h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

What does it say if you ping my domain?

Well, you don't actually own your domain name, tucows do.
If you've paid for it, I'd check the terms and conditions and see about having the dns records altered.

If you're not the one running the servers, you often get no say in which languages you can and can't use, either though

Of course I paid for the domain (I've got frankieroberto.com and newhamdirectory.co.uk) ???

You may have paid for it, but it's not registered to you.
The Whois for it is...

Registrar: TUCOWS, INC.
Whois Server: whois.opensrs.net
Referral URL: http://www.opensrs.org
Name Server: NS1.DC-HOSTING.NET
Name Server: NS2.DC-HOSTING.NET
Updated Date: 02-jul-2002

You are geistered as the owner of newhamdirectory though...

Domain Name: NEWHAMDIRECTORY.CO.UK

Registered For: Your Name

Domain Registered By: EZEE

Registered on 02-Jun-2000.

Domain servers listed in order:

NS2.GHOULNET.COM 213.232.100.250
NS1.GHOULNET.COM 213.38.74.152

see, your name and everything , okay so I took your real name out for privacy.