out on you, for my well being and to protect my space

That is how intrusive you are, you are making it difficult impossible for us to have a good time here, to go about our daily lives

How long are we going to have live with this, a year, two, will you ever get over it

You have serious fixation issues when it comes to Kea and you are obsessive and possessive. These are not issues that can be dealt with endless cups of , and 'there theres'

You need professional help with this, as well as your friends support

If you don't deal with it and it continues researchers are going to be demanding that you are removed from the equation so they can get on with the enjoyable activities that h2g2 affords everyone without having deal with you issues

So what then Effers, when people are threatening to leave, newbies not feeling safe to join in, or looking at Ask and thinking sod that

What choices are there going to be left. Effers or the community?

She won't be getting a mouth piece via anhaga from me.

I'm big into creativity. If thi place doesn't want that from me..I'll take it from the official people in charge...

You really are a piece...

Have you ever thought to train as a therapist?

You told me you used to work in a locked ward in a psychiatric hospital.

You forget I've met plenty of those types...

I hope the Eds will have a good read of all this and see for themselves what's going on.

I *do* trust them.

you think any of this is funny

So be it Effers, if you won't or can't even grasp the reality of the situation then there is no hope that you intend to make any positive steps to resolve it

I think it is won't, you get it, you don't want to do anything about it

Shame I thought you had it in you

I feel myself getting very unsupportive and just saying,
If you do not want to sort this, proactively and positively then perhaps getting you off this site it for a period of months would be a good idea, I'm thinking maybe 3,so we can establish ourselves as a working healthy community, without having to put a shedload of pointless effort into dealing with you what you would do with that time entirely up to you

Cards on the table.

I think kea is deeply unhappy, probably depressed..that's my impression. *Vulnerable*

It's being taken advantage of.

I added to things a while ago when I wasn't that well, but in the normal course of things we could have got over it. But she's not up to that.

I've known her for 5 years. I care about her a heck of a lot. So she apparently hates me at present.

I DON'T GIVE UP ON MY FRIENDS.

She asked me not to post on her ps, I complied for her sake.

*SHE*, not YOU, can ask other stuff of me. I'll comply.

But I'll be looking out for her all the time. She's my *friend*.

That's all I've to say.

Actually I don't know why I'm bothering..as you will play more games.

I'm incredibly worried for her...so I'll be looking out for her...that's the most important thing.

She doesn't hate you

She has tried to resolve things with you, it didn't work, she called it a day for her own well being, ie it was doing her head in having to deal with you when she wants to come here and do other things

As we all do

I disagree with you assessemnt where she is at.

If you think I am acting to protect her because I think is she is vulnerable you are very much mistaken

I act out of friendship, to be supportive, she would do the same for me

The other reasons, I want to see you remain on this site, to thrive on it

I want this site to thrive

YOU NEED TO GIVE UP THIS FRIENDSHIP. IT IS OVER

Blimey fun was had on that locked ward I bet.

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I'm only interested in talking to kea from now on, NOT YOU.

I give up

Let the record stand as it is

From the Occupy thread.

>I am not 'confrontational' by nature, <

Pull the other one.

At least I don't tell porkies.