h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

I remember those old style meets too Wish we'd get more people along to the London meets
Agreed, it really is the majority of the time impossible to tell by looking at some people... Of course, there are always those who seem to go out of their way in how they dress/behave to alert all to their nature.... and if you think thats hard enough, try combining some of them togehter and attempting to spot a gay guy who's into BDSM and thigns get even mnore trickier

I know how to spot a bi guy who likes swimming, roleplaying, BDSM and camping...

OMG pray tell. How?

I check to see If I'm looking in a mirror

*falls to one knee*

Marry me

Unfortunately, 2legs, I love another...fortunately I'm a big ol' slut so if you're ever desperate, and you'd have to be to want me, for someone to lie on their back with their legs in the air moaning just say the word

T.B. Falsename hardly a foolproof method I do that at least one element is missing.

Sure, my technique only guarantees success when I am looking in a mirror, but at least it works some of the time.

hey...oh wait you smoke but to get back towards the orginal theme of the confused bi youth asking questions I am thinking about coming out to the friend I mentioned earlier we are fairly good friends but not ultra close, she has participated in the The Day of Silence and is friends with a girl who has a girlfriend(not friend who is a girl but girlfriend) so I know she isn't to homo or bi phobic do yall think it is a good idea?

Well, it depends on a few things.
1) How open are you about it, do you care who knows?
2) Do you trust this person?
3) Would you be telling them because you want them to know or because you think they might be gay?
There will be other factors, like how will it affect your relationship and would you mind if they stopped being such a good friend because of it, that you'll need to consider. You're the only one really who can make this decision but you'll get any advice you ask for, and some you didn't here.

What are your motivations for telling her? It's important to remember that she will have even less answers than we do.

It's always tricky when someone come out to you, because you don't know what they want to hear. Why are they telling you this? What does this mean? Has anything changed between us? What can I do?

I'm not saying don't, but make sure you don't put her in a tight spot. Try and be as light hearted as you can, and don't expect her to have all the answers or know what to do. It can help a lot to have someone close to you who knows.

I think I would be telling her becuase I am tired of none of my real life freinds knowing and she seems like I good place to start but I am very good at lying to myself so I could be wrong.