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H2G2 is really going downhill

Post 81

frenchbean

I think John Cage was about right.

And we all have a darker side. It's whether (and when) we chose to show it or not, which determines our social acceptability - online or in RL.

There are h2g2ers who irritate me, but generally I chose not to engage with them. In my book they are entirely entitled to be who they are and I am entirely entitled to walk away and gently avoid them.

When I first arrived here in hootooland, I was very disappointed with the level of debate and the pettiness of the bits of the community that I found. I almost abandoned it immediately. However a couple of folk persuaded me to look around and see what else was here.

That's when I realised that I don't have to be in integral part of the *whole* community, in all its facets. We can all pick and chose which threads to visit - which ones we want to contribute to - and on which ones to lurk - or even unsubscribe.

Fb


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Post 82

U2144927

This is something that comes and goes in hoo too. It depends on the state of a person's mind at writing. It is important to express all our feelings how and as we may.

There are so many depressing things going on in the World "we" sometimes act and feel in ways that later on "we" realize were just a figment of our depression.

Can't you give the others a chance?

smiley - peacedove


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Post 83

Leo



Haven't they had more than one? Aren't there an awful lot of people in here who claimed to have had the same negative experience? At what point does one put one's foot down?


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Post 84

U2144927

One doesn't put one's foot down. One steams in with positive energy and helpful words. Jump on them with both feet.

smiley - steamsmiley - love


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Post 85

Gnomon - time to move on

Does anyone know if Lord Wolfden has left the site? He's unsubscribed from all his conversations.


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Post 86

kelli - ran 2 miles a day for 2012, aiming for the same for 2013

I think he was suspended again - there was mention of that on one of the threads in his space. Don't know how long for though.


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Post 87

U2144927

What was he suspended for?


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Post 88

kelli - ran 2 miles a day for 2012, aiming for the same for 2013

That information is not posted onsite by the italics, but I suspect it was the continuation of behaviour that has got him suspended before.


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Post 89

U2144927

Well perhaps he will learn not to do it again.


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Post 90

Elentari

smiley - laugh


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Post 91

Navigatorblack of the EAN Blackheart

That wasn't funny.


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Post 92

Elentari

No, it was. LW has had many chances to change.


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Post 93

Navigatorblack of the EAN Blackheart

no, it wasn't. Don't make fun of ANY of the members on H2G2


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Post 94

HappyDude

I hate to butt in, but I have always thought that being able to make fun of other hootoo researchers is one of the main reasons many people hang around this place smiley - spacesmiley - smiley


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Post 95

Navigatorblack of the EAN Blackheart

Hmm yeah I suppose so, but that doesn't mean they have a right to be antisocial. They should just join the EA or something and have mock fights with other associations.


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Post 96

lil ~ Auntie Giggles with added login ~ returned

They are mock fights? smiley - doh

No one told me! smiley - erm

*sits on the wall, playing with a handgrenade* smiley - devil


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Post 97

tartaronne

Hi Navigatorblack smiley - smiley

I think you have the wrong sow by the ear. (It is an imagery not literally meant). smiley - biggrin (We Danes have to be very careful with images and words these days smiley - yikes) smiley - laugh

I wrote this earlier in the thread, and in my opinion it still stands:

>>Elentari has really impressed me. She has taken responsibillity and tried very hard to entice polite if not friendly behavior and to coax contributions rather than destruction from researchers who were drilling themselves and each other down into a hole.<<


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Post 98

Elentari

smiley - ta Tartaronne.

Perhaps it was a little harsh. But in my own defence, this is LW's fourth or fifth suspension - he keeps being resuspended for not changing his behaviour.

Also, I wasn't making fun of anyone, and I'm not sure why you think I was.


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Post 99

Elentari

Anyway, I don't want to argue about it, it's well-trodden ground with all of us, I expect.

I was a little harsh, and I accept that.


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Post 100

U2144927

smiley - erm so what's he doing now? I'm confused! smiley - rainbow


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