A Conversation for The Bully and his Target
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Serephina Started conversation Dec 23, 2003
Very moving 
perhaps just as I can totally relate..but still 
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Vicki Virago - Proud Mother Posted Dec 23, 2003
Thank you 
All from personal experience...
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Serephina Posted Dec 23, 2003
Not a nice thing to be able to relay though! I was always picked on at school from primary right through.Though it gets better as you get older ,and so do they, you begin to treat people differentl, can't trust peoples motives towrds you etc..n in a way carry it on yourself I think.Much worse was the bullying at home, from when I was about 13 ,about the same time my Dad started drinking heavier to when i moved out at 21. He can still start now. Ex was more than a bit of a ba*tard too.bloody men!
The important thing is I'm still here..and so are you whatever it is you've been through!
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Vicki Virago - Proud Mother Posted Dec 23, 2003
The problem I had was my sister was very badly bullied through all her schooling life....I stuck up for her....did her fights for her....chastised anyone who chastised my sister. When she left school (she was older than me), they simply turned their attentions to me.
After I left school I made a promise to myself never to bully, but never ever stand back and let anyone do it to anyone else, least of all, me.
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Serephina Posted Dec 23, 2003
so many people do though.. i've never understood the mentality at all.
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Vicki Virago - Proud Mother Posted Dec 23, 2003
Thank you pheloxi
St Serephina - it's a power trip, pure and simple.
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Serephina Posted Dec 23, 2003
ok ,theres sometimes a power trip can be loads of fun..
but we're not talking about them are we!
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dasilva Posted Jan 9, 2004
s all round.
It's terrible to go through at any time, in any way.
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dasilva Posted Jan 10, 2004
I've been on here practically all day 
I had a lot of time to find it 
Been through it, not nice. Sticks and stones may break my bones but names will beat you down forever
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Serephina Posted Jan 10, 2004
depends on whose caling.. not sure i'll ever be able to forgive my dad..or my mum.
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dasilva Posted Jan 10, 2004
It was just schoolkids with me...but it effected the way I went on to relate to people, screwed up parents spoiling me rotten didn't help
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Serephina Posted Jan 10, 2004
Try emotional n occasionally physical abuse at home from about 13 yrs old onwards..in n out of shrinks throught teens..mum does nothing n even sometimes blames you plus bullies at school..numerous self harm attempts etc..
nearly had a break down at 16 , after a particular incident with m cousin..her boyfriend had just left her.. n i babysat whilst she went out one night. i often had her little girl..loved her like my own..n after this night babysiiiting her n the other kids at the house.. a week or two later i was arrested for suposedly abusing the litte girl who was 3 at the time!...all dropped obbviously as was just lies..to get lee back i suspect..bt still! the sh*t thats caused is endless.. she never took the lies back or admitted it. It was then at an out ptient day hospital i was diagnosed as having clinical depression n bpd.
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Serephina Posted Jan 10, 2004
neither did i really.. drink n little drugs later, but nah i dont think i can say i coped..nor with all since..
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- 7: pheloxi | is it time to wear a hat? | (Dec 23, 2003)
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