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Post 81

BobTheFarmer

Just like to add that a University study has shown that western women are statistically 10% more likely to cheat then men. And you'd probably all do to have a look at this journal entry of mine, that turned into a discussion that ties in very closesly to this: http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/h2g2/F95851?thread=266805 But basically, Ive been cheated on, I've been treated like sh*t. But Im sure I've probably treated people less then perfectly ;) myself. Both sexes are as bad as each other, but each sex will generalise the problems to the opposite sex. I liked the comment earlier on in this thread, 'Why cant men be honest?'. My ex lied for ages about things, in fact studies have shown women lie more then men, I wouldnt think there was a significant difference in the figures though. Basically, if a women gets messed about, she blames all men. If a man gets messed about, he blames all women. Its about time we just sat down, and understood that both sexes are just as bad as each other, just in different ways. And neither of us will ever have a full understanding of the other...


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Post 82

BobTheFarmer

Oh, and when the thread starts to topic drift, it gets back online again at about post 70...


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Post 83

HELP_IM_LOST (why are there not enough hours in the day?)

Think you will find that men actually cheat more than women do. God the amount of men i have met that have turned out married/engaged or in serious relationships is unreal!!! Ppl always ask if i have found myself a fella yet, and all i can come back with is, every man i meet is married, where are all the single ones gone? Maybe im getting to old for all this?


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Post 84

Serephina

Id have to agree witth you there Candice..about the men I mean,not your age!smiley - run


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Post 85

HELP_IM_LOST (why are there not enough hours in the day?)

As long as your not on about my age smiley - biggrin


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Post 86

creachy

"Just like to add that a University study has shown that western women are statistically 10% more likely to cheat then men."

FACT - the guy actually looked this up. so he researched it. so we can be more certain it's true than a personal opinion such as:

"Think you will find that men actually cheat more than women do. God the amount of men i have met that have turned out married/engaged or in serious relationships is unreal!!! "


smiley - tongueout


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Post 87

Serephina

oh shut up you smiley - tongueoutsmiley - laugh


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Post 88

creachy

what we have here is a classic case of denialsmiley - geek. the subject appears to be asking a question that the answer to is far too much for them to take, or is not what they wanted to hearsmiley - nahnah


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Post 89

Serephina

'kicks creachy in the shin'

you aware that me n werekitty are planning a smiley - tickleambush? smiley - run


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Post 90

BobTheFarmer

This study was in several national newspapers. Its not something I made up on the spur of the moment. Maybe women are just better at getting away with/hiding it...

Remember, just cause most of the men you meet are attached, doesnt relate at all. For many men most of the women they meet are attached...


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Post 91

HELP_IM_LOST (why are there not enough hours in the day?)

Are you sure the report didnt mean that western women are more likely to cheat then eastern women? Think it would be more like that!! smiley - biggrin

And creachy, quoting me now!!! And yes, every guy i ever meet is bloddy attached to someone else!


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Post 92

Serephina

Well apart from that mechanic Eh smiley - run


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Post 93

HELP_IM_LOST (why are there not enough hours in the day?)

(kicks) sandra as hard as she can!!! Anyway, my car is sorted, so no probs there smiley - biggrin


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Post 94

BobTheFarmer

Nope, western women are more likely to cheat than western men. Id think the stat for western women v. eastern women would be a hell of a lot more than 10%...

Just face it, maybe not in your experience, but both sexes are as bad as each other. I know loads of male friends who've cheated, but equally I know loads of female friends who've cheated. I've never cheated but I've been cheated on... But Im not tarring all women with that brush. So you really shouldnt tar all men with that brush...


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Post 95

creachy

i tar them. if i can stay faithful then so should they. but it doesn't work like thatsmiley - grr


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Post 96

Serephina

Oi some of us are quite capable of fidelity y'know..

'wipes tar off'


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Post 97

HELP_IM_LOST (why are there not enough hours in the day?)

mmmmmmm, cant lie on this as Sandra is on this thread, i USED to be faithful, until i got really hurt, so hands up on this now, yes, women can be just as bad as men!!!


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Post 98

Serephina

Yeah but after what happened to you Candice thats not surprising..smiley - hug


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Post 99

BobTheFarmer

Which was the main discussion in my journal thread: http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/h2g2/F95851?thread=266805 How many of the b*stards and b*tches are people that have been hurt...


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Post 100

Serephina

Not all some are just like that anyway..


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