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It's been 6 months now

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Vicki Virago - Proud Mother

and I miss her deeply.

I was in hospital not long after nanna died, then loads of cr@p was thrown in my direction.

I haven't had time to say my goodbye's properly.


It's her birthday soon.

Perhaps I need to say goodbye to her properly on her birthday smiley - smiley


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pheloxi | is it time to wear a hat? |

be sure she is watch you from her garden om her cloud!
she is very proud of you!


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Post 3

Odo

smiley - cuddle


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Vicki Virago - Proud Mother

hmmm...I must ask mum to remind me of her birthday. I think it's this weekend, although I might be wrong. The 4th rings a bell.


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lil ~ Auntie Giggles with added login ~ returned

Yes... Saturday..


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Vicki Virago - Proud Mother

smiley - smiley

Are you coming with me to see her?


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Rev Nick { Only the dead are without fear }

A smiley - rose and some quiet time with her may be just what you need, good Lady VV. And a few extraneous smiley - hugs from friends. smiley - smiley


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2legs - Hey, babe, take a walk on the wild side...

smiley - cuddlesmiley - hugsmiley - rose


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Serephina

smiley - cuddle


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Jackruss a Grand Master of Tea and Toast, Keeper of the comfy chair, who is spending a year dead for tax reasons! DNA!

smiley - hug


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smurfles

How strange.We talked about our loss together,it would have been mums birthday on friday,the 2nd,september.She would have been 90 this year.smiley - rose


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lil ~ Auntie Giggles with added login ~ returned

Mom would have been 74 this year.. but to be remembering them together, that is nice smiley - rose

Thank you smiley - hug


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Post 13

smurfles

It is the time to let go...and look forward.smiley - hug


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Rev Nick { Only the dead are without fear }

*slips out again, quietly ...*


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lil ~ Auntie Giggles with added login ~ returned

For her sake, I want to do that. The last few weeks have been very difficult for all the family. Dad agreed to us removing her clothes, but he wished for them to go to a particular charity. It was difficult to catch anyone at the shop, so I had them at my home for nearly 2 weeks. I was dreading Dad coming to visit and seeing them in the spare room. We all hope that now will be the time for most of us to move on, and be strong enough to help Dad too. Thank you Sal smiley - cuddle


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smurfles

I feel it is the time to move forward lil,and it struck me today,mum never took us to my dads grave,or my grans,(i lost dad at six years old,and gran the year after).Maybe she needed to move on then,and thought it was no good to keep going back,and i think i only realised that today.


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lil ~ Auntie Giggles with added login ~ returned

We all visit when the need comes to us. She was never a burden to us in life, and she wouldn't want to be now. Yes, sometimes I cry, but you would be amazed how often I have laughed, as I have told Hubby little stories about her. smiley - biggrin


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Feisor - -0- Generix I made it back - sortof ...

What about a dinner together to remember her - the only condition being that only happy stories and memories be allowed.

In some cultures there is a memorial gathering at the anniversary of passing - with my grandfather we had food that he liked (and lots of vodka that he also liked) and made the above condition - it was a party he would have enjoyed and filled us all with happy memories of him. Personally, I believe that he was there with us smiley - biggrin

smiley - hug


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lil ~ Auntie Giggles with added login ~ returned

What a lovely idea Feisor smiley - smooch

Thank you smiley - hug


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