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Post 301

Opticalillusion- media mynx life would be boring without hiccups

It's a shame the course has been set back even further now. I was hoping it would help me in turning my life around and mastering those interviews.

I agree its good to have things you do seperately and other things you like to do together. However, its a bit off when one has made the efort to see the other and they go off golfing in the only time you see each other.


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Post 302

Researcher PSG

Greet triumph and disaster and treat those two imposters just the same and so on and so forth. You will get there in the endsmiley - hug

Ok, that does seem a bit bad.

Researcher PSG


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Post 303

Opticalillusion- media mynx life would be boring without hiccups

I wonder where the end is. Do you have a crystal ball I may borrow? It would make me feel like I could relax and not worry about things.

smiley - dontpanic I am quite open about my feelings and have told him off. smiley - laugh As I said to his father 'I feel we are going through a love hate relationship', to which his father retorted 'that's normal isn't it'. I guess everyone goes through these things. I just feel a bit frustrated that men dont open up as much at times. As my mother says 'with you there appears to be only black and white', yep I don't like grey hence my trouble with non-structure and my issues with work. I'm hoping you follow.

Love opti smiley - bluebutterfly


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Post 304

Researcher PSG

No crystal ball, barely any time spare to contemplate what lies ahead, just deal with itsmiley - laugh

Hope your not being too irritated by life's grey areas at the momentsmiley - hug

Busy busysmiley - run

Researcher PSG


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Post 305

Opticalillusion- media mynx life would be boring without hiccups

By talking things through I've come to realise that I am not alone, have been going for the wrong jobs and have only just started tapping on the right doors.

Take Care

opti


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Post 306

Researcher PSG

So does that mean things are good in the world of opti?

PSG is a bit ill at the moment, but other than that fine.

Researcher PSG


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Post 307

Opticalillusion- media mynx life would be boring without hiccups

In life there is two ways in which to see things.

The positive: I am well, have family and other great people around me who are supportive...

The negative: I have no job, I've little self-esteem, I feel like if a person looks at me they feel I'm doing something wrong...

I guess I just have to be aware of what needs changing and act on that while remaining positive. This is not easy.


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Post 308

Researcher PSG

Those are some good positivessmiley - smiley

The job thing is just unfortunate, and all you can do is keep looking. As for the self esteem if you cannot realise when people see you they see a great person you need a better mirrorsmiley - smileysmiley - hug

Researcher PSG


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Post 309

Opticalillusion- media mynx life would be boring without hiccups

smiley - ta I'm trying.

I wonder whether it was the fact I cracked a mirror at Uni that gave me these bad years.

I think if people took the time like you, Unc and Andy to know me they may see an interesting person. However, people don't usually have the time to get to know others these days and I probably come accross as negative, unsmiling and tell things like they are. Some people seem back stabbing and some drivers get really close to me even if I'm doing the speed limit. It's difficult to trust sometimes.

somebody I know recently suggested life was like a mirror and on looking at it you see yourself. If thats the case then I must really dislike myself at times.

Perhaps you and the family may like to come and stay with me and andy in his house one day. smiley - smiley


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Post 310

Researcher PSG

smiley - biggrin I don't think that would be it

Then those people who don't spare the time are the loserssmiley - hug

It would be great to come and see you two, though we do rather fill houses at the moment. W will have to see what we can sort.

Researcher PSG (Baby on shoulder, sick on back)


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Post 311

Opticalillusion- media mynx life would be boring without hiccups

smiley - ta for being supportive smiley - smiley

smiley - dontpanic there's plenty of time to sort stuff out. We still haven't got the kitchen fitted yet. smiley - laugh

smiley - illsmiley - winkeye


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Post 312

Researcher PSG

Sorry I'm not been supportive for a while, but got new job and all sorts going onsmiley - smiley

Hope all is well with you and I'm afraid I must smiley - run again.

Talk soon

Researcher PSG


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Post 313

Opticalillusion- media mynx life would be boring without hiccups

You two must be taking it in turns to go on the internet this evening smiley - smiley

I do miss our talks and smiley - dontpanic I understand having a family must be hectic ...Well done on obtaining a job. I hope you and your family are enjoying each others company, time and things aren't too stressful. smiley - hug


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Post 314

Researcher PSG

The thing with young children and a hectic event filled life is the two feed off each other to make things even busier...but my family is wonderful so I don't mind muchsmiley - biggrin

Hope things are ok in Opti worldsmiley - smiley

Researcher PSG


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Post 315

Opticalillusion- media mynx life would be boring without hiccups

smiley - erm not sure if I know what you mean

as for opti world well house is coming along we have a fitted kitchen, bathroom etc, but still lacking in being well dressed I think my bf wants it tpo be a 5 smiley - star hotel before I move in.

I'm also in a job and have been working hard on passing training modules. I've gained one certificate so far lets see if I can get another.


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Post 316

Researcher PSG

Dare I ask if the house has been suitably polished yet?smiley - smiley

We are actually house hunting, hence the recent lack of h2g2 time.

Hope you are well and all is fine with Opti.

We are all ok, just rushed off our feetsmiley - biggrin

Researcher PSG


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Post 317

Opticalillusion- media mynx life would be boring without hiccups

smiley - laugh not just yet he's making it to a la andy hotel standard smiley - laugh

smiley - goodluck with the house hunting I hope you find what you want

Life is always full of hiccups whoever you are and i am no exception although well, I have a scalded arm and nearly lost my job cos of it!


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Post 318

Researcher PSG

I look forward to its entry in the AA guidesmiley - biggrin

Thanks, I think we will need itsmiley - smiley

Try not to have those sort of hiccupssmiley - hugsmiley - choc


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Post 319

Opticalillusion- media mynx life would be boring without hiccups

ah that's kind of hush, hush

smiley - hug

It wasn't my fault the smiley - tea had other ideas


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